#it's actually kind of come as surprise just how aggressively unsupportive they've been | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

judeharoldvich · 10 months ago

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oh so when my ex is trans my parents are all 'he' this 'him' that 'forgot he ever went by another name' but when i attempt to come out to them three separate times the first (and so far only) time they've so much as used my preferred name was to mock me for manspreading in my grandfather's zafira

#it's actually kind of come as surprise just how aggressively unsupportive they've been #like. they havent kicked me out which is super cool of them. but also i am now being constantly ridiculed #if i'm not being ignored #i thought it wld be like #awkward and difficult but ultimately they'd come around #but my mum despite being the best out of all of them about it is not making ANY attempts to gender me correctly #if anything she's been saying my deadname more than she ever used to #like suddenly the pet names stopped and now its my full government name #they're being 'supportive' at the barest possible minimum level in that they're not like. telling me i'll go to hell or whatever #like weirdly enough its the catholic in the family (my mother) who's being the. relatively normalest about it

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