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knxfesck · 1 year ago

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What do you think gay men are attracted to in men that they can’t be attracted to in women?

It can’t be anything about femininity or masculinity obviously. That’s both sexist, and cultural so can’t be what drives men-only attraction.

It can’t be anything about stated identity because someone could lie just as easily as they could tell the truth in such a statement, and it makes no sense because homosexuality and heterosexuality exists in other species with no stated identities. It’s not like other animals without gender are all pan.

Saying idk it’s the vibes or some indescribable trait men have that women can’t but “I can’t explain” is a nonanswer.

Soooooooo what is it? Or do you think any sexuality but bi/pan is just cultural performance or an identity rather than an inborn orientation?

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I think all sexuality is fluid and cultural obviously but I genuinely don't know how or why you expected me to answer this. Do you think I'm the top gayness scientist or something

#words like gay/bi/pan/etc are just there to group individual people with very similar attraction types #it's for organization and community not for science #if there is a supposed gay gene I don't want to hear about it #specifically bc if that shit was genetic it would operate on multiple factors and most definitely not within the framework most people #percieve sexuality today #so watching it get talked about through that lense would be annoying #only answered this bc I'm bored and I love hearing myself talk unfortunately whoever sent it probably thinks I'm actually humoring them lmao #I'm probably being mean though maybe they meant it in good faith 💀#askbox

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