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Recap of Dem and Ika’s IG Live, May 10, 2019

They did two lives, totaling about an hour and twenty minutes. They were incredibly happy and touchy. Constant laughter and playfulness.

Dem is going to take a shower, but Ika wants him to stay and talk to us as well.

Ika says her hair is growing back and feels thick, she has Dem feel it. Ika: “How’s it feel?” Dem: “Thick. Luscious. This is all you, this isn’t a wig? Oh my…”

She thinks she looks older with the wig. When seeing herself on the jury segment, she hated her makeup and thought she looked so old. She thinks she looked crazy. Mentions how people think she looked pregnant, and is offended people think she looks pregnant. “I know I gained some weight, but y’all are wrong for that.” Dem named her wig Shelia. She wishes she wore her own hair and did her own makeup. She facetimed Dem right after the makeup was done and “I said, babe, I look crazy. And he said I looked beautiful so I went on tv looking like a drag queen.” Dem hasn’t seen the segment yet. She thinks makeup makes her look old, and for tv they pile on the makeup, “so they’re piling on the oldness”.

She’s ranting about people calling her pregnant and Dem is texting, “babe, I’m going through a lot, what are you doing?” “I just can’t stop eating at night. You look good, you workout, you look fine.”

Dem: “The next rumors are going to be that you’re crazy.” Ika: “But those aren’t rumors, those are true.”

Dem’s trying to take a nap, “we’ll get him, I promise. If you fall asleep, things will happen to you.” Dem: “Don’t act up for the people.”

Thoughts on Adam and Sam. She loves them, huge Sam stan. Dem: “He’s lovestruck.”

Thoughts on Anthony. She doesn’t hate Anthony, off camera he’s super funny and super nice, but on camera… she’s silent lol. He makes people feel insignificant, that’s how she felt the jury felt above him. He played a great game though.

So much happened at the roundtable that didn’t make the cut. She was filming for three hours. The jury was very pro Dane at that point. She was most shocked at Cory, she was very bitter, acting like Anthony and her were married and he was having an affair and she found out in jury. At one point she did say that she was angry at him and he was treating her like everyone else, she thought she was special. She was not a fan of Mark while on the show, but she appreciated him so much at the roundtable because he was one of the only people besides Cory who gave her so much, he was taking her jabs and laughing; it changed her opinion on him.

Este and Kiki. She’s silent, and Dem is giving her looks off camera. Este is sweet, and knows that she didn’t play a good game. She has respect for Este for that.

Dane. Thinks he is an amazing winner, the best winner bbcan has ever had. Dem gives a thumbs up. He’s well rounded. Dem thinks he was the best social player and the best comp player, and Ika agrees. Dem says Anthony played well but didn’t win a damn thing. Ka: “Are you coming for my edges? Winning comps isn’t everything, Demetres.”

Ika doesn’t agree with people who say that her and Anthony played similar games. “It’s hard to not touch the block, but it’s hard to sit on the block with your ride or die and escape together. Twice.” Ika notes that she and Dem were the biggest threats in the house, Anthony wasn’t seen as that. Anthony is great, but they played similar but different games. Anthony controlled people in a wicked way, Ika didn’t control people that way, she had to work. Anthony played an incredible game, just wasn’t likeable.

Kyra. They survived, and was never really the target. They had a mentally hard time because they were pawns and their allies kept leaving. She mentions that they are nice. Also notes how she messes up on the pronouns sometimes and Kyra understands it’s a learning process, and appreciates the effort. Ika reminds everyone to correct people, but in a way that doesn’t make them feel bad, because almost always the person doesn’t mean it negatively or out of disrespect, it’s learning, “so you don’t have to give Demetres angry faces.” Ika notes that she doesn’t know what it would have been like going through the house alone, “I don’t know what I would have done without you, and having someone to laugh with, laugh at people with, drag with, make fun of people with. We did a lot of making fun of people in that house, we were so petty. It��s an easy way of passing time. And we wonder why no one likes us.” Dem: “Turns out they recorded all that.”

