#like not to no-true-scotsman the concept of 'oh if they do it WRONG they're NOT doing kink' because i dont think thats true
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i will always be anti-kink like go ahead and defend men for having violent rape fantasies and only being able to get off by brutalizing and beating women but it's finneeeeeeee because it's ~kinky~ you sick freak
pretty narrow definition of kink what about the women who get off on brutalizing men??
#no but im so serious kink is a huge playground with (done correctly) lots of rules to define and adhere to safety .#and im sorry your exposure to it has left such a bad impression#like not to no-true-scotsman the concept of 'oh if they do it WRONG they're NOT doing kink' because i dont think thats true#but for real for real for real kink is not exclusively or even mostly rape type violence#some people do the puppy play thing not my kink but thats okay#some people learn intricate knot tying and then dont even have sex once they're done being tied up#for some people just wearing complicated lingerie counts as kinky enough
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