#please don't come into my inbox with hate i told y'all not to read it if you like them

[euphoricfilter]

I shouldn't be surprised at the amount of haters for gender fluid jk but like... Yeah, it's a work of fiction, first of all, its not that deep. Some of y'all are chill with a/b/o dynamics but not with playing with gender? 🤨 secondly, it's jungkook. THE jungkook. Are they telling me him possibly using different pronouns is a turn off? 🤨🤨🤨 that's so weird, the man could seriously be into feet and I'd still love him if he let me ((i dont mean to compare queerness with a fetish, it's just the example that popped up first)). i dont get queerphobia in general (bc we're just, ya know, existing??) But yeah, if you're not into something, scroll on? Mind your business?? Nobody is getting hurt here.

And their idea that you portraying him as queer is "dehumanising" is especially telling of their morals and I don't care for it at all.

Idk, you're doing amazing sweetie, we don't listen to the phobes, good job

i told my best friend when i started writing gender fluid jk that i just know someone’s gonna come in my inbox and be an absolute bitch about it. no joke, not even an hour after i posted the teaser someone had already said something. not even the full fic, just the teaser??

but that’s what i’m saying!! if you’re gonna get mad about me changing pronouns then why are they okay with jungkook as a hybrid, a/b/o, yandere, shitty mafia guy that murders people, a real mean bitch of a man that’s hella misogynistic. like ??? it’s a story, just like every other fan fic trope that exists that they’ve probably read?

boo hoo i made yoongi a lesbian 🍅 mega boooo because i gave jungkook he/they pronouns 🍅🍅🍅 suck my dick

it’s not that deep. and non binary, lesbian, gender fluid, gay, trans, all the works armys exist 🚶‍♀️be real, let everyone have a little fun sometimes, like i know within the community it’s not always easy to find fics that are completely relatable, and that’s why i love the representation

SERIOUSLY!!! disclaimer before i get weird people in my inbox again, but literally jungkook has never specified his pronouns. and that’s not me saying he should be nonbinary or gender fluid plus, once again since apparently it didn’t stick the first time, it’s a story

fictional jungkook isn’t gonna give you cooties because he’s gender fluid. he’s living his best life with his cutie partner 🚶‍♀️

LMAO i understand what you mean though, literally jungkook can be into whatever, or whoever, he can like what he wants, identity as what he wants and that’s not gonna throw me off, have you seen that guy. i would commit multiple war crimes for him

that’s what i said :( just unfollow me, block me even, i don’t care. it’s not that deep and i’m not gonna miss them at all.

it’s just, i guess upsetting that someone would come onto my page and say something that isn’t true about me when they clearly know nothing?? and then treat me like i’m the ignorant one 🚶‍♀️

i hope they know bts absolutely hates them for being queerphobic. yoongi has our back fr 🙏

yay thank you babes 🫂💕 kicking my legs and giggling or whatever because you’re so sweet. please accept a smooch ‼️ MWAH

[garalina2000]

I posted 10,803 times in 2022

That's 9,238 more posts than 2021!

95 posts created (1%)

10,708 posts reblogged (99%)

Blogs I reblogged the most:

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@thepsychedelicpsychotic

@goldenspirits

@shortgremlinman

@loverbear-butch

I tagged 779 of my posts in 2022

#feminism - 130 posts

#not safe for elsa - 60 posts

#lesbian - 35 posts

#pistachio - 23 posts

#iran - 22 posts

#lesbian positivity - 13 posts

#butch positivity - 10 posts

#unreality - 9 posts

#religion tw - 8 posts

#abuse tw - 7 posts

Longest Tag: 139 characters

#it's always up to the individual but remember not everyone has your best interests online and you're handing them some pretty powerful info

My Top Posts in 2022:

#5

Ahhh. Our interview is in 4 hours and we're so nervous we might implode?

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#4

Idk if the meme makes sense but PLEASE STOP FEEDING THE BODY'S ENERGY DRINK ADDICTION AT 10PM, JORDAN. WE'RE STILL SLEEPY BUT OUR HEART IS SO FUCKING FAST

*I'd like to note that right in the middle of making this I was told that Jordan and Claire both forgot the other drank an energy drink, so I'm not blaming either of them as hard, but still. Please. I'm begging y'all. Stop doing this to us. Also the last was drank at least four hours after the first, so they weren't like... back to back. But still. Here's to hoping 200mg of trazadone and 30mg of propranolol can cut through 700 or so mg of caffeine.

