#ig the straights just happen to be more monogamous so that's why the results are Like That | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

joshoconnaissance · 9 months ago

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re: that poll i just wanna say i don't think having fantasies is cheating but like..... if there's a real person in your life that you think about fucking and fantasize about fucking while you have a whole-ass partner like.... again it's not cheating but it's not like a chill thing to be doing?

#that's why i answered gray area #just coming from my experience ok #i never cheated on my ex but i wanted to and i think that's still pretty bad sorry !#sue me !#they were just as hurt about the whole thing anyway so it didn't matter that i didn't ~actually cheat lmao #it just makes me wonder how many of the people saying no have actually been in a situation where they need to answer this #in my experience it was something i thought was very black and white until it happened to me personally #and i also don't think it's a straight v queer thing as much as it's a simple monogamous v polyamorous thing #like a LOT of the responses on that poll talk about being poly and it's like of course that wouldn't be cheating. to YOU #ig the straights just happen to be more monogamous so that's why the results are Like That #it's all about boundaries baby #oh wow a tumblr poll with no room for nuance made me mad? shocking!

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