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jikooki · 5 years ago

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so stay in your line

i didn’t want this to be long but this is….. sad……

there shouldn’t be any different “lines” here, i think we should all be in the same “loving all 7 members and their friendship” line but that’s naive of me to think after seeing everything that goes down pretty much on a daily basis in this fandom lol. it’s really sad to see people take ships so seriously that they let it upset them if their otp doesn’t interact that much for a while, if any other ship interacts, whatever. i can’t tell you what to do, so if you wanna avoid all content that isn’t your ship and are happy like that go ahead ig but…. i highly recommend you take a step back if two members interacting triggers you enough to unfollow someone and even send them an ask about it, and come back when you’re able to appreciate all the friendships in the group bc i swear your experience stanning bts will be so much better. i believe being in a fandom should be something you do bc you love the artist and bc it brings you some kind of positivity in your life, but if you’re in so deep that this is no longer true and something as simple as 2 members being close makes you feel any kind of negative emotion then that’s…. bad.

#i always ignore rude asks but some people in this fandom have been bothering me quite a lot lately so i wanted to reply to this #to get it out of my chest #anyways anon i didn't wanna sound rude #i really hope everyone who for whatever reason has gotten into this constant fight mode mindset when it comes to ships or biases or whatever #can see that it's probably making their fandom experience much worse than it could be if they just... chilled #imagine seeing any other ship that isn't your otp interact and still be able to go 'CUTE' and not having to worry about #seeing your '''notp''' interact #sounds great right well it's not hard to be like that if you avoid following people who have a toxic mindset #bc in the end all this solo stans/ship/whatever drama wouldn't happen if it wasn't for some groups of toxic people spreading this mindset #i'm sad that for so long i've kept tk and some other non-km content on my likes only bc i knew this would happen #when i should've never cared since this is my blog lol but i'm me so it's taken a while for me to actually not care about what people think #and realize if someone doesn't support any member or ship that's their problem not mine #anyways idk if i made any sense bc i didn't sleep much last night and i didn't get to take a nap sdkfjd but yeah #pls don't start drama on my ask box bc of this ty #I'M SORRY I ALWAYS AVOID DRAMA AND NEGATIVITY ON HERE ok back to nice things

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