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Hey, just to broadcast our official system opinion on syscourse (we're all kind of divided on the issue, but this is the consensus we have come to) :

We'd rather not have endogenic blogs following us. I don't think we've seen any good evidence supporting systems being formed by things other than trauma (if anyone has evidence, feel free to share! I love learning new information, thinking critically and changing my mind), but even if endogenic systems could be proven to be real systems beyond a shadow of a doubt, we still wouldn't want endo interaction due to how much our trauma impacts every facet of our existence as a system, and how we would therefore rather have a community solely of people who are working on healing themselves and coping with an extreme form of PTSD than share those spaces with people who claim to be born with a fractured consciousness or willed one into existence. Those are just two groups who have different needs from their communities.

As for OSDDID supporters of endogenic systems, all opinions are welcome here, even ones we disagree with. If you take issue with any of what I posted, feel free to hop into our inbox and let us know*! I'm always open to friendly debate. Please be civil. No calling anti-endogenics t*****scum or s**med. The same goes in reverse, though, too! Anti friends, let's not treat pro-endo systems badly. If we see anyone not being civil, we will delete your comment/ask.

* - this also goes for anti-endos! If you took issue with anything I posted above, don't be shy! Please hop in our inbox and inform us!!

Xoxo,

Sophie and Elaine

13 notes - Posted January 30, 2022

#2

Anyway, I really don't get why y'all don't just block most of these vocal, hateful pro-endos (QA, Sophie, etc). Like, you're welcome to do what you'd like, it's your own online experience, after all, but they aren't listening to our arguments, aren't reading our sources, so why waste your energy talking in circles with these people?

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My #1 post of 2022

I noticed like... Right after we pressed 'send'

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[lunar-years]

Okay, first of all, please don’t read this if you love Rafael or are pro-Jafael... just don’t do that to yourself. Also, warning for season five spoilers. 

This is essentially an absurdly long rant post because I realized I’ve never fully articulated why I don’t like J*fael, and given the leaks/spoilers of the finale, I really want to just get out all of my thoughts out there about this horrible endgame. So here goes....

There are essentially two reasons I don’t like J*fael, the main one being that while I don’t think Rafael is fundamentally a bad person, I do think he is fundamentally bad for Jane. Neither of them are their best selves when they are together, and this has been shown time and time again on the show. The second reason is that J*fael would never work in the long-term, now in season five for the same reason they didn’t work back in season 1. Rafael as a person is incredibly self-centered, arrogant, and angry. He relies on unhealthy coping mechanisms and shuts people out if things don’t go his way. He needs to work through his own shit before he can be successful in any relationship, let alone one with Jane. 

The biggest problem I have with Rafael individually is that he doesn’t handle conflict maturely, and never has. Obviously he has been through a lot in his life that prevented him from developing healthy ways of coping, but as a grown ass adult that is merely an explanation and not a justification. Rafael never holds himself accountable, and he never gets the help he needs. Unfortunately, the people around him (cough Jane) all enable him in this, coddling him and never calling him out on his bullshit behavior. He’s fine as long as things are going his way, but as soon as he feels his happiness is threatened, he’s a lose cannon. This magnifies and manifests whenever he fears Jane is going to leave him.

His behavior in season five, for example, has been incredibly possessive and toxic. He’s acting like a child whose had his favorite toy taken away from him, instead of being mature enough to see things from Jane’s point-of-view for once. Her husband has come back from the dead, for pete’s sake!! Michael didn't leave, he didn’t run away, he didn’t hurt Jane intentionally in any way. He was taken, tortured, and left unaware of who he even was. His relationship with Jane didn’t come to end on purpose. Yet Rafael acts like Jane is crazy for not wanting to immediately divorce Michael, and kicks her out of their house when she voices her confusion and pain and uncertainty after he gets his memory back. It’s completely irrational on Rafael’s part, who is acting like Jane is an object he has won instead of a person with real emotions going through a very real trauma. Obviously Rafael being hurt by Jane possibly leaving him for Michael again and having his life suddenly turned upside down is all valid. What's irritating is him acting like his emotions and hurt matter more than other people’s. Jane had her husband taken away from her against her will. Meanwhile Michael, frankly, is the only one who has lost literally everything. Yet Rafael doesn’t spare a passing thought about Michael’s trauma but instead immediately diminishes it and appropriates it for himself (i.e. his bullshit “I’ve got my memories back too�� stance... which is just so problematic in so many ways but I digress). 

