#it's rather liberating to reject what you've previously held
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I hate the word pickme because it's not very compassionate. Maybe a girl just needs to get Fortnite flossed on by a man before she sees the light. Maybe pickmeism is indicative of deep-rooted mental issues that can only be solved through therapy and realization, none of this can happen if we're just gonna demean the girl for having a lapse in judgment or what have you
#txt#I am also projecting! Because I let myself get abused and become an abuser because I wanted to play in shit#without the internet echo chamber rattling in the back of my head#it's rather liberating to reject what you've previously held#liberation not necessarily being good#because everything requires balance.#balance between restraint/discipline and total freedom and dismissal of morality#or values#does this mean psychic damage good and cute?#no#but i wanted to fuck around and find out because i am a big girl and also have autonomy#none of this should be promoted btw im just pro you doing you until you find a conclusion#i think the distinction between “choice feminism” and this is that choice feminism frames it as “this does not have detrimental condequences
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