#it's kinda like. since figuring out i'm arospec it's like i've just gradually been becoming more aro lol
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#it's kinda like. since figuring out i'm arospec it's like i've just gradually been becoming more aro lol#not really interested in a romantic relationship tbh#i love kisses and cuddles and doing stuff that could be romantic if put in that context but like#it's not romantic. it doesn't feel like that and honestly i don't really want it to anymore#funny how things flipped around like that lol#i guess i'm also still coming to terms with the whole aro thing#i think it's super cool and i'm really proud of this new aspect of my identity i've learned#but i guess it's also a strange feeling to go from being obsessed with romance to being so neutral about it lol#it also makes everything else mix weird#like. i don't want a romantic relationship but if i did it would be with a girl or enby or just. idk somebody who's not a guy#but also guys can be hot!! and i'd fuck a guy! but i wouldn't wanna date one#but also i don't wanna date anybody#but also. girls... <3#does that make sense???#i am a queer little bitch and it's silly and fun and i like having a funky identity lol#so like. i am a lot of things but right now? i feel like aro is the top thing. the other attraction stuff is less important lol#i am aromantic first and a pan lesbian second. but aro takes up like. most of that#idk i'm sleepy and i'm rambling but main point is. I'M FUCKIN ARO BABYY AND THAT'S COOL AS SHIT#(greyromantic and quoiromantic specifically but that's very wordy lol)#and finding this out has been so good for me. i feel so much better about myself now#i have a better understanding of my relationships with people now. i can actually start to parse out the difference between ''i want to do-#-romance things with this person'' and ''i wanna be really close to this person somhow'' ?!#GOD do you know how many times i've thought i've had crushes on people just because i was becoming closer friends with them????#amd now that shit is easier to figure out!!#it's fucking freeing!!#good shit :)#okay i go sleepy lol
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