#personally i corrected by trying to become morally unassailable but can't really recommend that path so i get it

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feel like a lot of child-adults (pathologically terrible roommates, people who solicit donations on less and less credible grounds, etc) aren't spoiled but are rather people whose sense of guilt was activated so often so early on that guilt became noise. they're terrible and they know it but the guilt levels have been the same their whole life and they can't imagine life without it