#like sorry sometimes there is no hyperspecific label for your experience so you pick whats closest

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Need you all to realize that gender/sexuality labels serve YOU. Not the other way around. It's not your job to bend yourself to fit exactly what everyone says your label should be. If it makes you feel good, and it's somewhat relevant to your experience, use it! Fuck everyone else. The world won't end just bcuz someone you think shouldn't use a certain label uses it anyways. You must openly accept every queer/trans person no matter how confusing or contradictory their identity, or you will never experience true community and solidarity.

P.S. This does not apply to identities like "stud", etc. They are not subjective like other identities are, because race is integral to their history. Don't fucking discourse on this post or I will bite you (and then block you).