#or pop in the DMs here - I'm not picky

[talesfantastic]

Picking up the Pieces | Anya & Tseng

@reapersxfolly asked:

Happy Birthday! Also; Dealer's choice :]

You have no idea how much I've wanted to test Anya out with a fellow Turk, let alone such a solid Turk RPer. Thank you for the present, Mae. (You can find her here). HMU if I need to change anything. I read your stuff and this felt ok?

Veld was dead. It was hard to process that as real. She had a feeling he was going to get himself killed, a feeling that had settled in the back of her mind like the rumble of low thunder in the distance when Vincent had been declared MIA, then KIA. The rumbles had grown stronger, at times. After Kalm.

It had finally brought lightning when he found Elfe, and she had known he was lost to them. Her gaze turned to the one he had groomed to be his replacement one day, her loyalties -- always to the Turks -- followed. And when the dust began to settle, she did a little housekeeping of the academy, mindful that there was a chance they would tell her to stop training Turks, and that then she would have to initiate certain protocols that had long lain dormant. That was a problem for another day.

Instead, she composed a full and detailed report of Junon activities -- more complete than she'd have bothered Veld with, but she and Tseng did not have the same history; he needed to know she was firmly on his side -- and submitted it directly to Tseng through secure channels it would never dawn on Heidegger to check.

She didn't know if Tseng would be given the Director's chair or if they'd make the mistake of trying to keep them from rebuilding, but with Veld out of the picture, Tseng was her director now as far as it mattered. She had been around too long for anyone to honestly expect otherwise.

So she sent the reports, and then, in place of her usual signature, said,

When you call, I will answer Shiv

[silvercaptain24]

Introduction

Hello! Call me Silver, or Cap, or Silv -- whatever nickname you like, idc and I'm not picky.

No NSFW, please.

Non-denominational Christian, but I'm not here for hate, fighting, or politics. Just don't. I'm here to have fun and be around people who like the same sort of things I do. This includes leaving me out of fandom drama stuff.

Fandoms and blorbos: There's too many! Biggest ones right now are Genshin Impact and Honkai Star Rail, but other interests will still pop up every once and a while. If the person is blonde, a pathetic wet cat of a man, needs therapy, or is just baby -- that's probably my blorbo.

At one point in time I had a Masterlist of fics. That failed immediately cause I never updated it... 98% of my writing can be found on my Ao3 -- there's one or two things I might experiment with being just on tumblr in the future, however. On Tumblr, my writing tag is #Silver Writes.

Every once and a while I'll do art - that gets tagged with #Silver does art???

Nicknames will, in fact, happen. Unless you are extremely opposed, in which case let me know. DM's are closed to people who aren't moots -- please don't get huffy, that's a personal thing. I'm glad to talk to new people, but I much prefer asks for things like that.

#Silver Rambles is my vent tag, please feel to block, I'll usually also couple it with the #vent tag.

Part of the Hurricane Family, which means too many siblings and kiddos to count, so I'm not even gonna try to tag 😅 Y'all know who you are 💙

Any blorbo bedtime happenings with @anadorablekiwi and @onceuponaladye don't get tagged - mostly because I'm bad at tagging anyways and it's usually late when they happen.

Asks are still being wacky -- I'll usually get them, but every once and a while they still get eaten.

Header by @treasure-goblin, pfp by @ghostycrowagain

[growling]

please give us the tea on the warrior cats ships!!!

I'll go first by saying Mothpool is overhyped and Leafpool had more chemestry with Cinderpelt. (in my opinion, ship what you like!)

:3c !!! Didn't think anybody would actually ask I am gonna gonna ramble now.. Separating this into pos and neg opinions

Positive:

I did think of leafcinder before and thought it was cute but not really something I'll get passionate about (i tend to be very picky on these kinda age gap/mentor x apprentice ships), now that I'm reminded of it I can really see it! They would have a great dynamic (taking tnp cinderpelt personality into account here. tbh her in tpb and her in tnp are almost different characters to me... where's your whimsy girl...), and honestly, there are almost endless options for Leafpool ships (she interacts with so many cats woagh that's crazy for this series she actually has friends??) that have more chemistry than crowpool. I mean it's fine I guess from a strictly plot perspective (and even that's well. bendable) but why is Leafpool, 30 cat years after their breakup, dead, in cat heaven, STILL deeply in love with cat Clay Puppington. I know they will get back together in StarClan because the authors absolutely love them and think they popped off writing their romance subplot they think they created a banger. Sorry this veered off into negative can't help being a hater.

