#its the internalized misogyny
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honestly i wish the only way for magical girls to get respect wasn't for them to be as close to shonen as possible.
"unlike other magical girls, precure has hand to hand combat! its dbz for girls!"
"i know princess tutu's name is stupid but its actually not girly at all!"
"sailor moon isn't ACTUALLY for little girls because [insert scene of characters suffering or creepy stuff from the manga here]"
"madoka is better than other magical girls because its DARK"
like do magical girls really needs to be dbz but girly to be worthy of respect? can't they just be... magical girl shows? a show can be unapologetically girly and aimed at girls and still be worth checking out. yes, princess tutu is girly. yes, sailor moon is girly. yes, precure is girly. yes, madoka, despite being a seinen and darker, ultimately upholds the messages of the genre. and they're all awesome and deserve respect on their own merits, not as a comparison to popular shonen shows.
#i used to be one of those “princess tutu is actually awesome despite its stupid name” people#thank god i shed my internalized misogyny#like every time a precure tweet goes viral on twitter its one of those fight scenes#i'm sorry if you get into precure thinking its dbz but for girls you're gonna be disappointed#precure doesn't always have amazing fight scenes! and that's okay! it doesn't need to be like dbz to be worthy of respect#sailor moon#precure#princess tutu#puella magi madoka magica#ojamajo doremi#shugo chara#tokyo mew mew#rebecca talks
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everyone listen to me right now. trans men & transmascs are targets of misogyny. crazy idea i know but when youre seen as a woman and/or shoved into the woman category people will be misogynistic to you. it is fuckign crazy the amount of posts ive been seeing syaing stuff like "trans men think theyre exempt from being mras cause the dr said they were a girl once" or "having a pussy doesnt mean you cant be sexist" and its like. YEAH OBVIOUSLY having a pussy doesnt mean you cant be sexist but jesus christ the presumption that trans men are unaffected by their asab or that theyve never ever experienced anything like misogyny is wilddd!! not to mention why are we still referring to transmascs by their (assumed) genitals. like its obviously vile to reduce transfems & trans women to their genitals but the same people who realize this seem to have no problem doing it to transmascs
#squeaking#the “trans men think x and y because they have a vagina” sentiment is driving me up the wall to be honest!!#what the fuck are you talking asbout!! can we live!!#and i never see cis women held to the same standard!!#cis women are misogynistic tyo me all the time but when they do it its internalized misogyny. i guess.#this is not very well written caus eim mad .sorry#transandrophobia
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teruhashi is so hated that i cant say ANYTHING nice or nuanced about her without people being like "so youre saying she did nothing wrong? youre saying its okay that she thinks aiura is an ugly bitch? you think its okay that she thinks of other girls as below her?" like i literally didnt say that... you sound literally insane... youre fighting invisible demons...
#yea girly has a lot of internalized misogyny and the way she thinks of other girls isnt okay#but apparently you guys have some similar issues...#pretty sure ive made like this exact post before but it keeps happening so im gonna keep making it#also her thinking of girls as below her has context. its not okay but it has context. she never had a girl friend before chiyo...#and the thing with aiura was her being an insecure teen girl who thought her crush liked someone else#still bad. but she isn't completely one-dimensional unlike a lot of people act like#saiki k#tdlosk#the disastrous life of saiki k.#teruhashi kokomi#meows post
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Ok this might be an unpopular opinion but someones gotta say it...
Cassandra is a better Casey Jones than Casey Jr
Ive gotta be honest... i think casey jr is a kinda mid and i dont particularly think all the fanfare about him is warranted LOL
I want to note real quick that i dont DISLIKE him! He is a good character who only got as much development that a 2 hour movie could give him, and he filled and satisfied the role he needed to play in the movie, but the way the fandom latched onto him over the og casey... kinda makes me raise a brow
(Essay/rant about the prioritization of casey jr vs og casey under the cut :P)
Fandom spaces love a traumatized boy from the future, and believe me i do too! But the amount of attention given to casey jr after being revealed as casey is a wild amount compared to the amount of attention the original casey gets. Maybe its just me getting into rottmnt after the movie aired, but this seems a little baised?
