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#like the amount of fujos i've seen and even talked to who felt mighty comfortable talking about their piss kink in their yaoiz
piduai · 3 years
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I’ve always been bad at articulating my thoughts, so your responses, like the one on enjoying villains, are cathartic in how well-worded they are. If I may ask, why do you find people indulging in certain types of p*rn disgusting, specifically if it’s fictional? To be clear I also despise them myself, but I’m not sure if this is just a visceral reaction on our part or what.
p*rn creates addiction, it rots your brain in ways incredibly difficult to unlearn, it destroys people's relationships with their own sexualities and bodies, creates a false and unrealistic image of sex and expectations about sex, seeps into people's everyday behavior, vocabulary and the way they interact with others. it has a negative effect on EVERYONE; conditions men to see women as fuck toys, seek more violent and violent encounters, and contributes to early erectile dysfunction. conditions women to dehumanize themselves, not prioritize their own pleasure, hate their own bodies, and makes them terrified of sex altogether OR seek harmful sexual encounters. you already see how people are shamed for liking "vanilla" sex and wanting to be respected, loved and pleasured in bed is a bad thing somehow - but choking, drowning and beating your partner is a-okay. it gives gay people very, very, very unrealistic and harmful ideas about what gay sex is supposed to be, and creates a culture where homosexuality is fetishized by straights.
these are issues and a million more are wide within the p*rn industry in general, fictional p*rn is only a facet of it, doesn't mean it's not disgusting - it does all of that, except it's drawn, for the better or the worse. sure, no real people are harmed in the making, but it being artificially created is also a freeway of enacting ideas that are hard to execute in real life - which they do get executed eventually btw, tentacle rape also started as drawings but now they put real actresses through that, as well as putting bees and maggots on or inside their genitalia. just peachy. p*rn industry is inherently harmful to women, and i simply do not think that women should suffer just so coomers can get their daily wank. i also have a healthy relationship with my sexuality and consider sex a good, rewarding, intimate thing that should stay between you and your partners.
as for online coomerism, i actually really do not want to read about jotaro licking the oozing stinking cum out of rohan's swollen prolapsed asshole, like it just doesn't do it for me, you feel? 10 years ago it was considered in very poor taste to talk like this in public, you kept that stuff to yourself, now it's all over twitter search from op with the handle daddy joseph's cum rag or whatever (using jojo here bc i read the jotaro and rohan thing word for word and it stuck with me for some reason). if you can't be normal in public and don't have a filter about what's ok and not ok to say, if you're going to be vulgar for the sake of it, if you're going to be unable to shut your mouth about your kinks once in a while and interject them in every discussion with complete strangers it's your freedom, of course, but i'm going to avoid you because you sound like an insufferable person who has no respect for boundaries. why do i have to read that garbage unprompted. why do i have to see drawn cp, incest and beastiality everywhere just because it isn't illegal. if this makes me a stuck-up prude so be it, keep wanking off to deranged p*rn while being terrified of actual human touch and intimacy, i hope you heal soon.
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