hollyjaylion, leafsquirrel and bramblehawk are the three shipcest pairings I will never be able to be normal about. Canon to me. I say this as if I'm joking but I'm serious oughhh the goddamn dynamics. On a joking note though, graysky. there is no healthy nothing to see here just bro supporting his bro explanation for whatever the hell gray wing's problem was this entire arc

spottedtiger is cool it's interesting it's mindblowing it saves lives and it's haters are sooo silly I am sorry... "but spotted is his aunt according to the family tree!!!!" ok. and is this made relevant in the books at all? do they ever even acknowledge these two as kin. It's so pointless.. draw them making out

why's the fandom turning on darktiger suddenly now because they're still related (which is not even relevant or explicitly pointed out in the books and them being related was only decided way after both of their arcs together were done I. ughhhh.) wasn't this your favourite little henchman x fascist dictator toxic yaoi ship just a few years ago?? cowards. draw them making ou- ah wait that's just dark being obsessed with tiger, who on the other hand would RATHER NOT he wants that useless lickspittle OBLITERATED he doesn't CARE

ivyhawk good she could fix him. or he can make her worse. once again the fandom are major cowards for turning on it just like they did with darktiger, but much, much more aggresively so. like you people need to calm tf down just take deep breaths it's just a warrior cat ship...

people complaining about dovetiger's age gap (which are commonplace in the wc series tiger is not alone in dating apprentices) are so boring. they actually have the most wholesome dynamic in the current era/arcs I'd argue. they're in love and I love them. as a ship and both as characters.

fallenholly had the option to be one of THE best dubiously-canon wc pairings to come out of this series had they just went the direction of making fallen actually somewhat more messed up after being trapped as a ghost in the torment tunnels for cat centuries like. I remember someone else wording this really well earlier but I'm not really gonna search so just. Yeah. fallen leaves ships.

leopardtiger is hilarious I don't care. she thinks he's sooo correct and intelligent and truly the enlightened sigma worthy of the tigerclan podcast throne while also poisoning his food because he's fucking pissing her off in their side twitter dms and plotting his demise every night while he's snork mimimi'ing next to her in their kitty political marriage cuddle pile. ben shapiro x pragerU fucking ship I hope they kill each other

mudhawk... funny... seriously WHY is the fandom picking the most interesting goddamn ships to get pissed off at and call "problematic"??????? "age gap" THEY WERE BOTH ADULTS WHEN THEY MET WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU ON LET HAWK MANSPLAIN MANIPULATE MANFUCK THAT OLD MAN

I didn't read AVoS in it's entirety (and don't want to. it's... boring for the most part. I mean I love violet but is she enough to make me keep reading all that.) and don't remember if they even had any notable interactions but violetpuddle is very cute and my favourite (and, honestly, only) option for their ships. puddle's mother suckled violet but they don't consider each other "real" siblings just like how their mother doesn't consider violet as her daughter but try telling that to the fandom who can't distinguish between wet nurse arrangement, foster siblings and adopted siblings. Proud only resident of violetpuddle nation...... literally nobody else is here...

Negative: (gonna start censoring the cat/ship names now)

so correct moth.pool overhyped and their fans annoying. and also because I headcanon moth as aroace like there is not a single romantic thought in her body I cannot ever imagine her in a relationship moth don't care.

*takes a deep breath* mouse.fur is not aroace. tall.star, raven.paw and barley aren't gay. authorial statements made 10 years ago at some con ARE NOT CANON. IF IT'S NOT IN THE TEXT IT'S NOT CONFIRMED CANON. Also the latter examples also reek of biphobia lol. you can ship any of these characters with anyone forever, what is any of you people's problem.

long.fire, shadow.root, holly.cinder, bright.cloud, jay.kestrel are boring yaaawn I am falling asleep and do not see it. same with sandfire; these two did not have the groundbreaking dynamic (nor was sand that uh, well-rounded as character) you think they did you're just nostalgic. I actually prefer spottedfire and cinderfire over sandfire. anything over sandfire.

hawk.ash pisses me off because their shippers are always "hahahaha toxic yaoi sooo fucked up they make each other worse!!" but show them an actual toxic pairing and they immediately shit themselves and call you an abuse fetishizer. COWARDS you lot are COWARDS and this is why I cannot get behind hawk.ash at all like I associate them with the most annoying people so much I cannot sorry. I'm sure it's a cool ship or whatever

I actually got tired and now am too sleepy to articulate myself properly anymore but still here are the other ships that I either dislike or just plain out hate seeing: fern.ivy, alder.needle, crow.squirrel, bristle.root, bramble.squirrel (but that's a very popular one lol), lion.cinder.

thanks for the ask! :3

[soft-subby-boi]

Intro

Hey everyone! I go by Beck.

25 yo, they/he, sub (in case the username doesn't make it abundantly clear). I'm ace and tend to have periods of sex repulsion, so my activity on here might be sporadic. Nonbinary trans man.

Owned by @magisteramentia

Usual disclaimers: no minors, age in bio, be respectful.

DMs and asks are open, but no pictures please.

Kinks (in no particular order):

Hypno

Orgasm control (inc. edging, denial, overstim)

Bondage

Praise

Intox (mostly weed)

Some petplay (mostly puppy play) but I'm a bit picky about it.

This page is my place to experiment as well, so it's almost guaranteed that new kinks will pop up from time to time. I'll try to keep this updated, but no promises.

Pet Names:

Good boy / sweet boy / pretty boy / fuckboy / really any "boy" variant

Pup / puppy / pet

Slut / edgeslut

Toy

Terms for my anatomy:

Dick / cock

Cunt

Chest (no other words for this area please!!)

