#mercifully it wasn't anyone telling me personally I just take a lot of stuff to heart too often...

[starryglittermaiden]

Sammy, I'm so sorry you're having a hard time. Please let me know if you ever need to talk, alright? Whoever told you you're selfish for having multiple f/os is a complete liar. You love them, and that's what matters. ~~~ Maybe some f/o love will help a little? I hope so. Maybe Jakurai Jinguji for the ask meme? :)

Thank you so much for just this whole ask. I appreciate it so so much!! Like!!! More than I can say!!♥

falls asleep on the couch

Jakurai, definitely! His schedule as a doctor + working with doppo and hifumi in Ma/tenro ends up exhausting him pretty quick… but that’s okay I cover him w a blanket and let him rest

makes friends with the neighbors

Probably Jakurai again, I’m like… painfully shy and never make first moves in anything. I would definitely ALSO be friends with the neighbors, but he’d probably be the one to initiate the friendship or the neighbors would have to,,, he’s so patient with me,,,

is the adventurous eater

I’d like to say maybe both of us? Though he’s kinda only that way if he’s… like… begged… Once hifumi actually asked him to go drinking and despite KNOWING he can’t drink, jakurai was like “uhh… yeah okay sure it’s okay” then got blackout drunk the first glass he had. So! And I normally have a comfort zone, but if something looks good, I usually try it! to a limit though hgfghj

hogs the covers at night

Neither of us, actually! We sleep together pretty well! Though I like to stick my feeties out of the blanket and that lets cold air in……. he hasn’t complained yet but give it time….

forgets to do the dishes

Jakurai. But that’s only because of his career, he doesn’t have much time to spend at home and when he does get home he’s tired. So I’m designated dish-doer and that’s just fine with me! (He does them when he’s off, too, so it works out)

tries to surprise their partner more often

NOT ME… I’M SO BAD AT SURPRISES… I get too excited and end up blurting things out WAAAYY before I should so at this point I’ve just given up. I TRY… but I’m so bad at it. So it’s him, he sometimes will bring me flowers or show up way earlier than expected after his shift! I do try to surprise him at work on occasion or when he’s rap practicing… I have to limit that kind of though because Hifumi fainted once (he’s afraid of women…)

leaves dirty laundry on the floor

Guess who. It’s me. I just… tend to forget about it and he picks it up for me….

stays up til 2 AM reading

Both of us, truthfully. I’m a book nut, hand me a good series and I will devour it the minute I get my hands on each book. It’s been proven time and time again. He also likes reading, medical stuff or just regular stories. Sometimes I pass him books I’ve read to see if he’ll like them too! He’ll do the same, then we come up with inside jokes or discuss plots

sings in the shower

Hi. That’s me. Always. Forever. Sometimes he practices in the shower but I’m the full on belting out whatever song is playing one. I accept this role

takes the selfies

me! I’m considerably younger than he is, he’s not super used to selfies and stuff like that. Does he still take them? Yes! And if we take them together it’s bc his arms are longer so I make him take them but I usually suggest them! He loooves snapchat filters. It’s the cutest

plans date night

Joint effort on this! I have his stuff to work around, and he mine, so we both pick and choose and discuss. It’s really nice!!