His behavior now that Michael is back also shades his behavior when Michael was “dead.” For someone who supposedly changed so much in the five years after Michael died, and who was there to help Jane through her mourning, Rafael sure reverted back fast to his old ways as soon as the “threat” against him and Jane reemerged. Rafael was fine so long as Michael was dead and no longer taking away from Raf’s personal happiness, but as soon as Michael returns he is back to being a selfish asshole. That doesn’t say much for Rafael’s “helping Jane through her grief” and almost makes it seem like all along it was just something he did just to win her back when he saw an open window for it. Being there for Jane when she was widowed means he knows just how deeply Jane loved Michael and just how long it took for her to heal from that loss. Yet he still acts like it should be easy for Jane to immediately cut Michael out of her life when he reappears. Yikes. 

The other infuriating thing about Rafael is his behavior and treatment towards his family. Rafael treats Louisa like shit. Flat out. He criticizes and judges her for her addictions despite struggling with alcohol reliance himself. He sells her out for his own gains, and he generally treats her with a “holier than thou” attitude that is incredibly irritating to watch and always has been. Then you have Petra and the twins. The scene when Petra calls Rafael out for treating her and their daughters like second class citizens is one of my absolute favorites because it’s so damn true and it’s about time Petra said it!! What’s annoying is that in the seasons since, Rafael has not learned from that confrontation or grown from  it. Whether he and Jane are together or not at any given moment, it is obvious that he will always put Jane and Mateo before Petra and the twins. That's terrible parenting, I'm sorry, but it is. He also plays “good parent” with Mateo all the time, making Jane do all the grunt work of punishing and correcting Mateo’s poor behavior while he excuses Mateo’s bad actions instead of teaching him how to do better (made especially obvious in the last episode...yikes yikes yikes.) 

Then there’s his relationship with Jane. Oh, J*fael. To be clear, I’ve shipped Villadero from the beginning, which probably made me biased about J*fael early on. Still, even when Michael was behaving horribly and the narrative was clearly urging viewers to root for Raf, I could never get behind him. To me, the Jane and Rafael attraction has always seemed so... surface-level. Like, they have a few wet dreams about one another and suddenly, because they’re accidentally having a kid together, they’re both fully invested in the idea of them being soulmates. In reality, Jane and Rafael have like, nothing in common. Seriously, what do these two talk about it? Rafael has proven multiple times that he doesn't respect Jane’s religion, he doesn't make any effort to see things from her less privileged life perspective, and he doesn’t really place any value in anything she values. They are quite possibly the blandest relationship on the show. The only thing they seem to have holding them together is Mateo. And the only thing they seem to do is to constantly have sex. 

My obviously subjective view about their chemistry (or lack thereof) aside, Rafael and Jane simply seem to bring out the worst in one another. When Rafael disagrees with Jane, he gets angry and irrational. He tries to handle disagreements by kicking and screaming, instead of facilitating civilized discussion. Jane, meanwhile, just cowers in front of him and takes it because she’s so “blinded by love.” I’m sorry, what?? After the way Rafael treated Jane last episode, putting their child between them, I do not see any scenario where the strong-willed, independent Jane from season one marries that guy a few months later, though apparently that’s what’s happening (*gag*). Rafael is constantly pressuring her to do things his way instead of actually listening to her and trying to understand her perspective. I will never understand why Jane goes back to Rafael when he continuously treats her in that sort of way. Rafael bases his entire self worth in Jane, yet at the same time he doesn't seem to actually value Jane’s thoughts and feelings. These are not the makings of a healthy relationship. Jane's behavior in season five has also been out of character, with her asking Jason to leave and saying she wished Michael had never come back. While Jane might not be in love with Michael/Jason five years later, especially when he is totally different to who he once was, you cannot make me believe she wouldn’t still love him and want to help him anyway that she could, even if she wants to be with Rafael. And she would definitely be grateful that he gets to live. The poor writing this season truly feels like the writers are simultaneously proving why J*fael doesn’t work and then forcing them together once they’ve already fallen apart.

I truly truly hate the idea that Jane is now going to go back to Rafael, who still hasn’t gotten help for his personal issues, and marry him at the end of this godforsaken season where he's been treating her terribly. For a show that I have always viewed as progressive and unique, this ending is one of the most baseless, fan-service endgames ever. Rafael using Mateo against Jane last episode was the final straw. After that i truly do not see any scenario where Jane would realistically go back to him. Rafael needs to grow up, wise up, and focus a little more on being a good father, friend and brother before I will ever believe that he would make a good husband. 