I may reblog stuff that calls me a woman/girl or references AFAB anatomy (other than "cunt" obviously). These are words I can feel comfortable applying to myself from time to time, but others MAY NEVER use them for me unless given my direct permission.

Thanks, and enjoy! 🩵

[dustified]

NAME : dust PRONOUNS : he/they NAME OF MUSE(S) : kenny mccormick, marceline abadeer, & heidi turner (to name just my non-request canon muses!); request muses include oz & damien from monster prom, prismo from adventure time / fionna & cake, and jane doe from ride the cyclone! (more canon muses are on their way, patience here please!) PREFERENCE OF COMMUNICATION : discord for sure, mutuals can get my username thru tumblr DMs EXPERIENCE / HOW LONG ( MONTHS / YEARS? ) : roleplaying in general, about 15ish years by now? online, just short of a decade BEST EXPERIENCE : probably here? i've definitely made my closest online friends thru various tumblr rpcs, hell i've met my current boyfriend because of the tumblr rpc. out of all the fandoms tho i'd have to say the south park rpc, i've seen some takes that i'm not a fan of ngl but i personally have yet to see outright drama within the rpc, that's huge in my opinion RP PET PEEVES / DEALBREAKERS : force shipping (i don't mind unrequited plots, but once it gets to a point where it seems like my muse is constantly telling yours "no", or i keep getting asked about it, that's where i kinda draw the line), excessive callout posting (if something is posted within good reason and reliable evidence, understandable, keep the rpcs safe, but if it's ongoing drama with unreliable sources or narrators i'm out), and constant pestering for replies especially when it comes to secondary / request / low activity muses (i am slow and have muse biases! i will not apologize for this). MUSE PREFERENCES FLUFF, ANGST OR SMUT : i like to say "everything i touch turns to angst" but it IS a joke. i'm a fan of well-roundedness! i love slice-of-life fluff and softer threads, i love action-packed painful angst threads, i love comedic sometimes one-liner crack threads. smut i'm not the best at, especially in para-style, i'm extremely picky over who i'll write smut with. PLOTS OR MEMES : both, both are good. i work better off the fly, my brain's pretty scattered on the norm and the ideas that pop in my head are almost never fully fleshed out (at least they don't feel fleshed out very well), so plotting can get a little hard for me. but i do like both!! especially if we can get a good plot going. LONG OR SHORT REPLIES : i mostly prefer longer replies, but as i said in the previous answer, i got bad scatterbrain most days. i take pride in any day i can get more than one reply written ngl lol BEST TIME TO WRITE : later in the day, think late afternoon to evening. typically depends on the day tho, work days get wonky because my job is fairly boring, my brain starts to wander and think about threads... ARE YOU LIKE YOUR MUSE(S) : i have this thing where i only pick up muses i relate to in AT LEAST one aspect (/hj) sooooo... yeah, i think i'm like my muses. at least a little bit.

tagging: swiped from @prcspcr as he requested lol tagging: yall <3

[gleekingdom]

I'm looking to rp with this oc I haven't really gotten a chance to be much yet. And my character isn't Darren, Darren Criss is just his faceclaim because I like to imgaine him portraying the character ( I know he won't actually do that though XD)

I usaully like to rp B X B Ships

That would cool to rp with someone who had a oc of the faceclaim grant gustin but I'm not picky as long the ship is B x B

I'm Autistic and dylexic so if your against that for some reason, okay don't roleplay with me then thanks. ^^

I'm not comfortable with NSFW so please keep this pg13 I am 20+ but I'm not comfortable with that stuff.

if you are interested to rp with him then dm me here and I'll give you my code so we can rp on Discord.

Name

Alex Spector, Alex

Nicknames

Alex, Spec, Specs (you can make up more in rp)

Age

20- 35

Birthday

April 6th

orientation

Bisexaul ( Male lean)

Zodiac

Taurus ♉️

Height

5'7

...Taits

 positive  . . . Laid back on the outside/ Friendly/ Deep thinker

 neutral  . . . Acts sure of himself even when hes 

not/ a bit of a hopeless romantic/ mysterious 

negative  . . . Doesn't go outta his way to meet new people/ Over thinks

•Personality in a bit more detail

- He acts very sure of himself and sure of what he's doing. And yes well at times he is sure sometimes it's much more of an act. He's not shy and infact can be rather bold. But he's not fully self-assured about himself and questions things deeply, like meaning behind simple things or just life, but at times that gets him to really overthink things and misread a situation.

I think in a way he wants the attention from other people too, but also doesn't want to be variable around them he wants to seem like he's always well rounded and good and doesn't have any problems or things that will worry others. He's kind and cares for people but doesn't usaully go out of his way to become close with other people and though bold can be rather quite especially when deep into his thoughts.

If your mean to him though he won't just take it, he'll stand up for himself, and might say something mean back but he usaully doesn't strike first.

And he is quite the bit of a hopeless romantic, but he's not sure if something like that could ever happen to him. Plus he kinda closes parts of himself off from his band, from people who want to be his friends and even his own family (( Emotionally damaged))

Don't read this part if you just wanna find out rping with him || He's Very Emotional so when he's happy he lights up, when he's sad he's really really down and when he's mad- I think you get it||

He's kinda complicated, at least to me so it's hard to explain his whole personality

And he might be austistic coded and if he is it wasn't intentional I'm just autistic so Idk ( I'm not against him being austistic that was just not my original intent for the character, but I do have other ocs that are austistic. I just like making my characters different from eachother)

Likes

•Space aesthetics

•the Theater/ like plays and musicals

•music/ his favorite kind is jazz pop and rokin roll

•getting his nails painted ( he's not girly he just likes his nails looking fancy)

•Fried chicken / organe chicken

•Favorite colors are red and purple 💜 ❤️

•Concerts

•Reading well mostly of anything

• likes to go to parties weather it's like dancing crazy parties/ or fancy parties

•Just hanging out

•Doing street or wall art

Dislikes

the way he overthinks sometimes

Being told he can only be one thing/ being put in a social latter box

people who whine for things but never work for it

the color organe thinks it looks unflattering

Fears

•Not being good enough at anything

•losing the things that are important to him

•Rodents

Hoddies

• Going to parties

• playing violin / gituare

• getting ready overly early for things like his jods/ interviews/ dates

• Reading

• Listening to music

ambitions• To be a famous singer with his band

occupation•  Singer of his band 'North star' ( he probably has side jods on the side)

Family realionships

Mother

Ellison Spector

His mother and who he is closest to in the family. She loves both of her sons treating them equal. He does many favors for his mom and loves her very Dearly.

Father

John Spector

John wasn't looking for another child after Arnold his oldest, so he never really cared much for Alex. But Alex still wants to win over his father in some way.

Older brother.

Arnold Specter- he's only three years older

His Dads favorite and in Alex's eyes the one who can do no wrong and who somehow wins every trophy and is skilled how can Alex compete with that. There realionship is well rocky at best, more so closed off on Alex's side then Arnold's side, Arnold tries to have a good realionship with his brother.

He lives in a apartment now but I just felt those realionships are kinda important and kinda is part of what made him who he is.

Thank you if you read all of that 😊

There still is a bit to tell about him but you'd find out if you rped with him.

[id0what1want]

Bio Post!!

| Ectoskeleton/Skelly | ✦ | 18 | ✦ | she or they | ✦ | AuDHD | ✦ | AroAceSpec/Bi | ✦ | Pokemon yapper first and foremost |

Hihi!! I somehow forgot to do a bio, whoops. Wellll, this blog is my main and will most likely be my spot to talk about whatever Pokémon shenanigan I'm cooking up in my head. I am an oc x canon lover and defender, if you don't like it, uh. What are you doing here? I do like canon ships as well and will hear anything out that makes sense, though I tend to be picky.

The focus of this blog started with my ScarVi player character, Cereza, and I'm definitely not finished with her. Her fic is just a monster to plan and tackle, so teasers and other posts about her might sporadically pop up here and there. If I write/draw anything, y'all will know.

I'm probably gonna use this as my writing dump and just mess around and have fun, I hope whatever I cook up will be as fun to read as it was to write :3

I won't do NSFW of minor characters cuz ha, nasty, though I can't guarantee NSFW things won't be mentioned (not in detail) just cuz like come on, we've all been teenagers before. I didn't just avoid saying the word sex until I turned 18, teens talk and they date, but I won't write anything of actual sexual happenings. I like to write realistically, meaning not too prudish but also not sexual just for the sake of it.

In terms of DNI, I mean. Don't be weird. I'm chill if you're chill. I'd say this space is safe for minors in terms of consuming my content, though I want to be abundantly clear that I prefer asks to DMs from minors, for safety purposes. I'm not a skeevy person, but you don't know that!! Internet safety, babes :> Aside from that, I'm chatty if it wasn't obvious already, comment or DM or ask, just chat with me about wtv!

I might be open to requests based on the asks, I like imagines of my own characters and/or canon characters so if there's anything y'all wanna see, I wanna hear it! I'll consider it! I take ship asks within reason as well as X Reader! Rarepairs are welcome and encouraged! We have fun here, I hope :>

More OCs are gonna drop soon, I've always got one that's in the kitchen cookin' up constantly though Cereza is my main baby forever, I lover her. Tell me about y'all's ocs too! They can all be friends :>

TLDR, be safe, ✨do whatever you want forever✨, and have the most fun!

