#not gonna tag discourse bc honestly some of yall need to see this

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What is it that with all the recent BLs that have come out and are currently airing, the tags are full of people who just complain or want to engage in moral discourse...like bruh, keep it in your blog! or tag it appropriately! Stop! dampening! the excitement! for others, dammit! I'm seriously going to have to withdraw from the tags which is a damn shame :( but it's too irritating to get pissed off at every other post. Like, they want a bland, fluffy, slice of life (not that there's anything wrong with that but) where everyone is a Good Person Doing The Right Thing that's easy to absorb without much thought, whilst the rest of us are breaking down and analyzing scenes, trying understand motives, theorizing future episodes... it just sucks

hiii anon!!!!

honestly some day /I/ will sit and write a think piece when i'm not fasting and have enough brain juice to do it about enchante and what i took away from it and why i so wholeheartedly loved it and why, yes, its become THAT show for me.

like. i'm going through the tags tryna find edits and gifs and people's work on it and positive feedback on the show and all i'm seeing and having to sift and scroll through is slander and negativity.

which. ok! i get it! yall dont like enchante lmao!! but people have been hate watching and spite watching the show for ages now and then slandering it in the tags and i'm just like ......... stop it??? just stop doing it???? yall call THEO childish and whiny and he's a FICTIONAL CHARACTER and yet look at yall irl and what you're doing. and i'm never this rude nowadays but quite frankly i've had enough and my patience is wearing thin.

anyway. if people cant accept theo for the character that he is, from whose pov the entire show is more or less based around, then drop it! if enchante isnt your kinda thing, then drop it!!! you've got suuuuch a huge pool of bls to choose from, not watching enchante cuts out just ONE option from the so many other shows you do have to select from. its literally that easy.

why do yall have to make people who like the show look so morally out of touch and imply how we're either bad people or disillusioned or stupid or fools?? like lmao as an adult at the age of 26 who is a teacher i can promise you i cant be what i am if i'm any of those things. people are complex and theo and akk are complex and have more layers than an onion in my pantry does. and maybe you dont see them and thats chill but others do and others appreciate them and want to talk about appreciating them. so let them without making them feel inferior in any way.

and i'm not even gonna LOOK at youtube comments or mdl or whatever.

anyway. to end on a positive not bc i need that more rn, forcebook are my sweethearts and did SO SO well and /I/ am so proud of them!!! and i'm so so happy to have met them on this journey and to have found such an honest and raw show thats about flawed people who are scared of love and loving bc of their own personal baggage and previous experiences with seeing how love can breakdown and can be BOTH selfish and selfless with love but know that they want to give love a shot bc they realise that what lies on the other side of their fears is something so great with the one true person that's been a constant for them through space and time. and i can't wait to see what's to come next for forcebook!!!!

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the way i REALLY woke up to some people insinuating and supporting the idea that robbe and sander’s relationship is emotionally abusive bc robbe is shown adjusting and trying to support his bf.... yall are literally going stir crazy during this quarantine,, anyway thoughts belong the cut even though no one asked bc yall are SOEMTHIGN.

the way.. some of you really look at sander,,,, someone who dealt with a type of emotional abuse in his last relationship,,,,, and turn around and think he’s manipulating or pushing robbe to do the things he’s doing.... are fucking insane. you’re gonna tell me that robbe drop-everything-for-his-mother ijzermans doesn’t already have the instincts to try to make sander’s existence a little more bearable.... 

deleting and rewriting a text to sound more supportive is censoring yourself.............. i am laughing... did any of you watch season 3 where all he fucking did was delete texts and not send them and rewrite them....... sorry teenage boys aren’t known for fucking empathy, but it’s incredible to me that robbe as a character can pinpoint and correct what may sound slightly condescending to send to someone dealing with an mi in stressful times like this. in fact, it may be even unrealistically communicative of him to do so...

robbe leaving his friends.................... when sander calls him......... because yet again all they were talking about was pussy and weed (NOW they just leave out the homophobic jokes!)........ his friends who left him at the drop of a hat for any girl that walked by all of season 3........ the way yall are acting like they were having some big brain convo when half of us were GRATEFUL that shit was only 2 mins so we didn’t have to listen to teenage boys talk about masturbating with toothpaste.... i cant fklsdjflksdjflkds with YOU GUYS.. PLEASE... THE WAY some of you love the boysquad and specifically jens for being literal nothing friends is so funny to me................... but that’s for another rant.

him not really smoking weed anymore.... i want yall to watch the first clip of the season and tell me robbe wasn’t sitting there trying to cope by getting high and drunk as fuck... why does anyone rely on those substances so heavily? i get it, teenagers are bored and used to it and it’s all fine and dandy, but plenty of people... don’t smoke... the way you guys genuinely think we saw robbe at any single moment in that show LOVING smoking and doing it just for fun rather than to escape his circumstances... so him not doing it now.... honestly seems rather in character lmao. he relied on alcohol n weed to literally get over shit that was happening in his life, and now he doesn’t feel the need to lean so heavily on substances, and yall are MAD and CONCERNED about it? (also... we specifically see him refuse weed the happier he is, ie the hotel clip, before he even knew sander was bipolar... NOW would be the time to pull out those critical thinking skills)

you guys saying that sander gives nothing in return........... did any of you literally watch s3... i am begging you.... please..... know your source material and the characters, you’re driving me to the brink with that insinuation.

and last but not least... i think some of you just WANT robbe to be the least favorite so you can have something to complain about. it’s incredible that you’re able to parse the tag and find examples of robbe’s worth solely hinging on his relation to sander and not the same vice versa......... yesterday, all i saw were people talking about how happy robbe was, and normally... all i see are posts talking abt how happy sander makes him...... you’re gonna tell me that people garnered NOTHING from sitting for an entire 10 weeks in robbe’s shoes? i just don’t buy it. you see what you want to see, and i just can’t entertain half the ideas you guys have people you’re sitting around bored and want something to be mad at. anyway....... sorry if this is too harsh, but it’s like the same people over and over who have whack ass takes and think they have to be the mediators for all discourse and it’s so annoying to me. you can’t just throw around ‘emotional abuse’ n think both sides are equally valid in their thinking... life doesn’t work like that. esp when we’ve only seen 2... (TWO.........) not even 3-minute clips of a relationship outside of season 3.................. you guys are something else...

i love fandom <3