Damien. He’s a great guy, was Elijah’s fav player. Elijah says that he doesn’t say anything and that makes him smart because he has nothing to back it up. Dem: “Wisdom coming from the kid, eh.” Elijah also says his expressions are funny. “When people say he’s too nice for BB, what’s that say about us? He’s a nice guy… [Dem]. I’m a nice girl. […] I think my boyfriend is a really nice person.” Dem: “You’re nice too. You’re a nice person. It’s hard for a lot of people to see that but she is.” Ika starts yelling at him in a funny way asking why people think that, “I think it’s stuff like this” he laughs. Dem: “You’re actually the nicest person I’ve ever met. I’m not just saying that.” Ika says she’s nicer than Dem and Dem agrees. Ika says Dem is nicer in that he gives people more chances, Ika is kinder, more giving, more compassionate. Dem says he’s more ruthless; Ika says because he’s business, he’s not afraid of having hard convos. Dem has compassionate moments.

Ika says she wants to tell one of their jokes. She says he’s making a really big investment – “yay!” – (and they high five), and it’s going to take up a lot of money, “so I told him to stick both hands up cause I didn’t want any fingers crossed, and I told him to stick his toes up, I asked are you doing this big investment that will eat up a lot of money because you can say that we can put off getting married because the money is going into the business, into the investment. Instead of putting that money into a ring or a wedding. He says that never crossed his mind, he’s thinking of putting the money in our future, in that, it’s going to grow and do this and make more money.” Dem: “These opportunities, when they come up, you have to pull the trigger.” Ika: “But him and his trickeries. But this is why we work, I have these thoughts and I don’t keep them inside. Either way, you’re buying a ring.”

Dem says there’s a diamond mine in Kansas, and for $10 a day, you can go fish for your own diamonds. He said it’ll take him like a month, so that plus accommodations won’t be that bad. Ika: “We were talking – we were probably drinking because Demetres hates talking marriage, he gets red. We were talking about what kind of ring. Since we both love the number five, it’s special to us, I was thinking a 5 carat ring is only logical.” Dem: “So I said .5, move the decimal.” Ika said then that she thinks it would be nice for him to dig for the diamond so there’s a story, he didn’t just go to a store. So Dem googled it and came up with this $10 a day thing. Dem says Ika wants him to go to Africa and dig up a big rock. Ika: “Don’t say Oh I love you, I’ll do anything, but you won’t go!” Dem: “I’ll go to Kansas!” Ika: “Don’t come for me.” Dem: “Just kidding, we’re going to Vegas, I’m just gonna buy her one.”

Dem then asks how does the ring help their future life out. “What’s it good for? It goes down the sink.” Dem: “It’s about the sentimental value, it’s not about the price. It’s about the symbol of our love. What if I spend $3k, save the half a million, invest it in some real estate and we make some money instead.” Dem then googles how much a 5 carat ring is. Ika: “We’re not getting married, we’re just having conversations, this is what we do.” Dem says there is $50k one, but it’s probably crap quality, and Ika wants good quality. Dem says they can negotiate, maybe 1.5 carats.

Ika notes that they went to Wendy’s before they went home. Dem: “The marketing has worked on us.”

Ika says he’s a true Greek, all he cares about is money. They laugh. Dem: “I care about you too.” Ika: “He does. He does care about me.” Dem: “More than money?” Ika: “Hmph, I don’t know!” Dem: “I do. I’m not going into details… I care about you more than money.” Ika: “Really?” Dem: “Yeah.” Ika: “How do I know?” Dem smiles and nods a bit. Ika: “Because you moved here?” Dem: “No… uh, moving on!” Ika: “Why?! How do I know?” Dem: “Because, baby. Tell them how you ruined my nap earlier.” They laugh about him changing the subject.

They go back to the $10 ring, Dem: “These guys go to the mall. The mall! They went for a burger, left with a ring! I went to Kansas for a diamond. For you.” Ika says he only chose Kansas cause it was the first thing that came up. Dem: “So you want me to go to Siberia? There’s probably one on Mount Everest too, but I would die less often going to Kansas.”

Ika reads a comment if they’re done with youtube. Dem: “Yes! No.” He laughs while Ika scolds him for being mean. Dem says youtube is so time consuming, and Dem is putting more time into real estate. She says she’s blaming him, he’s fine with it, but it was actually Ika who wanted the break. Dem was a little mad at first because you have to be consistent but he agrees. They say it’s fun, but with their busy schedules, it wasn’t sustainable. They say they made some money, but Dem doesn’t think they’re youtube star material. Ika says she’s a star and shakes her boobs, Dem: “You are a star, especially if you do that.”

They say they will make videos again. Dem jokes it will be a month long vlog of him looking for diamonds and then finding the one in Kansas.

