#my main f/o is a

[sinningvin]

The best payoff about being autistic and having an f/o is that at a certain point you’ve got the characterization down after ages of studying your character under a microscope. Headcanons, Canons, Speaking, Humor, etc, all that came from months or years of constant love and fixation. And then you can imagine having conversations about ANYTHING with them. Your special interests, goals, dreams, hypotheticals, any jokes, vents, absolutely anything. And you can formulate their response in real time, and it’s like having a conversation, even though it’s just be an imagination exercise. If you’re up to the challenge, I recommend you try it.

Pro/comship scram

[special-agent-lover]

is this what having two main f/os feels like

[selfshipie]

⭐️ imagine what your f/o has you under in their phone. is it your name with a heart? is it something silly? an inside joke? what do YOU have them as?

⭐️ imagine having each other as your phone backgrounds. a picture of you two cuddling as the lockscreen, but the homescreen is something goofy and dumb.

⭐️ tagging each other in social media posts & commenting under each others photos! whether it’s an art account or a personal, you’re supporting each other and hyping the other up !!!

just,, being a part of your f/o’s life (and them a part of yours) not just in person, but online as well. everyone can see how much you love each other :) 💫

[stoneshipper]

imagine your f/o...

... making you a hot drink on a cold night! they'd notice when you need something warm and comforting, whether it's just due to the weather or due to you needing a little extra comfort and attention. in either case, they're happy to provide for you - making you something warm and placing it in front of you before placing a soft kiss to your temple. they'd gently remind you that whenever you need them to be, they're here for you - even if all you need from them is for them to be in the room while you enjoy something warm that was made with love and care ❦︎

dividers made for me by kynibyou! 🍂 prosh¡p dni.

[honeysvcklerose]

people have surely talked about this before but referring to your f/o as yours is so powerful. you should do this with your f/o, i can guarantee only positive results

edit because this post exploded: pro/com-ship do not interact, you are not included on my posts

[yache-berries]

Average Buddy Holly Enjoyers

[dreamwinged]

*susceptible to mischaracterization/fanon/canon x canon shipping, likely has a lot of other people selfshipping with them (if that's something you care about)

**harder to find merch or fan content for, possibly less of a 'community' for the media/canon information given

please don't take this too seriously! i've seen both sides being talked about before, so i was curious to hear everyone's insights. maybe you view neither as a 'bad' thing, and that's cool!

proship/comship/neutral dni

[scarycranegame]

anyone else do this?

antis dni, what you have there is an unwarranted sense of self-righteousness, not anything of real value

proship/comship/pro-fiction safe!

[selfshipseaside]

Random self-ship ask game! 🌊💖

A random ask game with no theme! Just silly questions. Band-aid 🩹 - If there was one thing about your f/o that you'd want people to understand, what would it be? Thoughts 💭 - What do you think your f/o thinks about you when you're not around? Balloon 🎈 - Does your f/o celebrate their birthday? Additionally, does your s/i or yourself celebrate yours? If so, what's the special day looking like? Microphone 🎤 - Does your f/o sing or play music? If so, how are they at their craft, and what's your favorite thing about it? Phone 📞 - If you and your f/o have cellphones of any kind, what's their contact name in your phone, and what's theirs for you?

Dance 💃 - Can you or your f/o dance?

Romance 🌹 - What's the most romantic thing your f/o? Furthermore, what's the most romantic thing you have done for your f/o?

Crystal Ball 🔮 - Is your f/o superstitious? Do they believe in the paranormal? If so, what kind of stuff do they believe in/fear?

Bed 🛏️ - Where does your f/o like to sleep? Are they conventional with a good schedule, or do they find damp corners to call their bed? Sick 🤒 - Your f/o is sick in bed, what do you do? Song 🎵 - What's a song your f/o knows by heart, and a song you know by heart? Feather 🪶 - If you and your f/o were animals, which animals would you be and why? Smile ☺️ - What about your f/o makes you smile every single time? Furthermore, what's something you do that makes your f/o smile every time?

Remember to practice rb karma y'all! Keep in mind you don’t have to send me, the creator of this, any asks as this is not my main.

[goober-bug-ships]

guys hes so pretty im gonna frow up

[berryshipbasket]

They burnt the water <//33

Prosh!p / exclusionists DNI

[candyheartedchy]

Is it okay to have three main f/os? Like I know there’s usually THE MAIN ONE and I have two atm, but I’m thinking about maybe adding another?

[sweetzzzone]

shout out to self shippers who will never get new content of their f/o’s for one reason or another! you guys are so strong!

[selfshipcorner]

Sorry, I can't go. I have very important matters to attend to (daydreaming about me and my f/o)

Prosh!ppers dni

[feburary14th]

friendly reminder that having an f/o from a kids show/kids game/kids media is NOT cringy! in fact, its super cool :) ur f/o loves u, please dont forget it /gen

(proship/comship do not interact)

[halsinkisser]

🐻 today is my one year anniversary with my lovely boyfriend !!

tl;dr. i love him a lot. if you needed a reason to do something nice for yourself today, let halsayor day be the reason!!! get yourself a treat, or just give yourself a little break!! i am the king and my word is law/j.

extended gay yapping beneath the cut. <3

i feel like i should say something. but this is embarrassing so im gonna keep this as short as i can ok. for the sake of ur sanity and my dignity.

i've had many f/o's !!!!! especially growing up when i didn't even know what selfshipping was. but no singular f/o has ever affected me this much, in a good way !! he makes me want to be a better person for him. whenever i don't think i deserve to take care of myself, the thought of him encouraging me so gently is sometimes the only thing that can convince me otherwise. i struggle with what most would consider basic tasks, especially socially, but imagining him doing them with me makes it so much easier to stomach that it's embarrassing. his voice helps me sleep nd calm down when i get nervous or scared. he's one of my two reasons to wake up in the morning at this point honestly, the other being my literal best friend and soulmate. just seeing halsins face brightens up my day so much it's CRINGE !! I'M MAKING MYSELF CRINGE !! HELP !!! STOPTTPPPTPP

the point is. i'm very happy to call this stupid bear man my boyfriend, and i'm even happier it's already been a year of that. to many many more!!!! i hope scientists make the fictional character portal real. i need my boyfriend /J.

in celebration i ordered a dumb little cake, pictured here; (pls pretend to take a slice. for the sake of the party!!!!!!)

taglist !! <3 @arsene-fixates @thenightfallritual @kruxband @your-local-loverboy @vergils-beloved @microwavedfishsticks @readceran @r0sedevil @skyliv

creds : dividers