#misterandlola

[lolaandthens0me]

I get asked this all the time, "So, how did you get into this whole diaper thing in the first place?"

I thought I'd take a moment to talk about it!

I am not a "factory-installed" abdl, but rather an "after-market upgrade".  I was first introduced to diapers and the whole abdl scene through my ex. They, being a longtime DL, told me about their diaper fetish pretty early on in our relationship.  I was only 18 or 19 at the time and thus quite innocent and inexperienced in kink and sexuality in general. I was at first a little confused by the thought of being turned on by diapers, but very open-minded to learn about and discover why this fluffy, absorbent plastic-backed thing did it for them, and for so many others I came to find out!

They encouraged me to do a bit of investigating and education on my own into the world of AB/DL to see if I could find something about it that spoke to or resonated with me.  I popped my online-kink cherry on the Tumblr of old. The Tumblr where porn, especially diaper porn, reigned like golden rays of sunshine. You could find it all and see it all on Tumblr back in the day. I quickly stumbled upon lots of ddlg content, and here was this thing that seemed to incorporate my budding, but long held interest in being submissive *and* my ex's interest in diapers. And ~voila!~ MisterAndLola was born.

We focused on building a ddlg dynamic, including the use of some AB stuff like onesies, cute socks, Goodnites, and calling them Daddy. We started our first Tumblr blog, TheDiaperedandtheDamned.  We began to take some cute pictures and post them on Tumblr and Reddit. I bought a few toys and coloring books, decorated our Guest Room with some decals and fairy lights, and started to try to wet in my pull-ups. 

It turns out, it was a lot harder than I thought! I would practice wetting while sitting on the toilet and when home alone. I was extremely nervous about leaking, and was struggling to get my potty-trained brain and body to let go. My ex had the thought -  why not get some adult diapers and try those?  I would surely not leak using those and it might make me feel safer or more comfy in the thought of "unpotty-training" my mind. The crazy thing is, it worked. And there I was, wearing diapers.  I believe the first couple I tried were ABU Lavenders and DC Amors. I felt extremely silly, but also shyly naughty wearing these crinkly, poofy undergarments. And the thought of peeing my pants, wherever I was, started to turn me on.  The taboo factor of willingly peeing in my "underwear" as a thriving, strong adult woman felt delicious.  I loved the feeling of being naughty. 

The first time I finally full-on wet my diaper, I immediately felt burning humiliation. And that also made me feel deliciously naughty. It turns out, I really have a thing for pee. My own, others’, it excites me and always pushes my button.  I don’t have an inherent fetish for diapers, but I think I do for pee, or more generally, liquids.  Even the feel of my own slippery wetness when I’m aroused does it for me.  And being covered in cum…yup…that does it for me too.

After months of growing and exploring and trying on the role of “little girl”, I realized that I really don’t find a lot of joy or fulfillment in age play.  The ddlg dynamic wasn’t really working for me or my partner at the time. But the fondness and growing arousal for being in and peeing in diapers…that was just beginning. Thus, my diaper kink was born.

[foxiemystique]

Hi miss Fox, 🦊 Would you ever be interested in taking care of another little boy if he were having a play date with bunny?

Hi, Anon and thank you for the ask.

🤔 Honestly, it’s kind of hard to respond to this properly when asked by an anon but there would have to be chemistry there. It would also be quite the lengthy interview just to get to second base. Ha I mean, my bunny britches and I are quite picky about our company. We have more then ourselves to think about in our life

Let’s say for shits and giggles we all hit it off and said encounter took place. I would totally be into it but be warned, I am who I say I am and if you are afraid of the idea of an encounter then, I have said something that sounded scary. Don’t be a fool to think I wouldn’t do as I have said and fear is definitely the right emotional response. 😏

With that said...

To date, I have made a few friends on here that I would love to hang out and play with. @misterandlola are on the top of the list to meet. We just haven’t really tried to make it happen.

I have also, tried to set up two play dates and to get to know another couple personally on here. None of them worked out. First little (that I would consider a short term foster) was too afraid to meet me and the second little couple (whom I also, fostered short term) couldn’t make it happen due to life’s circumstances and third couple never replied to my message about getting to know them in real life (to be fair, I asked in a not so personal way) and all pms ceased. I’m not into forcing things and I feel it will happen if it’s meant to be. So, yeah. If all the stars aligned, it would be game on!

Thank you so much for the ask and I hope you have a great evening. 😘

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