#literally 999/1000 antis i have come across are terfs exclusionists or some combination of either

[thethiefandtheairbender]

exclusionists: you can’t be asexual bc that means ur sexualizing everyone else!! like minors!! they don’t need comprehensive sex ed or have any sexual thoughts, ur just projecting it onto them, you dirty sinner. ur just lying that you’re 16 and ace, or a gross adult trying to force sexuality onto kids, eww! all people who aren’t us are predators! 

terfs: you can’t support teens exploring their gender identity!! ur going to trick young girls into hating their bodies and let grown men into our spaces!! trans adults are just predators!! sex work and porn is also Bad bc uhh trans women do them insert something about q-slur here! i know hating trans ppl seems really extreme but it’s just like how aspec people invade lg+ spaces!! all people who aren’t us are predators! 

antis: you can’t write teenaged characters having loving relationships that include sex, no matter how much you age them up to their 20s or 30s!! they’re frozen at that age silly, teens don’t have any sexual thoughts, ur just projecting it onto them, you dirty sinner. no you can’t hc teenagers or early 20 somethings as asexual either. ur just lying that you’re 16 and ace, or a gross adult trying to force sexuality onto kids, eww! all people who aren’t us are predators! 

me, a trans ace nb who just wants to ship and post my appropriately tagged shit peacefully, and has held my “not an anti” stance since i was 13: