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pinkhysteria · 3 years

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people who enjoy fictional codependent familial dynamics and consequently get mad if one of the family members develops a friend/love interest that lets them branch out and care about a non-relative + accuse that of being “unhealthy” are so bizarre to me...

#i'm not wording myself properly i just saw sum annoying on spn twt and had to quick vent dskdjks #(if anyone gets what i'm talking about thank u ❤️️)#to be clear the 'enjoying fictional codependency among family' isn't rlly weird to me #it's the pretending that isn't unhealthy and someone 'coming in between that' is the REAL toxicity #like i think freelin is poorly developed... but i've seen people say such weird shit #such as their issue isn't the ss or it being rushed (usually from freya stans - since the former would have to fall on her not keelin)#it's 'freya shouldn't care about her this much over her siblings this isn't healthy >:('#or dumb shit like 'elena is pitting the salvabros against each other' @*????#a scene like kat telling elijah he should stop babying klaus and get a life would be 'toxic' to these types of ppl is what i mean #the chrs in these familial dynamics can only settle down with someone who 'knows their place'#even if they get to spouse/serious partner level?? they still have to put their siblings first even with dumb shit #if you think stuff like the mikaelson fam is a good depiction of a happy family i just think 'unhealthy' should be taken out of ur vocab #at least as a pejorative... like u enjoy the unhealthiness in question babe lbr #abt

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