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charming-demon-belle · 3 days ago

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I'm aroace but i really wouldnt mind if someone expressed romantic or sexual attraction to me. I don't date but I would be happy to have a close lovey queerplatonic relationship and fuck as long as it's kinky, and I would be excited to learn about the feelings this person has and how they might differ from my own.

Enough of "oh nooooo i have a crush but they're aro/ace" more "they're aro/ace but it's still worth saying and maybe we can work out a relationship style that suits us both even if it doesnt look how i'd expect"

Having a close lovey flirty relationship where we can fuck as long as it's kinky is just how I do friends. Being aroace doesnt make me uninterested in that at all, it makes me not have the emotions that most people use to judge whether they should do that, so then I find other reasons to do it.... i.e. I feel comfortable enough around you. I would be interested to find out what things I truly am uninterested in due to being aroace. Besides just vanilla sex and dating.

#aroace #aromantic #charming demon belle #obligatory this is my personal aroace experience and i'm not speaking for how everyone does relationships #but still i think it does a disservice to hide feelings AS LONG AS YOU THINK THE PERSON CAN BE NORMAL ABOUT THEM #some ppl cant be normal about feelings. i think adults should be able to handle being told their friend has a crush on them #even if they dont return the feelings. i think this should be taken as a normal range of emotjon someone can have for someone #and not as a weird bad thing you have to defend against #if you think your friend will react badly like that.... get better friends!!!#to be clear i am not making this post because i am sus any of my friends have a crush #im making it because i was thining about how a lot of ppl auto assume that aros will be uninterested in anything approaching romance #and aces uninterested in anything approaching sex #and a little bit of like well IN CASE any of my friends feel that way i dont want them to think its pointless to say #but mostly just annoyed at popular aphobic assumptions

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