[famefckr]

❝    i'm    really    glad    you    were    able    to    make    it.    i    know    we    both    have    sorta    consuming    jobs.    not    that    they're    really...    jobs.    interests,    i    guess    would    be    a    better    word.    i'm    just    glad    everything    aligned    right    so    you    could    come.    ❞    she    says,    rambling    just    a    bit.    she    gets    flustered    when    he's    around.    she    does    her    best    not    to,    but    she    can't    help    the    way    he    makes    her    feel    when    he    gets    close.    her    heart    races    and    her    palms    start    to    sweat.    she's    not    nervous,    but    the    reaction    her    body    has    to    that    much    excitement    is    almost    the    same.    ❝    yeah,    i    guess    you're    right.    pop-pop    says    i've    never    been    able    to    take    a    compliment.    ❞    she    says,    a    soft    giggle    falling    past    her    lips.    she    does    think    that    clover    is    the    one    that    should    take    the    credit,    but    he's    right    in    saying    that    she    put    in    the    work    to    get    her    ready    to    compete.    she    blushes    at    his    next    words,    more    compliments    from    the    sweetest    man    she's    ever    met.    he's    been    so    good    to    her    since    she    slid    into    his    dms.    the    last    time    she'd    tried    to    message    someone    through    dms,    she'd    gotten    a    barrage    of    photos    she    definitely    did    not    want.    drew    was    nice.    they'd    immediately    hit    it    off,    and    when    they'd    finally    met    in    person,    she    felt    so    at    home    with    him.    ❝    well,    i    guess    that    depends    on    what    you're    in    the    mood    for.    there's    a    nice    steakhouse    over    on    the    other    side    of    town,    there's    a    burger    place    less    than    a    mile    from    here,    but    that's    gonna    be    overrun    with    all    the    competitors    leaving    now    that    all    the    events    are    over.    there's    a    sushi    place,    too,    and    i    think    there's    a    little    hole-in-the-wall    mexican    restaurant    that's    supposed    to    be    pretty    good.    i'm    not    picky.    i'm    just    excited    that    you're    not    going    back    to    your    hotel    immediately    after    all    this    to    scrub    all    the    dirt    off.    although,    maybe    we    should    clean    up    if    we    go    to    that    steakhouse...    ❞

( @famefckr )

he can't help but want to keep this going. daisy's cool- and the more they talk... and they've been talking a lot- the more he likes her. it's nice.    ❝    well i mean- you're great dais- of course i wanna come see you. thanks again for the invite.    ❞    he grins. as she deflects the responsibility for the performance to clover, he just shakes his head good naturedly.    ❝    i get it- but i mean- you've put in all this work with her- helping get her ready... you did this too. don't be too humble for your own good.    ❞    she deserves her flowers. he really should've gotten flowers... he'll get some later, bring them to her tonight. especially if this is heading in the direction he thinks it is- a lot more dinner date than just dinner.    ❝    i don't have to do much to make you look good. you just do.    ❞    he winks.    ❝    but no- i'd never post anything you wouldn't be happy with, promise.    ❞    he holds his hand up.    ❝    okay great- cool. i think you're more familiar with this town than i am- any preferences?    ❞    

[shotofchaos]

it’s been a long time since i popped on here but that rp bug is back full force so i’m reaching out to anyone who might be interested in writing with mox or dean. i’ll write any incarnation of him: indies, wwe or aew. i have some info listed on my blog but it might be outdated by now so i’ll go over the basics.

i prefer m/m pairings but an exception can be made if an idea or m/f pairing is interesting enough.

i prefer to write on discord so if you like this message i’ll reach out to ask for your discord info. also feel free to just dm me with your discord name or pop it into the comments below.

i’m not super picky over who to write him against but i have my faves: roman, seth, hangman, kenny, etc. i’ve done a lot of dean/seth pairings though so i’d like to try some others as well!

i’ll do non-kayfabe, kayfabe or au based storylines. if you have ideas, feel free to share them or we can brainstorm something together.

if any of this sounds interesting to you, reach out! i’m very friendly and i’m just here to write and have a good time. if i'm in your tag and you hate rp accounts please just block my ass. thanks.

edit to add my discord info if you feel more comfortable just adding me: shotofchaos#9122

[seongyoonjoong]

I grew up pretty well being proud that I was different and odd and weird. I liked not being like everyone else. Yes, there were times where I wished I was more like others and wasn't able to be. But *shrug* whatever, that's just how I was. Never handed my homework in on time, if I handed it in at all or even completed it. It was like pulling teeth to get me to do chores. Even though I knew it would take 5 minutes, I knew I should do it... but I just didn't. It was never out of spite, I just couldn't. I was easily emotional, people yelled, I cried and was called sensitive. I got tired quickly in social situations. I was a picky eater and would get lectures and made to "try" food I knew I didn't/wouldn’t like. I got angry and upset when I saw someone doing something wrong.

Always told I was lazy, stupid, not trying hard enough, picky eater, too emotional, sensitive, talks too much....

I didn't realise what I was doing at the time as I got older. I held myself back from talking. Allowed others to talk over me as I was afraid they'd get angry if I stopped them or cut back in. Just shrugged when people around me complained that I never talked to them anymore. I didn’t want to annoy them by talking too much. Life was fine because that's just how it was, how I was...

Until covid happened and I saw so many tiktoks pop up on my fyp. People talking about their lives and struggles they were going through. I was like... shit that sounds like me, must be a coincidence... until things just matched up too perfectly.