Ika says she thinks Sam and Adam will be the first bbcan couple to get married. Dem: “You have no faith in me, do you?” Ika says no, absolutely not, but because her and Dem took their relationship slower and had a lot of hurdles, including long distance and moving, and Adam and Sam are already near each other.

Ika says that they talked about how they would get married and not tell anyone for a year or so. Dem says they’re not the type of people to flash their wedding photos everywhere, Ika agrees but says to not say that in case they do. Dem: “Someone 10 years from now will send us that clip from this live.” Ika: “10 years?!” Dem: “5 years…” Ika: “5 years?!” Dem: “2 years…” She pushes him and they laugh hysterically, she tickles him. Dem: “These diamonds are hard to find, I’ll have to make a couple trips.” Ika says they wouldn’t tell anyone then have people over for a bbq and say they’re there to celebrate their one year anniversary.

Dem mentions that the wig is named Shelia, and she says it’s her fav wig, which Dem questions since she just throws it down. She goes to put the wig on Dem, “I am not a pretty long haired person.”

Someone asks how Jamaica was and they say they vlogged it for us a bit. They may post it at some point.

They said Jamaica was really nice, Ika’s family showed Dem all of her baby pictures, and he kind of wants to do a video like they did with his. They laugh about the pictures, she had weird hair and teeth, and Dem says really big knees. Dem says she smiled really weird too, like tilted her head down, glared with her eyes and smiled. He impersonates it.

Dem went to Ika’s church while they were there, and he loved it. He kept saying it was a celebration, it was lit, he understands why they like going to church – he’d go every week if it was like that. “I thought those churches were only in the movies!” He said the guy would be telling stories, throwing hands and singing and then randomly should “hallelujah”. It was amazing. Ika says that a couple weeks before Jamaica he took her to a Greek church, Dem: “It felt like a funeral.” Ika: “Glad you said it and not me.” Dem said he was also singled out at the Jamaican church, “meet our new friend Demetres.” And they asked him to stand. Ika says they welcomed her too, but Dem says she didn’t stand cause she wasn’t really new.

After church he met people who knew Ika when she was little, who knew her grandma.

She mentions that everyone in Jamaica has a nickname, Ika says he can tell us, but he says to keep it to themselves.

Her aunt has a big backyard and she likes crab, so they caught some to make for them. But the crabs escaped from the bucket and Ika freaked out, was screaming, “it was the rat video all over again.” Dem did get a video of it. Ika says her brother’s friend also brought music to the dinner. Dem loved the crab. He then says Miss Pinky’s crab was the best; Ika says she made crabs when she was little, and they all still knew her.

They talk about how there was a bible school they went to, but it was hot and they didn’t love it.

His aunt would talk to Dem and be like, “when’s the wedding? I can’t wait until my teeth fall out for the pictures.”

Dem and Ika made their own souvenir, they bought rum, brought it to the beach, drank it, had a heart to heart, and then took the sand that was between them and put it in the bottle. Dem: “Just fyi, they’ll give you hell at the airport because they’ll think there’s alcohol.” Dem says the bottle of sand is sacred, it’s heart to heart sand. Ika mentions that they had another heart to heart, but this one was better, “we had a lot of heart to hearts in Jamaica.” Dem: “We did.”

They went to a party in Jamaica too.

Ika says she needs to get new boobs again, they’re getting deflated. She asks if Dem thinks her boobs are okay.

They’re going out to the wrap party, but Dem still has to shower; they’re not getting there until later. EFS is where the alumni are going, but they’re going to the actual wrap party. They may go to EFS after but they’re not sure.

Ika: “Dem’s not mad, he’s a little honey bunches.”

Dem notes that his dad mentioned that his mom refused to take photos, so he thinks it’s hereditary why he doesn’t like people taking his pics for IG. Ika: “That was like the stone ages though, your dad is 70, so that was a long time ago.” Dem says she thought it would take her soul.

They like Adam and Sam but they don’t like Sadam.

Dem says that he’s only met Dane. Ika says that the periscope was short today because she interviewed him right before and that will be aired at some point.

They note that they don’t watch tv, they stream BB, survivor, the challenge and sports.

Someone comments Dem’s hair looks like, he gets happy. Ika: “My little Demetres!”

Ika says that lives are more fun with Dem, there’s more to talk about.

They say bye, Dem throws his shirt on the couch to finally shower.

#ig live #sorry it's so long #it was soo good tho

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