#its literally just a song about 'hey labels arent for me and dont work for others either- labels are just a construct'
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deleted tumblr off my phone last night only to boot it up again on my desktop and remember Exactly Why i deleted it
#embers-hoots#im not vagueing anyone who can read this so dont be worried <3#i just keep checking discourse tags for music i dig and its killing me slowly#everyone is so blatently missing the point of a song on gender nonconformity and being labelless#and its the worst!#most of them are kids (like 15 years old) so like#i get it i used to be like you#but man please be more rational when you grow up#what you are saying isnt helpful- in fact your backhandedly hurting gender nonconforming/labelless folk with misunderstanding#its not a song that says 'fuck you if you're trans or use labels'#its literally just a song about 'hey labels arent for me and dont work for others either- labels are just a construct'#and thats??? true??#theres bigger issues than this#dont write off someones whole discography for saying 'i dont like labels' while ignoring the bands that have like actually damaging stuff#you are firing your guns the wrong way and its only gonna make you sad#arent you tired? dont you just want to enjoy things?#be critical of content but dont let it eat you alive#otherwise you'll never like anything#anyway im done here#i was tired of tumblr anyway for other reasons- but me being unable to stop checking on this discourse is damaging to me#so im not leaving tumblr but im gonna be way less active#same with twitter#if anyone wants me- discord me or smth#feel free to ask for my tag#i'll be around but just not as often#take care
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sorry one more thing LOL truly think EVR would go out of their way to make it as hard as humanly possible for them to rerecord because of all the shit Awsten did. he’s so bad at letting sleeping dogs lie and admitting there’s smarter ways to go about shit (like he could’ve done DD19/ENT19 at the concerts without releasing it the way he did, the tour dvd having it would’ve been more than enough) and he doesn’t have people in his corner to get him to chill out lmao. had he bided his time he could’ve just had his cake and ate it and watched EVR scramble to be assholes and have no standing, because those are still up (I think because they’re technically considered covers? same as blonde and lucky people being able to be on the live version)
yeah they definitely would because he REALLY fucked that whole relationship up so bad 😭😭 i have no doubts ev was predatory and shitty and fucked up the ent drop, i know that happened, but publicly calling out YOUR LABEL as a BABY BAND is literally the stupidest! possible! choice!! hes lucky they didnt get blacklisted!!!!! i feel like if ent hadnt done as well as it had they might have?? like thank god for hopeless being willing to not only take a chance on them but also go to bat promoing fandom like holy shit. and then he clearly learned ABSOLUTELY nothing bc not only has he been beefing w 300 publicly hes also incited fans to bash them publicly on social media. so really great job there awsten im sure theyll be willing to work w you further!!!!!!!
as far as i know theres nothing stopping them from playing dd and ent songs live so i dont even think the 2019 versions were necessary except as a “FUCK YOU HEHE TRY AND GET ME” that he genuinely thought that he could get away with bc they wouldnt bother?? but of course they were gonna bother like lol u were being obvious about it because NO ONE is in your corner telling you to SIMMER DOWN…… i think he thinks ppl telling him “hey, this is not the way to approach a legal dispute, you cannot retaliate this way” as them saying his feelings arent valid or that he wasnt wronged which obviously they are not saying.
he has such a chip on his shoulder from bad past experiences with “the industry” that he lashes out and goes totally rogue and off the handle by himself when hes wronged and its only going to continue to be a stumbling block for parx in the future if they have dreams of major labels. i know it sucks to have to stay quiet when you were wronged, when you KNOW you have this huge parasocial fanbase who will fly to your defense because they like you, but as an ADULT with a JOB and a LEGALLY BINDING CONTRACT you need to learn you cannot handle disputes the same way you could as a pissed off 19yo. sorry.
#i think this gets lumped in with ‘drama’ when this issue specifically is so much more than that#this isnt awstens normal stupid interpersonal drama this is a BIG DEAL#for him anyway if he wants to actually make it out of the indie realm#mail time!#neg
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