I was officially diagnosed with combined type of adhd. I'm not lazy, I struggle with doing tasks that don't spark joy or that I have no motivation for. I'm not stupid, I take in and retain information differently than others. I am a picky eater, but not because I'm stubborn or want to be difficult, but because I have a problem with some textures and I have my comfort foods. I talk a lot because my brain runs a mile a minute and I need to get it all out. It took me two hours to fall asleep every night because brain wouldn't be quiet. I get overwhelmed, over stimulated and it causes me to react emotionally a lot of the time, or to shut down. All of these things and more, that I would use to put myself down, that others would use to look down on me... it wasn’t because I was "just different/weird," just that I grew up with undiagnosed adhd.

I'm finding different ways to live more comfortably and easier for me. So have things gotten better? Yes and no. I feel better about myself, I comforted that I wasn't "just" something, and I belong to a very nice community with people that understand me. But after learning to mask my symptoms for years, I decided enough is enough. That I wouldn't mask anymore. It makes me feel better... the people around me wouldn't agree. I get in more fights with my family. My attitude, my facial expressions, my refusal to back down, and refusal to allow things to be swept under the rug, they don’t like it. I can see them mentally rolling their eyes when they get annoyed at something I do and I remind them it's my adhd. It's like they think I'm just using it as an excuse, as a label I've just added. They don't care to research, to learn more, or to even ask me what they can do to make things easier on me... nothing.

At this point I don't know what I do. I don't want to go back to masking my symptoms, it's exhausting. But I can't take them misunderstanding about things that aren't in my control.

Idk, sorry about the rant on here. I just needed to let it out. If anyone had any advice, please feel free to comment or DM, I'd greatly appreciate it.

[forever--rain]

Hi ever! Any tips on making friends in the zk community? I think everyone is so sweet but I'm really shy + I don't write or draw so I mostly reblog other artists but I really want to befriend some people in the fandom :(

Hi, sweet anon!

Sorry it took me so long to get back to you. I wanted to have a coherent answer for you, so I took a while to think about it.

You're right! This is a fandom full of really wonderful people. As a shy person, I know how hard it is to reach out and make friends. There was a decent amount of time when I first started this blog where I only reached out to people on anon because I was nervous about how I would be welcomed into the fandom. (Honestly, I still carry that anxiety with me and frequently consider bowing out of the fandom altogether. I've never done well socially and stepping away silently whether in person or online is how I cope.) Sometimes I still reach out on anon when I'm interacting with someone new. It's a good way to get comfortable with people if you're shy. (Also, I firmly believe the way people act on anon or talk to their anons says a lot about them. So this gives me a good way to read vibes.)

I don't think you need to be a creator in order to form valuable connections within the fandom. There are a lot of Zutarians who just enjoy asking others about headcanons or talking about the show itself! Fandom isn't all about creating material, it's about appreciating what you love with people who also love that thing. It's 100% cool to just hang around and gush about what you love. That's why we're all here!

I think some good ways to start making friends in the fandom include, but aren't limited to, the following:

1. Participate in ask games! We all like to get to know one another here, and it's easy to pop in on or off anon to ask a question of someone you'd like to talk to. Ask games can be great conversation starters.

2. Post in the comments when you reblog someone's work. This is something that I would like to do more of myself. I know that a lot of us comment in the tags when we reblog, but sometimes posting my love in the tags in hard because they're not easy to edit. If you like something someone drew or wrote, don't be afraid to hit the comment button after you hit reblog! It's like a little, personalized message to the creator and I guarantee it will make them smile! You'll probably even get a reply out of it!

3. Don't be afraid to come off anon. It's totally okay to use it. Especially if it makes you comfortable. Like I said, I still use it from time to time. But test out coming off anon with someone you're feeling comfortable with! Chances are, you might get some new followers out of it and you'll also probably make a new friend. I for one love when I see new names pop up in my ask box. And when they start to show up over and over, that's when I get really excited!

4. Don't underestimate the power of what reblogging does. I follow a lot of blogs who only hit reblog on stuff, but it fuels a lot of my dash! I treasure those users! I get a lot of new content on my dash because of them. It helps things feel fresh. So even if you're just hitting reblog, you're still contributing to someone's blog somewhere.

5. Try out DMing a user you'd like to get to know better! Ask them a question about their art or their writing or what they like about X character or Y episode. You can test this out with me if you'd like to. Or, if you're nervous about initiating that, you can drop your @ in my ask box (I won't share it with anyone) and I'll hop over to your DMs to chat! (If that still makes you feel nervous, we can just chat through anon asks until you feel better about it.)

6. Don't be upset if someone doesn't respond right away--or at all. I, for one, log out of Tumblr and AO3 on the weekend in order to spend time with my loved ones and live my life (this also helps me maintain a healthy balance of fandom in my life). So chances are you won't see a response from me at that time. There are people I've tried interacting with both on and off anon who just never responded. And while that's rough for someone who's shy, I have to remind myself that sometimes peoples' vibes just don't mesh (or maybe those blogs are dormant and I just wasn't aware) and that's okay. Try again with someone new when you feel ready!

I know a lot of these suggestions can feel intimidating. It's like I said, though, if you can find a Zutarian you feel comfortable with, then give it a shot. I'm always here if you'd like to start with me! I can also point you towards some more wonderful, welcoming people (provided they're cool with that--I'd check with them before sharing their usernames).

Also! One last tip:

6. Don't feel like you need to interact with a lot of people in order to have a good fandom experience. I have a little bubble of people that I'm comfortable with and that makes my experience better because I know what I'm welcoming into my space. It's like making friends in real life. You don't need to have a ton in order to have a good time. Be picky. Find people who give off the right vibes for you. You'll have a lot more fun that way!

Just remember: We're all here to nerd out about the same stuff. 😉

[lostgrimesgirl]

General PSA about my blog

2023 update-

I am wanting to do a bit of smut, I've unfollowed people I felt had sexualized Lena more than I'd like and feel much more confident in my writing/characterization than I did when I posted this. I am also in a much better place emotionally and mentally than I used to be. That being said I'll still be picky but it might pop up here and there! Just dm me and we can talk it out!

So going forward smut from me will be few and far between and that goes for my other blog as well. It is not something anything has done or about a certain person, this is something I've been thinking about for a long time and I'm biting the bullet by making it official. I'm also going to ask that writing partners not tag me in sexual gifs/posts. I worked really hard over the years in developing Lena into a mostly fully formed character with depth and layers, lately, I feel like she's mainly been about sex and while that's part of who she is that is not all she is.

If you are not respecting anything mentioned above, I will give you one reminder after that you'll get blocked.

[spitfiremai]

Hello!

My name is Mai.

In Japanese it's combination of “ma/真” meaning “genuine”, “real” and “ai/愛” meaning “love”, and “affection”.

Before that, here's my introduction.

I'm in the age of 20s, and I go by she/her. Zodiac sign? Taurus. Current MBTI? ISTJ. Enneatype? 6. Hogwarts house? Slytherin. Godly parent? Poseidon. What else?

My mother language is Bahasa Indonesia. But I use English, and Javanese as well. Also, I can read hangeul (한글) although I don't completely know how to talk using Korean.

꒱ ˚ ⁺ ⟡ ̫ @/criedsanthemum is considered as a cyber account, where I'm active the most. I'm loud when I talk about Yoon Jeonghan, Seventeen, and girlgroups that I stan. I also tweet work-related things, and rant about editing sometimes. I don't mind to talk about anything as long as it's appropriate and not beyond certain boundaries.

꒱ ˚ ⁺ ⟡ ̫ @/spitfiremai is where sometimes I drop the pictures I take, movie quotes that I like, my paintings, or random pages from books I read. In short, it's my archive account.

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Do we share similarities?

My music genres are mostly about breakup songs, ballad, and sad songs. But I do love the upbeats as well. I listen to K-Pop, bands, ballad, indie, local songs, anything. I'm not really picky. I'm a big time listener of Maisie Peters, Seventeen, Niki, CHVRCHES, Hey Violet, and Korean girlgroups; I love them all but I love Oh My Girl, LE SSERAFIM, and Red Velvet the most.

Well, since there are so many of them, you can just visit my playlists instead.

There are a lot to mention about my favourite series and movies, to make it brief let me tell you my favourite genres are including: fantasy, romcom, historical, mystery, crime, and thriller. I don't watch horror movies.

Book list:

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| Pay attention.

Please don't call me using names other than Mai, or Jo/Joyanne.

You can reach me both in timeline and direct message, but please understand that it may takes time for me to reply. Feel free to reach me as you like.

Please do not follow if you're: a minor, racist, any religion phobic, spreading hate, and Wonyoung anti.

Reach me anytime through DM if I ever make you uncomfortable or offend you by any of my actions.

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Trigger Warning and Caution Warning(s).

Please put CW or TW on blood, ghost, jumpscare, caterpillar, trypophobia, and violence properly.

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I guess that's all from me! Feel free to hit my DM if you want to be friend with me. c:

[diary-milk]

Here a girl named Lauressa Aeris, you can address me with iyis (not trying to be cute, it's just because I love to be called with iyis). I'm cancer girl with cancer moon and virgo rising. My MBTI goes to ISFJ who have already reached out legal age.

I do a lot of random tweets that related to the things I love including the writer life, what the things that comes up on my mind, the thing I concern, roleplayer thingy, and issue nowadays. Because the things I mention above, I decide to categorize this account as “unlabeled-account”

Movies that I choose to watch. I tend to read the synopsis and storyline if it comes to the movies. I'm not that picky as long as the synopsis quite makes me curious about the movie itself. Nevertheless, I have my own favorite movies all the time, including Maze Runner, Jumanji, Harry Potter, and Percy Jackson.

Songs that I often to listen. I fancy Indonesia's soloist quiet a lot that I often listen to their songs including Dere, Feby Putri, and Tulus. Not stoping myself here, I also love to hear k-pop songs from AKMU, Heize, and Ailee along with k-group including, ITZY, NewJeans, TXT and Enhypen, and k-band Day6 and The Rose. Furthermore, I also into the west; that Avril Lavigne, 1D, Taylor Swift, Niki, and Keshi makes me fall to their songs.

