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i-like-anything-water · 9 days ago

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after meeting my current partner I realized something very important which i thought wasn't that much big of a deal back then when I was dating other people:

I thought I didn't want kids because I could never be a mother figure, turns out I do (want kids) but I'm just a dad figure.

#does this make sense? i hope so #but like the distinction of being a mom and dad #i can't explain it properly yet #but like I'm leaning towards the responsibilities (?) of a father figure more than that of a mom #don't get me wrong i also can do motherly things because i would love my family to bits #just that when my partner jokingly refered to me as 'dad' to our stuffed toys I was like 'hold up say that again'#AND BOY DID IT MAKE MY HEART WARM #I mean i have asked myself if I'm trans multiple times back then...#and my heart and mind would answer no (nothing wrong about being trans btw)#no in a sense that i am not trans but rather closer to non binary #idk I'm still figuring stuff out but it feels nice to discover stuff y'know y'know #anyways this is just me rambling on how i probably might cry when we have kids some days and they call me 'pops' or papa #but mum sounds good as well ^^

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