[missmonsters2]

Could you please write part for of what's one little kiss between friends. *Maybe with smut but don't feel pressured I'll be happy with anything*

iv. What's One Little Kiss Between Friends?

iv: Essays & Study Dates

Pairing: Natasha Romanoff x Fem!Reader

Note: Tis that day of the week again y'all! Thank you for the request. They're not quite there yet for smut but it's a ride none the less 😏

College AU set. Feel free to request the next part in my inbox!

part i || part ii || part iii

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The art of seduction comes easy to Natasha Romanoff.

There's no one she can't get, and as terrible as it sounds, she doesn't need to try.

It's simple, really. If she's interested in someone, that person is most definitely already interested in her. It's as easy as that.

So, for the life of Natasha, she cannot figure out why the fuck you and her aren't together.

Without asking you, Natasha can only come to a terrible conclusion: she had read the signs wrong.

"What are you doing?"

Natasha's view is promptly blocked as she sharply looks up to find Steve standing with his brows furrowed as he stares at her. She finds Bucky isn't too far behind.

Steve follows Natasha's line of sight and sees exactly what she is looking at.

"Really?" He sighs. "This is what it's come down to? You spying on her behind a bookshelf in the library while she studies?"

"I'm not spying," Natasha hisses at him. "I'm...carefully watching. She's supposed to be meeting Carol today to study. And as a friend, I just want to make sure she's safe."

Bucky looks at her with pity. "From Carol?"

"Yes!" Natasha nearly yells. "That's suspicious! Carol doesn't ever study unless it's studying the female anatomy!"

"And that's your business why...?" Steve mutters.

Natasha glares at him and hates how tall Steve is with his broad shoulders.

"Move your fucking saggy tits out of my way!" Natasha hisses at him.

The look Steve gives her is pure unadulterated insult.

"They're PECS and they are most definitely not saggy!" Steve looks down at his chest before to Bucky. "Tell her, Buck!"

But Bucky's too busy laughing. "I don't know, Stevie. Your left one could use a little work."

While covering his chest, Steve's sputters and Bucky's laughing, and they're both so fucking distracting.

"Oh my god, shut up, both of you!" Natasha huffs. "Bucky, you have no room to laugh when your forehead might as well be the ugly cousin of Steve's tits."

Now it's Bucky who starts sputtering to her, but she can see Carol strutting into the library. The blonde gives you a smile as she sits across from you and sets down her books.

"Move," Natasha abruptly says as she shoves past Steve and Bucky, nearly knocking them over in the process.

Steve and Bucky watch their friend leave with a sigh. She was always so vicious when she didn't get what she wanted.

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"Natasha?" You raised your brow as the redhead came up to the table.

"Oh, what a coincidence!" Natasha airily said. "I didn't know you'd be here with Carol. Well, since we're all studying, let me join you."

"You mean when I told you yesterday to your face we'd be studying for exams?" You sigh.

"I have exams too," Natasha sits as she pulls out her textbook from her bag. "I can study for my own course, don't mind me."

You look like you're going to say something else when Carol cuts in.

"It's fine," Carol assures you. "The more the merrier."

Natasha resists the urge to scrunch her nose up in displeasure.

You merely huff before you shrug.

The afternoon's spent uneventfully, and Natasha is reluctant to admit that Carol seemed to seriously need help just studying. The feeling of panic and jealousy dissipates until Natasha is left sitting quietly and unsurely.

"Thanks so much for helping me study," Carol sighs with relief as she packs up.

"No problem, helps me review too," you shrug.

"Let me know if there's anything I can do to pay you back," Carol says with no hidden meaning as she gets up. "I'll see you in class."

You nod with a wave.

Carol looks at Natasha. "It was good seeing you."

"You too," Natasha gives Carol a nod.

Once Carol is gone, you turn to Natasha, raising your brow.

"Really?"

"What?" Natasha says defensively. "I was studying."

"Right," you drag out. "That's why you've been staring at the same page for the last two hours. The diagram must really be hard to understand."

Natasha stares down at her textbook and almost sighs obscenities. She doesn't say anything as she closes her textbook with a grimace.

"Nat," you say slowly and carefully. "Are you jealous?"

