#piss and play packer ftm

[rat-packer]

about rat-packer🍵18+

Hey hotties! My alias on here is rat-packer or just rat.

FTM, and use he/him. I’ve been on T for 2 years!💉simultaneously agenderfluid and a man

I’m bi/pan with a fluctuating preference.

I’m a switch, just doing what feels good in the moment

other identifiers are white, 5’7 (basically 5’10 in trans man) aspiring to be a buff and tatted pierced guy, very masculine but not afraid to be flamboyant in expression.

the horny part / boundaries

18+ blog! I write and draw lewd stuff!

My DMs and asks are open to your deranged ass! If I don’t answer I either don’t feel like it or it crossed a boundary. Don’t take it personal!

This is what I like:

exhibitionism

public play

intox play (mostly weed)

temp play

roachification

humiliation

some types of cnc, always free use

hypno

himbos/bimbos/thembos

force masc

impact (hitting biting licking)

orgies/multiple people

creampie, breeding (no preg)

prejac

pet play (dog and cat boys/girls, predator/prey)

breath play

sometimes bondage

and more that I don’t wanna post about

basically everything above is stuff I’m comfortable drawing/writing about!

hard limits are:

age play

detrans/misgendering

in cest

scat, piss, blood

feederism

cis STRAIGHT men, cis chasers

[tomhasatransblog]

I haven't dared to start chopping up my new freetom yet... I went back to wearing my old snoop one and honestly I can't believe it was even made by the same company. And now I'm wearing my CalExotics one again and it's also pretty good, probably my favourite balance of comfort and stp-ability.

So I'm annoyed that I impulse bought the robin hood. And I'm thinking should try to sell it rather than "fix" it, because even if I scrape the walls of it really thin I'm doubtful it'll ever be anything like my snoop. But at the same time I'd feel guilty selling something I don't consider wearable to anyone else.

Did freetom used to offer "soft" and "hard" versions of their stps? I have a dim recollection they did. I think my snoop must have been soft, and when I bought the new one there wasn't an option and it's clearly "hard".

And here's a related rant:

I'm also just pissed off that SO MANY packers and stps on the market are just fucking huge. Often because they're 3 in 1 or whatever, but sometimes they're not even. If you want a soft packer so big that you look like you've got a boner all the time, that's just stupid, I'm sorry. You'll look ridiculous, and if you don't pass otherwise it won't even help, you'll just look like some androgynous pervert with a dildo in their pants, seriously.

Why is this even the way things are? Is it that ftms have only ever seen erect dicks in porn or whatever and don't even know how small a flaccid package is? Ftms feeling the need to overcompensate and not realising that a 6" soft cock is absurd? Is it cis men making these products thinking "well I'd want a big one of I were them"? Is it because everyone wants a pack and play type prosthetic which does clearly need to be bigger? I just don't know, but I hate the way things are.

As a passion project I'd love to set up my own prosthetic company, maybe I will one day...

[transmen-and-things]

Ways To Relieve Dysphoria FTM

Top Dysphoria

Wear a sports bra and a large hoodie, this probably reduce the visibility of your chest

Feel in the middle of your chest where it's flat

Lay on your stomach with your chest on a pillow, it will feel flatter

Bottom Dysphoria

If you don't have a packer you can use a pair of socks, one of those squishy toys, or make a DIY packer

Wear loose pants (ex. sweatpants) so the fabric won't rub against you

Sit/lay with your legs apart to prevent your thighs from touching and making it worse

If you don't have a STP you can piss standing up in the shower

Being Misgendered/Birthname

Talk to someone who knows you're trans and uses the write name and pronouns

Get someone else (or do it yourself) to tell you things like "you're handsome" or "you're the man"

Make a nametag for yourself with your chosen name on it and wear it when others aren't around

Shark Week Dysphoria

Use pads instead of tampons so you don't have to mess around in there as much and can give a slight bulge if placed right

Try to avoid cramps as much as possible with painkillers and heating pads to not be reminded by it as much

Voice Dysphoria

Try lowering your voice in one of two ways: one, hum as deep as possible, tilt your hold back as you keep humming, and bring your head back down while still humming. two, stand up straight against a wall with the back of your head firm against the wall and begin talking

Use an app/website that alters your voice to make it deeper

Talk slower and softer, this should make your voice a little deeper

General Dysphoria

Use men's toiletries (ex. deodarant, shampoo, hair gel, etc.)

Dress in the most masculine clothing you have

Sit in a masculine way (legs spread or one ankle on the other thigh)

Engage in typically masculine activities (ex. watching sports, fixing things, playing video games)