Not only that, but the amount of... idk the best way i can think to describe it is infantilization of casey jrs character isnt helping my opinion of him. It feels like most content surrounding him babify him and reduce him only to his trauma post movie. I understand that it can be interesting to explore his trauma now that he no longer lives in the literal apocalypse, but it feels strange to see him reduced to someone who cant get around on his own and lives with the turtles when the original pitch for the movies ending has him leave to explore the world, which i feel is very appropriate for him and wish they had kept it in
In the movie when april shows us where the og casey has been and what shes been doing throughout the film, it tells us that casey is friends april which in theory, shouldve also shown us that she and the turtles are friends to some degree as well and should already have her place established within the group as this generations casey jones
However the final shot of the movie is a group shot of the family+casey jr, which subtlety implies that he's the new casey instead, and that this is the main cast moving forward (should it move forward *sob*). While both caseys being considered in the main cast could be true, it does strike me as a little odd that this was the final direction the rot team decided on for the official ending versus the scrapped ending, especially because it complicates the pre-established canon. It wouldve been one thing if our og casey was a different character, but that isnt the case.. y... (<_<)
Casey jr is an interesting character though! And i can understand why he appeals to fans, especially as his character post movie is fun to expand on aswell as developing his past involved with future versions of the main5, but one (me lol) could argue that the og casey is just as interesting of a character to delve into as she was involved, when you boil it down, a cult most of her life, and that concept, as well as the guilt she could hold for working with the foot and releasing the shredder, ontop of trying to befriend and gain the turtles and aprils trust are also intriguing concepts that could be explored, yet finding content that mentions her at all beyond her relation to casey jr is scarce
It feels as though shes been reduced to a background character within the fandom despite being a reoccuring character for the entire show.
For the two seasons of rottmnt that we did get, we are shown just what kind of character casey is and her possible dynamics with the turtles+april. Shes passionate and powerful and beyond determined to prove her worth and reach her goals. Shes also playful and reckless, a side that fits well with the main cast and their humor and, if the show was given more time, couldve developed naturally as the newest addition to the family as most caseys are. I could also argue that her characterization fits that of previous caseys more than casey jrs does (though i will admit that considering the plot of the movie, i cant positively say what hed be like outside of life or death scenarios, but i also cant imagine hes going to make a 180 in personality without it feeling jarring and ooc)
Now, i wont ignore the fact that her arc was cut horribly short and her involvement in the movie was quite literally a brief mention, both of which definitely play into how under appreciated she is. But at the same time it almost feels like everyone, including the show runners, have willingly pushed her aside for this new boy version to fill the role of casey jones. Hell, even when you look up rottmnt casey jones, cassandra barely shows up. Its casey jr which further proves my point
Idk, TLDR im pretty disappointed that despite being a consistent character for the entire show, no one seems to write or acknowledge her and if she is mentioned, its only relevant to push forward casey jrs character development or a brief cameo. As much as i do love casey jr (i can feel like hes mid and i can like him!) it seems like most people forget about the original casey, or favor casey jr in her place and she deserves more love and credit than shes given!
#rottmnt casey jones#rottmnt cassandra jones#rottmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#leoserpost#sorry to get so passionate about her#shes my little meow meow you see#now OBVIOUSLY some people write about her and casey jr#and they do it well#and im well aware of the rushing of the show along with the strange gap btwn it and the movie#but i still feel its important to mention because shes so cool!!!!!#and the best!!!!!#and i love her very much!!!!!#(also i didnt get into how fandom prioritize male characters over female ones and how that also likely plays a role in her being overlooked#(but i didnt feel like starting an argument w ppl who refuse to examine their own internalized misogyny so :P#we'll leave it at this)#plz appreciate her!!!!!!!#she deserves so much more!!!!#i want in depth fics about her life post shredder!!!!!#*if u want it sm go make it urself* i hear some say#and listen bud#<<#im thinking about it so hard in my brain#maybe i will!#😤#ddjsjka ok im done#this is all very much my opinion#and maybe theres cassandra circles im missing out on#but this is also what ive observed#at the end of the day these are just silly cartoon characters and i just happen to feel strongly about this one!!