Where we probably meet. We may know each other through my rp account(s), Kim Minji, Naoi Rei, Hwang Yeji.

⚠️ Do not follow me if we don't know each other, you are disrespectful towards other, and hate the things I love.

If you have certain questions, feel free to ask me through dm or my retrospring 🐰

[longest-nights-again]

How to interact with my blog

Hiya. I'm not sure what you could call me on here. Night is fine I guess. Anything is fine as long as it is an actual name. Or just a cute nickname. I'm not picky.

Some general rules:

Do not use derogatory language to me or others in my comments.

I am part of the LGBT+ community. It is my belief this community also includes asxual and aromantic people (demisexual bean here). I also personally use Queer to describe myself. Language can be reclaimed. If you do not like the label Queer to be used for you, I will not. However, kindness is expected and I will not argue on this.

I make 18+ content (writing) and might reblog it as well. I am no ones parent. Minors should not interact but if you are here, please leave this is not for you.

Basic respect is expected. Failure to follow any of these rules will lead to being blocked without negotiation. I might be behind a screen, but I am very much a human.

How can you interact with me?

My DM's: Always open, should one want to talk about our common interests (will be marked in bio/pinned eventually). Mentioning any of the topics that I do not want to interact with, will lead to being blocked without any discussion.

Asks: Yes, feel free to send me an ask. I will only take asks concerning plot concepts, my stories and prompts. Anything else will be deleted, refer to my DM's if you you want to rant about our shared interests. I might not respond to your ask at all if I am busy, so sorry, but that is just how this works.

Requests: I do not take them. You can give me a story prompt, but unless it interests me I will just ignore it.

Sharing: I'd be honored if you shared my content. Reblogging only. Don't repost, especially to other sites. You can find me on Ao3 at "Longest_Night". My blog is 18+ so sharing my content with minors is not okay. Minors should not interact with my blog at all. While I can not stop you, I will do my best to make sure everyone is safe interacting with my blog.

Tagging and trigger warnings: I am trying, but not an expert in these. In fact, I think I'm pretty bad at this. If you want to help me, feel free just be kind. Comments or DM's are both acceptable. I will never make fun of anyone requesting more trigger warnings. If you are not sure if the newest thing I posted is safe for you (for my own content it will be under the cut) you can DM me as well. I will be kind as I expect of everyone else. Any missteps will never be intentional and will be fixed.

So what else. I am a pretty liberal blocker, which is my right and I advice everyone to do the same If you don't like my content or the things I reblog.

What NOT to mention! (I do NOT want to discuss these, I will not write about these.):

Asexuality not being a part of the LGBT+ (they are, even if my stuff is not for some of the aces, you are welcome)

TERFs and TERF rethoric (I am agender. I'm pretty sure I upset them already. They can fuck off)

Shipping real-life people

Underage characters in sexual situations (both with other children or adults, both are a no-no)

Rape/non-consent, dubious consent ((consensual, informed and discussed non-consent fantasy only)

Serial killers (loving them, thinking they are interesting. I don't care, get out, stop talking)

True crime (Don't care sorry)

Things involving bodily fluids (Might seem odd considering what I write. It's just not for me. Grosses me out)

Other extreme paraphilias (you know which i'm talking about)

Okay that was a lot. Congrats if you read it all! TLDR is, just be kind, don't be a dick, don't mention the things I asked you to. Aside from that, I'm very willing to talk about writing prompts, so come pop by, if this hasn't scared you off yet.

[deadlymatsuda]

Hiyaa here's a small introduction to my page and content:

I love anime and manga, aswell as Collecting figures of my favourite characters and shows. I'm not a hentai person so this will be Everyone friendly, Hentai isn't really that good anyway.

What I Plan to post:

Anime Reviews

Manga Reviews

Game show case

Anime recommendation lists

Manga recommendation lists

Figures and manga (both from what I find and what I have of my own)

Talk about japanese pop culture and fashion

Looking into culture and norms of Japan

Cartoons and comics of Course!!

What I will not post:

Anime Memes (unless connected with post topic)

Hentai or hentai memes

Hentai games or reviews of them

Now a small introduction to me, Deadly Matsuda.

My full Name is Eto Anne Matsuda. I was born in Kyoto, Japan and had lived there until I was ten. I enjoy anime and manga, tho I'm picky and I'm not so much a fan of newer anime that has come out. Horror, Mahou Shojo and Dark Fantasy are my favorite genres, and on the side I endulge in figure Collecting!

My favorite anime are Attack on Titan, Black Rock Shooter and Madoka Magica

And my favorite manga are Tokyo ghoul, Machi Mahou: I turned the wrong person into a magical girl and Hime Hajike (princess play!)

Conclusion:

I hope anyone who finds my page enjoys it! I'll try to post often, though if I fall behind all I ask is you don't DM me or bother me about it. I'll try my best to run this blog smoothly!

Picture Below: my bootleg 2017 Snow Miku, who's Name is Yuuki!