#if ur kid expresses their own boundaries around you that's a good indication

[reshirfuse]

god these tags are so based

THIS!!!

[inthestars011]

Hi! How are you? 🥀 If it's not a bother, could you tell me your thoughts on my placements? I am a libra sun, libra mercury, virgo venus (all in the 4th house), aquarius moon (7th), leo mars (3rd) and cancer rising (2nd decan). Thank you if you answer! Hope you have a wonderful day, stay safe 🌹

Long day but I’m pretty good, and i hope ur doing well too!

and willlll dooooo

first of all, stellium in the fourth, it’s likely that your family is very important to you. family means different things for diff people so keep that in mind. you would do anything for your family and maybe sometimes you are too loyal like it’s too intensely patriotic if that makes sense, like almost like you’d go to the end of the earth for your family which is chaotic but sweet? however you are obviously a very loving person. 4th house stelliums can sometimes be a negative emphasis on home but because it’s in libra for u and is personal planets i think you had a rather enjoyable home life. not perfect you could have had a vain mother or parents that always imposed their own moral high ground over yours or your emotional world, but libra in the fourth is still a rather nice pleasant family life. also with cancer rising and a stellium in the fourth, it’s likely you have many cancer like traits. powerful connection with mother is often indicated with a stellium here. With sun in the fourth you really appreciate family traditions and try your best to revive them. You probably are the type to romanticize such cute little family traditions as well, but you are balanced and you know how to balance out your other life with your family life, even though there is a strong emphasis, libra will overshadow that and bring balance. which is sooo good. It is likely in your childhood at home you were the one who was the mediator, seeing both sides whenever there was an argument and you essentially just seeked peace within the home, which it was essentially peaceful but no family is perfect. With libra mercury, you speak romantically, softly, and politely. You have a great understanding of social context and cannot handle people who have no boundaries and are rude and inappropriate to people of authority, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU SEE THEM DO THIS WITH THEIR FAMILY, you were taught to speak politely and kindly to people, do as you want done to you. So you are furious when you see kids around you speaking rudely to their parents. In childhood, you were taught the whole “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all!” as well. Also the venusian signs, taurus and libra mercury tend to have beautiful singing voices but that is just what i have noticed. May often feel frustrated like you can’t express your negative feelings as they aren’t positive or nice enough but you have to find someone you can be authentic with and let that shit out. Bad thoughts sometimes need to be expressed so you can take power over them. As for love, you are shy and anxious. Sometimes awkward at first with potential partners. It can take you a while to open up. But you are a kind and gentle lover and friend, always being there to be of service to your partner/pal. you prefer to do this in little practical ways or giving someone advice. You can put too much love into other people and lack a lot of that love for yourself, WATCH OUT FOR THAT. It is extremely important to you that your lover gets along with your family, your lover loves your family and your family loves them. If that does not happen then you don’t think they are worth pursuing. You are very nurturing to your lover, sometimes too much, it can feel like smothering. You probably care a lot about the appearance of your home and it often looks beautifully aesthetic, or immaculate to others. Probably enjoy very chill laidback home movie date as a date night.

aqua moon in the 7th,; You probably feel isolated in the way that you are different than everyone else, something about you may be weird or out there. Which makes you feel like emotionally you are in a different universe than others. This is frustrating because you feel alone and isolated in this way yet, your moon is in the 7th so the thing you most crave and need to feel comfortable is love and human connection, but it is hard for you to connect because you feel so misunderstood by others. 

leo mars in the 3rd- there can be a firey aggression that is showed through your words when you are mad, you are passionate and you love to debate. you are dramatic and sometimes too brutal when trying to get your point across. with libra mercury, you are still polite and have your own morals you always follow, but i am assuming when someone messes with your family, your words are absolutely ruthless and filled with rage.

cancer rising- you are soft and you look very emotional. sad girl energy.  you have baby or momma energy. people feel like they will be cared for when around you. you are meant to empathize with yourself and the world no matter what. idk much abt decans.

thanks so much and feedback is always appreciated, and yes you stay safe as well! xoxoxo