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#nothing wrong with queerplatonic ships in fiction or actual relationships irl mind you
curiouschaosstarlight
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Does anyone else get into a mood where their brain is stuck on a past experience and then they can't really process anything else
#not important
#specifically thinking about the time when i was in a discord server
#and this one person kept INSISTING my main ship (one that was very controversial and no one else liked)
#was queerplatonic because i mentioned that i dont really write romance/romantic crushes the “typical” way
#(not that the ship was inherently queerplatonic but “oh it's okay if you write them queerplatonically!” “i dont” “it's okay if you do!”)
#(like kind of trying to get me to agree i didnt REALLY write romance and oh thank you for being a safe space for me to not be into romance)
#something i had been thinking about because i was constantly writing ships (particularly the main one) into my stories
#and they were constantly being looked over because...again the signs werent the typical ones
#and everyone in that server was constantly looking to downplay how much of a shipper i actually am
#i still dont do the typical signs of romance in my fics
#characters dont usually have confessions or dream about getting married
#this doesnt make them *not romantic* or *inherently queerplatonic* they're just written by an aromantic with highly vibe-based writing
#it's one of those things where if you're in the correct mindset you go “ohhhh oh no these characters are DOWN BAD for each other”
#but im a weirdo and most people will never be in that mindset...sigh
#nothing wrong with queerplatonic ships in fiction or actual relationships irl mind you
#and of course they're not lesser than romance or anything like that
#it was just hurtful to have it implied that i was lying/wasnt performance romance “hard enough” for them to not ignore
#and it felt like i wasnt allowed to define my own stance on my own stuff and just have that accepted
#a bit ironically i have no problem writing out typical romance stuff in rps it just doesnt quite happen in my own standalone writings
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