#part of vex and vax's arc was to let go of their co-dependent relationship
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While I enjoy romantic imodna and would celebrate with the rest of you were they to become canon, my preference leans toward platonic, largely because we so rarely get to see relationships this deeply intense and all-encompassing as platonic. A character's significant other, their life partner, their Person, is almost always also their romantic partner.
But you know what’s even rarer? Romantic and platonic being portrayed side by side, co-existing and equally important, because you can love and share your life with more than one person. Most of the time, the characters have to choose. Vex and Vax split to live with their romantic partners long before Vax's untimely end. Caleb and Veth separate to different cities. The narrative forces Yasha and Molly apart.
Imogen and Laudna are each other’s People. But they have also talked about attraction toward other's in the past (and more recently, Laudna's crush on Ira). What would it look like if one or both of them got romantically involved with someone else, but without letting it change their connection? Could we see something almost like a polyamorous relationship, with one romantic life partner and one platonic, where they are never made to choose one over the other?
So many stories and fan-metas uplift the romantic as superior. The few that don’t instead uplift the platonic. But they don’t need to be pitted against each other. You can have more than one important person in your life. I'd love to see that portrayed.
#critical role#cr3#imogen temult#laudna#southern gothic#time to have thoughts out loud on main#i should be working but I'm tired lets write jumbled character meta instead#also to make clear this isnt meant to be bashing other relationships mentioned above#part of vex and vax's arc was to let go of their co-dependent relationship#caleb and veth wanted very different things out of life by the end#yasha and molly were pulled apart by fate and bad luck#i'd just really enjoy seeing this very particular balance of romantic and platonic portrayed#bonus book recs for those also looking for stories with this romantic platonic balance:#eelgrass by tori curtis#(it's f/f!)#and the last sun by k.d. edwards#(it's m/m!)#bc i take every chance i get to throw book recommendations at people#nella talks cr
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