#love my classes <3 all except my group-based computing classes I still don't know if I hate y'all or not | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

fennthetalkingdog · 5 months ago

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Man, talking to people that aren't buried in queer and furry culture like I am is such a good way to keep myself grounded. Like, one of my friends just asked me what a catboy or dogboy was (I made bead bracelets a long time ago saying those) and that gave me the chance to stop and think what I want those terms to mean for myself. Sometimes it's cool to have someone who just knows and understands, but other times it's super cool having folk around me that don't get it first try, no matter how weird that might sound to say.

#reminds me of when a friend J didn't understand my gender and asked me to explain #first of all I'm always down for a good infodump but that gave me the chance to sit and think what my gender actually means to me #I'm so used to expecting being ignored when folks don't understand that it always throws me off a bit #but I like getting to define terms for myself #(but also sometimes it's wonderful not having to explain—like one of my friends just came out as genderfluid and so I got to tell them abou #how my gender is technically fluid because I know they understand instead of me getting stuck just explaining how I'm nonbinary)#anywayss cool thoughts #btw just finished moving in and having my first classes this semester - they're super cool and I might totally die of overwork this time LO #love my classes <3 all except my group-based computing classes I still don't know if I hate y'all or not #I just watched a movie for my Spanish class and it almost made me cry right before classes (if you know Roma you know)#but life's been good so far 😌#fenn rambles #a glimpse into my real life lol #J friend jumpscare #A friend <3

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