#im just saying like for example if someones really smelly on the train then like that's kinda rude to their fellow passengers yeah but

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Something i think is missing in this whole fuckass smoking at concerts conversation is the middle ground which is just that sometimes people are existing in their own ways and it's inconvenient to others and thats ok. Like i voted yes it's rude to smoke at an indoor concert because on an objective level yes it is rude. But like, shit just because youre living your life doing something rude in a shared space doesnt mean i hate you it just means youre a little bit rude and ill deal with it in my own ways. Like why cant we accept the fact that the range of human interaction is incredibly varied and sometimes people do things that are inconsiderate but theyre not evil for it and sometimes people dont like the inconsiderate actions of others and theyre not evil for it either. Youre not an irredeemable asshole and im not a prude for using a public space in different ways it's just something we're experiencing and navigating together and thats a-okay