#literally in what fucking universe do you think hatred for GNC only ever affects non binary people are you for fucking real

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First of all, it's very hard to even take you seriously when you claim that truscum ideology is only about non binary people, and it's never about binary people who dared to express their gender in unconventional ways. Non binary are shit on, but trans women who dared to embrace their masculinity or trans men who liked to be femenine were shat on and continue to be by those same people. It's always about gender conformity, medical gender conformity to be more exact, and that was always going to fuck over EVERYONE, not just non binary folks. Like, my person, I don't know how to tell you that some us are non binary men or women so we had to face that backlash on both those forms. Like either we don't understand what non binary is, non binary is confusing or we are just confused representation of our agabs who can't accept we just like the color pink or whatever the fuck. Fuck off with the idea that this didn't messed up entire generations of binary trans people and especially trans men. I was fucking there when this shitty discourse was at it's high so don't fucking tell me this only ever targetted one group. say "trenders" and "fujoshis" and "theyfabs" they are not talking about trans men and I feel like that's pretty obvious.

Wrong, and you would know how wrong you are if you had talked with any trans man who has interacted with queer content in fandom long enough. The amount of times my transmasc ass has been misgendered and compared to "fetishizing straight woman" is not even fucking funny. The amount of times that people had tried to say that ONLY straight fetishizing women even ENJOY queer content at all has been a staple of truscum for as long they shitty ideas have existed. Also, are you fucking for real saying that "trenders" doesn't mean trans man ever? Under what fucking rock have you been hiding lol? Like, when truscum were somehow being taken seriously trans men, especially those that dared to be GNC, were ALWAYS the butt of the joke even if they never claimed any non binary identity? The idea that truscum only ever targetted those ridiculous nonbinaries and never ended up hurting or attacking trans men is LAUGHABLE, and you either enter the discourse literally just last week or have been dismissing the real pain of transmasc people for a long fucking time. I can go right now to youtube and find at least a good portion of trans men/transmasc people all talking about how truscum ideology personally hurt them and how their shitty ideology fuck them specifically for way too long. Like, seriously, just use your head for a second. If you keep shitting on afab people specifically for claiming a masculine identity but also mock them for not being masculine enough, how the fuck do you figure out that is never going to affect trans men? If you ever read the comments is going to be a lot more people saying the exact same thing.

Calling people "fujoshis" was not a "terf move" that transmeds

It literally is, the fuck you talking about. There is literally a post of the first anti-fujoshi blogs on tumblr basically being "we believe that all trans men are fujoshi who are taking their yaoi fantasies too far", and that has been the bulk of anti-fujoshi sentiment since then. Literally hang out around those circles and I fucking promise you somewhere, somehow, is going to utter those words and a queer transmasc who heard it is going to be affected by it because, oh no, what if they are actually a straight fetishizing woman all along?!

Once again, for the people in the back: anti-fujoshi sentiments are going to feed back into homophobia and transphobia, and the only people who actually benefit from having that shit normalized are going to be the kind of people who would prefer queer people to stop existing.

Gender conforming medically transitioned binary trans men who exclusively use he/him are not getting called "fujoshi" the way a feminine presenting transmasc who uses neutral pronouns and isn't on hormones is.

Sorry to break it to you, but this is entirely bullshit. I have seen anti fujoshi people going after the most passing trans guys you have ever seen in your fucking life and talking about how he was taking his yaoi fantasies too far. Go to literally any fucking terf space where they talk about trans men and it doesn't matter how buff he is, how much surgeries he had or how deep his voice has become, if he dares to be queer you will see fujoshi being thrown out A LOT. Like fuck, I literally just showed to you a screenshot with the example on the first post, how the fuck did you missed that? Anti fujoshi people hates us ALL, they hate queer people, they hate anything that reminds them that we exist, so every single one of us is just as delusional as whatever stereotype of a snow flake truscum can draw as far they care about.

For context: this transmed (gender-//is-//dead) made a post complaining about a hashtag on twitter where a bunch of gender non conforming and non binary people participated with selfies where they dared to use make up and be colorful. According to OP this had nothing to do with wanting visibility for trans people, but about make trans people look like a joke, somehow. These are just some of the comments on said post.

Friendly reminder that when you rally against fujoshi, this is what you cause. Friendly reminder that insult trans men calling them fujoshi was originally a terf’s move, something they promoted from the start here on tumblr, and now is being picked up by transmed in order to dismiss, misgender and insult trans people who are not conventional like them. Oh, but transmed and terfs are not buddies, right? Give me a break. Friendly reminder that when you say “fujoshi” when you mean “homophobic women”, unless it’s legit ignorance, these people feel validated to keep weaponizing it against specifically queer trans men. Because, obviously, nobody wants to be a fujoshi, right? Being a fujoshi is horrible! It’s an insult, right? So why wouldn’t they use it as such when you are doing it too? If you know this, or heard about this, but keep making the same mistake because you refuse to not slap a japanese label onto western homophobic women, then, on my eyes, you are no less malicious, toxic and unsafe to have around.