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there's yaoi vs yuri discourse on twitter (again) and I'm just lmao because maybe people would want to create more f/f stuff if a lot of the fandom spaces surrounding these pairings didn't cultivate such hostility and policing to everyone doing it in a way that hasn't been approved of by the high sapphic council. I don't find it a coincidence that a lot of the types that complain about this shit don't even write fanfic or make fanart, they just use ao3 stats as a metric for fandom as a whole and treat it like some weird popularity contest. as a lesbian it's just embarrassing and it's gonna drive people away from wanting to engage with f/f spaces at all
#and i dont want to hear 'wahh wahh internalized misogyny is why everyone doesnt wanna write f/f and centers m/m more'#that is complete horseshit nonsense there's plenty of people just as passionate abt f/f and filling those rarepair tags#is it ever about engaging with them? no its always complaining about some non existent popularity contest
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i know I've talked about this before but i love the concept of Percy and who he's with getting the same kind of treatment from the family (read mostly Molly)
and Percy handling it in a complexly different way to how Bill did
I always think of him getting into a serious relationship a few years down the line so he's healed a bit and offended as hell over his mom still not trusting his own decisions and trying to set him up with random women(because it would be girls sorry Molly is homophobic but just doesn't realize it) when his SO is literally right next to him
I know that she doesn't actually ever mention the Bluer age gap so really she likely wasn't bothered by that part but I think that would be different if Percy was with a boy tbh
like I think she would complain about the age difference between Perclin
also i think the idea of her inviting like Luna (or like Romilda Vane if you want to play into how she sees love potions as whatever plus shes even younger) is neat because of how messed up that would be and having her be like 'it's different' no no it's not
She honestly thinks shes helping like thats really important when it comes to Molly imo
that she honestly thinks shes doing something good and that Percy would be happier with someone else
shes just you know wrong and hasn't figured that out
So she just doesn't understand why he's fighting this so much when she knows best she knows her little boy far better then anyone else she knows he needs someone better someone worthy of him so she just doesn't get why Percy getting so mad about it
on the bright side
because Percy left once before shes more willing to listen to reason whenever he doesn't talk to her for like a week or storms out of a dinner because she said something and he was at his limit
He'll get her to understand eventually
#percy weasley#i think most of Ginny's issue was internalized misogyny which i like to think she realizes when shes a bit older#and like thats a big part of Mollys issue to ngl#i don't think Molly learned anything overall and it was just 'Well i was wrong about Fleur but that doesn't mean im wrong this time'#Molly thinks shes a better mom then she is#she tries and thinks shes doing whats best but she just doesn't do the right thing alot#i just can't see Molly as accepting so much in the series just screams conditional love#like she would hate Hermione in a heartbeat if she and ron ever broke up regardless of the why#Harry i could see the same thing but its more questionable because you know hes Harry#Perclin#Molly Weasley critical
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#Jeong Nyeon: The Star is Born press conference#10th Oct 2024#Jung Eun Chae#all my thanks to PD-nim and the creative team behind JN#PD-nim has the vision for JEC as Moon Ok Gyeong and I will be forever grateful#like I am to the PD-nim and creative team behind ‘Sohn: The Guest’#for giving such amazing roles to JEC#and thankful to Jung Eun Chae for accepting and excelling in those roles#you all have my love as a fangirl#you made my fangirl dreams come true#THANK YOU ✨🤍🖤🫶🏽👏🏽#seated for JN#though have to be prepared to not have her onscreen most times#since Moon Ok Gyeong is at most a secondary character#I wonder which queer romance will be incorporated in the drama#at least please give us the obvious one of Ok Gyeong/Hye Rang#🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽#I do wonder whether PD-nim/writer-nim had ever watched TG and whether that show gave them any hints 🤔#because I watched TG and through my fixation am convinced JEC would be awesome for a more androgynous character#because JEC is one of the few K-actress who could carry stunningly gorgeous AND handsome effortlessly#but I hope there is little pushback on JN and its stories though#due to how much misogyny there is (overt or internalized)#especially not for wlw stories onscreen (mainstream) though I know it has already been done in some other dramas too#but JN is also women-centric and men are background characters at best#praying for success for JN and its casts and crew#I hope there will be better projects ahead for all involved#and especially wondering what 2025 will have in store for me as a JEC fangirl#but have heard little so far so am a bit concerned unless it is just because she wants to slow down???#JEC could really carry that suit 🖤🤍🤩🥰🥵#she looked so much better than some of the men I saw sporting similar fashion
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get ready for another unpopular 911 post from me but someone please tell me why there are so many queer women in this fandom that care more about making a canonically straight guy queer than the Actually Canonically Queer Women this show offers. why are there so many queer women in this space talking over queer men about their own representation while actively ignoring the wlw rep we as queer women have. some of you need to go rewatch 6x06 Tomorrow and grapple with why it's so hard for you to care about it.
#idk maybe do some introspection on why its so hard for you to care about the queer of this show#another day another a post about internalized misogyny and lesbophobia#henren#911 abc#im gonna get blocked by some of you for this ik ik
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I find it almost funny the women who shame Alicent for being a victim of misogyny in a patriarchy she did in fact NOT create and had always existed. I find it funny because they think they’re better than Alicent, they think if they were in Alicent’s position that they would’ve instead been some feminist icon- no, if you dealt with the same trauma, the same manipulation, the same system that Alicent did, you would’ve ended up just like her. Not better, in fact maybe even worse.
