#idk i just maybe would stop fucking watching said jilted former partner's instagram stories
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#i personally#and this is just me#but for me personally if i'd spent multiple years making my partner feel guilty and confused and needy for not being poly enough for me#and insisting that the only way i was comfortable or happy was if we eschewed exclusivity or heirarchy completely#and then promptly one day in the middle of an extremely chaotic and panicked conversatiob#told said partner i was leaving him completely to be monogamous with a woman i'd been on and off dating for a year#and then i left with my cat and like three shirts leaving our shared apartment full of my stuff#and if i then went off the grid almost entirely#responding to almost zero text messages and providing no explanation#and then if i scheduled a conversation with said partner wherein i stared at him until he started talking#at which point i said that him being upset was making me feel unsafe and that i needed to leave#and then i went even Farther off the grid#and now after a month have still not provided any clarity or any hint of kindness#idk i just maybe would stop fucking watching said jilted former partner's instagram stories#and if i had claimed in my one text to said jilted former partner that i was quote incapable of handling literally anything#on account of having panic attacks all the time#i wouldnt then also share a picture of me and my cute new girlfriend with our arms around each other at a bar#idk this is all just conjecture but me personally i wouldnt maybe do any of that
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