#idk. dating for money and to secure your future creative ventures isn't a bad thing. it isn't selfish to want a man that doesn't suck | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

springboggle · 7 hours

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People online keep saying gingers are nice to date but I don't want to be a sex tourist just because I can't pull a good man at home...but also I do admit I kinda could care less about men's feelings at this point and using them for my happiness doesn't really phase me anymore 😭 am I a bad person

#idk it's just like I kinda don't care if a man is feeling used or fetishized by me or whatever else #generally speaking I don't have a preference looks wise or even class wise...it's just about being a good fucking person #the problem is though when a man has ONE fucking thing ''wrong'' with him he's more likely to be a demon for no reason #it's just kinda like. I don't chase people based on features and shit but also culture is important.#and it just feels like I'm so culturally incompatible with men in my communities that I can't really give them a shot #idk. dating for money and to secure your future creative ventures isn't a bad thing. it isn't selfish to want a man that doesn't suck #but also lmfao 😭 going to Ireland for a bf especially with my interest in the history and folklore from it is diabolical work low-key.#it feels weird to do

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