#hotd#alicent hightower#house of the dragon#hotd s2#young alicent hightower#like no you wouldn’t be some cool female empowerment symbol you wouldve just been another alicent hightower#and isnt that so sad that they say ‘oh alicent thinks shes exempt from misogyny’ shes been a victim of misogyny her entire life….#she knows very well what system shes in#truly theyre the ones who must think they’re exempt from misogyny to not realise that and think you’re better than her simply because#you think you’d somehow just deny the misogynistic system she was apart of her whole life#‘oh id make different decisions better ones’ would you though?#i get confused honestly do these people think its easy to break out of the cycle of abuse and manipulation that has been fed to you#ever since you were a young child into adulthood?#no shit she has internal misogyny shes been raised into it her entire life#you would too and if you think you wouldnt you’re simply stupid#sorry not sorry but it needs to be said#young alicent#hotd alicent#and im not saying alicent is free from responsibility and taking accountability just because of her trauma before anyone misinterprets#im not saying you have to support her or anything#but to not understand that Alicent isn’t some extreme villain#instead she’s a woman who turned out exactly like every woman in her position would#misogny
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it sucks that p4's final antagonist had to be a woman. it sucks that p4's final antagonist had to be trans. it sucks that p4's final antagonist had to have an ambiguous gender identity. it sucks that p4's final antagonist had to be inhuman. it sucks.
#kommento#ゲッー#// if they were more popular and not an antagonist and maybe a more significant character their discourse would rival yosuke's homophobia#// p4 has such beautiful concepts that didnt seem to really follow through as thoroughly as i wouldve liked#// wow heres how the part of you that you deny who who tries to get you to destroy yourself unless you accept it and instead become stronge#// heres a commentary on how you should enjoy things that are real and true to enjoy life instead of rotting away with lies and whats fake#// wow heres parallels to the creation myth which defines the story and shows the hero's path to defeat the villain to arrive at the same#// relatively peaceful conclusion the mythology it takes its motifs from#// well it was 2008 and social media is intrusive and people will take everything at face value and turn a character's meaningful#// internalized homophobia and emphasize it into a joke for the sake of laughs which further puts everything BACK into the fog#// i wouldnt have minded how everyone else depicts iznmi but im just so irked about the mass internalized misogyny no one seems to notice#// and how all this stereotyping is becoming normalized exactly like what happened to the IT discourse trio#// i know mamiya said iznmi is something that projects nothing but rather reflects ideas but i just wish that people were#// kinder and nicer and more considerate to something that isnt real#// i guess p5deities are more peaceful to me because they arent obligated to take a more human looking form than what#// iznmi's character design called for. i mean you've got a robot chicken. exposed organs and veins from machinery. a box. feathers. fnaf.#// sorry for making another post like this i dont mean to. but at least it's better than me posting in 2021 i suppose
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yall need to say something about tboy genitals thats not fingering or fucking sometimes
#reduced to fuck hole doesnt end when u start T#‘well i like it’ great its not ab u. there are more of us than those whos sexualities revolve around internalized misogyny
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sorry for art-class-critique-posting again but one thing thats been very fascinating to see from my classmates and especially from my professors is this like, usually implicit but occasional explicit assertion that a lot of the artistic techniques, styles, and practices i happen to do (such as quick, unblended brushstrokes, paint drips, etc) are inherently "masculine". i personally am secure and comfortable with myself as a gender nonconforming woman so it doesnt affect me one way or the other much but i also can't help but feel like.......... do you think maybe the reason you dont see as many young woman art students doing these techniques might be because they feel a bit insecure or uncomfortable having their womanhood called into question just because they were a little more aggressive with their brushstrokes? of course abstract expressionism and movements of its ilk where boys clubs (as were most artistic movements in the history of time) and theres a lot to unpack with that but i dont think leaning into the idea that women only paint neatly with careful paint blending and soft colours is the way to go about this.........