Natasha's immediate instinct is to deny it vehemently. Jealousy was much too vulnerable to admit when she had no idea how you felt. But when she thinks about the anxiety she felt the last couple of weeks alone, Natasha knows she wouldn't survive the unsureness any longer.

So, with her pride and ego on the floor, Natasha grits out, "Yes."

Despite you asking, you seem surprised by her admittance. Natasha was many things, but jealousy was never one of them. After all, she never had anything worth being jealous over.

"Really," you mumble to yourself as you pull on the ends of your sleeve.

Natasha taps her index on the table impatiently. She calls your name softly, garnering your attention back to her. "Is there something holding you back from asking me out?"

You tilt your head at Natasha for a long moment before you give her an unimpressed look.

"Why does it have to be me who asks you out?" You cock your brow. "Perhaps it's time for miss popular to ask someone else out first."

It's like the cogwheels in Natasha's brains start turning.

"Oh my god," Natasha groans. "You're telling me you were waiting for me to ask you out?"

"I was the one to kiss you first," you say defensively. "It's your turn to pull your weight."

Natasha sighs heavily as she shoves yours and her things back into her bag.

"C'mon," she pulls you up. "I'm taking you on a date right now."

"I can see why you never ask anyone else now. You lack a lot of tact."

"I'll kiss you right here in the middle of this busy library if you don't shut up and let me pull my weight as you say."

Part 5

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★ Sincerely, Lee Know | Ver. 01

★ Summary: In an alternate universe where Lee Minho AKA Lee Know is a sassy blogger. You get to see with your very own eyes everything he documents on his blog, whether that's his thoughts on a recent movie he had just watched, his experience eating at Taco Bell for the first time, or the bitch he almost had to fight, Lee Minho will stop at nothing to get his points across.

★ Discretion: I hope it's not confusing, but this is a roleplay? I thought the idea would be fun. A lot of cursing and mature contents will be discussed, but nothing too over the top. Beware excessive cringe maybe. This is a series. Enjoy!

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Hi, my name is Lee Know, or I guess if we're getting personal here: Lee Minho. Although I prefer Lee Know because people always get me confused with the actor Lee Minho.

I rant and complain A LOT, but I don't think I need to tell you that, because you'll be finding it out for yourself later. But I have the mouth the size of the pacific ocean, and holding back is the last thing Lee Know does. So if you're a sensitive little bitch, then do not continue any further. If you still do and proceed to come for me, then well... that's between you and god.

More about myself? Well... I'm just your average everyday guy, but better. I like to listen to music and dance on my free time. And when I'm not doing that, then I usually hang out with my crew. They can be real idiotic and sometimes I wonder why am I even putting myself through their shit, but they are the real homies. Have been with me since forever and I know they will always have my back, so watch out.

Why I started this blog? Well, funny story. I got into an argument with Chan one day, btw shoutout to @christopherbangcorner go follow and like his stuff. I know he told me to not tell anyone about his blog but I could give two shit. Anyways, we were arguing and he said to me "You run that mouth of yours so much, why don't you put it to good use for once." so here I am. So if you're interested, keep reading. If you're just coming here to hate on me, then well... that's going to be difficult because I'm quite a likable person if I say so myself. I'm just kidding... ish.

Anyways. That's that. Proceed with caution!

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I swear, hoes these days be thirsty asf. Me and Hyunjin just wanted to go to the convenience store to get some things Chan's lazy ass ordered us to, and we legit got followed the whole way there. ARE PEOPLE LITERALLY THAT JOBLESS! Leave us alone next time or don't say I didn't warn you when I whip out my asian slipper and slap every one of you so hard you're going to regret ever meeting me in this lifetime. And like, aren't you guys supposed to be in class right now? Go back, Jesus. Bet every one of y'all are failing. How would your mothers feel if she knows you're ditching class to go chase some dicks.

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Yo, I just suddenly remembered the rudest customer I ever had. So I used to work at this Boba shop during my high school days, and this motherfucker with his cupcake shaped hair jimmy neutron looking ass came in and started yelling at me for getting his order wrong. Like bro... why you tryna fight a 16 year old about a $4 drink. Chill tf out. There are children dying in Africa. Now that I think about it, 16 year old me was on some adult shit. 22 year old me now would've spit in his drink.

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Learn to wear a goddamn mask. I will not repeat myself. You ain't no Rosa Parks, you just a stupid headass. Do all these people really think they're doing sum?

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