#its an interesting bias i dunno. im not mad or anything but i feel like its a bit of an internalized misogynistic ideal that like#well i guess its been around since like. the dawn of art history as a field. but like these boxes put around women artists#i think its a little bizarre in the year of our lord 2024. i feel like a girl power childrens cartoon from 2004 having to be like#women can do anything a man can do you know.......... they can be any sort of way...... like i thought we knew this.....#its fascinating. my professor joked that keeping all your old sketchbooks is a thing men artists do? mostly as a joke about her husband#which is fine but it was also a bit of shrimp colours to me. shrimp artist gender expectations#i dont think my gender has a lot to do with old sketchbook hoarding habits. i keep mine because I Will Forget Everything otherwise#although i also think everyone should keep all their old sketchbooks forever if they can and its safe to do so#but thats a separate opinion LOL its a bizarre world out there. like i said im just a gnc woman but so often i feel like one of those like#thirst trap vine boys biting my lip and holding up a sign saying STOP MISOGYNY#i need to protect women (runs into heavy traffic) type situation i find myself in every day <3
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Instead of ignoring and writing off the female love interest so you can ship your yaoi because "gay relationships are better the straight ones" just make the lead male character transfem and ship her with female love interest, kill three birds with one stone, more yuri, less misogyny, and you can have a gay ship
#goblin mode#PLEASEEEEEEEEE#people need to transfem house and chase more#i think estrogen would have fixed them both#tfem chase x camron and tfem house x cuddy pleaseeeeeeee🥺#ALSO what happened to tfem link??? i SWEAR i year or two back i was seeibg some tfem link hcs but i havent seen them in forever??#tfem link x tfem scary pleaseeee (also keeps scary a lesbian WHICH SHE IS thank you)#and i havent watched arcane but it seems like theres a very pretty lady some guy and a very pathetic wet cat man and everyone ships#Some Guy x Wet Cat Man instead of Some Guy x Pretty And Scary Lady#and idk if its because of ignoring the female characters because of internalized misogyny or if the gay guys should fr fuck #but why not tfem those guys and shit them with the woman????#PLEASEEEEE#ALL fandom needs more lesbians morn trans women and more women in general!!!
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if u say thirteens writing is bad u have to say tens writing is bad too. btw
#and eleven#like.#eleven is great#i love rivers arc#alwo!#did yall even watch claras arc#they literally treat her like a fucking object#‘jodie is so good but the writinggg’ ‘i wanted to like her but the writingg’ just shut up and say that u dont wanr a female doctor#this goes for people who are female too btw#yes ! mosr of the people i see hating on thirteen are men#that doesnt mean women who dont want things to change or bave internalized misogyny dont hate on her as well#did yall even see the end of time or wtv tf its called (im so bad with names)#if its about how they handled the side characters: literally side characters randomly disappear all the TIME in doctoe who#if its abour the timeless child arc#‘it ruins everything’ so close! it’s actually called a character arc#genuinely whats not to like#shes a silly little lesbian !!!!#and thetes so much in spydoc#and thasmin too#like honestly i think thirteens seasons are the BEST.#thirteenth doctor#doctor who#dw
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one day people will stop looking at misogynistic men and saying they're secretly gay, and finally realize implicitly associating non-queer men's hatred with queerness as well as disregarding the patriarchy's pervasiveness helps (checks notes) literally nobody
#💬nia.rambles#stop it stop it stop it stop it#im sure i could word this better but if i see that stupid tweet or its quotes one more time i might implode#like it's absurd to me some of you say men are socialized to hate women then say if they do they must be gay#he isn't in the closet he just doesn't see women as equals#in a heteropatriarchal system heterosexuality isn't a clear line of loving/respecting women or Not. there isn't a dichotomy for misogyny#realize he can be romantically & sexually attracted to women but objectify & shame them & reserve forms of love for men#without doing that you Cannot tackle the patriarchy in Any meaningful way#+ what does calling him gay do for you. do you benefit from him being Queer and hating women. would that make you feel better.#do you want to imply all misogyny is rooted in internalized homophobia / queer men are raging misogynists. do you like those ideas#it's all ultimately diluting/ignoring patriarchal power and material/interpersonal consequences#not to mention the dissonance i see regarding intersectionality + the 'separation' of misogyny from queerness#and. UGHHHHHHH. it's so frustrating like just. gawd. whatever.
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I think jjk fans should stop doing analysis. Like please stop, you all have terrible opinions and you're mixing it with your internalized misogyny. Stop talking. Please.
#jujutsu kaisen fandom#jjk chapter 271#because why are you shitting on hana because Megumi apologize to her???#or saying its a disservice to Megumi's character??#or shitting on Hana for having a crush on Megumi?? bro doesn't even like her back so what's the problem??#'oh the straightest girl having a crush on the gayest man' for the love of GOD THEY ARE JUST TALKING WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU??#most of yall are literally straight women too don't yall talk to gay men#also who told you megumi was gay?? like i do not mind it i fuck with it yknow more queer peeps in media but yall are on the same#level of delulu as nobara is a lesbian. nobody said that. that's your headcanon.#i'd rock with itafushi anytime of the day but the monent yall bring internalize misogyny I'm kicking you all out#miss me with that shit. people can't have conversations again cause of your delulu ass#jujustu kaisen spoilers#jjk spoilers#sincerly a queer woman/person who is sick of straight people and their dumb ass headcanons. get your head out of your ass.#i refuse to have narusasu fans all over again#ship your ship without the misogyny. miss me with that shit
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