#id rather you just not talk about issues that effect men than to butt in your head where you weren't going to offer empathy anyways
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i dont need a cis person telling me the severity of my problems.
#you havent even seen the other side of things how can you pretend to be an authority in any way?#come find out what its like to be a man and watch her shut up forever about it.#'but my transfem friend said'- your transfem friend does her damned best to pretend who she was before she transitioned doesnt exist#to the point of denying it at times. i dont think shes a reliable narrator in this context.#also she doesnt know what its like to be a trans man specifically which is a worse intersection of man than others#also her experiences aren't universal. mine arent either but tell me why its so easy to find other dudes who agree with me#i dont think its all an agenda or 'to get back at women'. sometimes men experience genuine issues bc of the patriarchy#thought you knew#can you just say you dont want to offer empathysympathywhatever to me and that its too much of a chore.#saves more time than you pretending it has anything to do w/ anything else. politics. 'genuinely caring' but only offering it#extremely conditionally and esp not offering it to men if you *feel* like you dont have to. whatever you want to call it.#like i get it you have limited emotional reserves and decided all men will never deserve an ounce of it and you have 'better' things to#prioritize. you can pretend thats not the reason but ik for a fact it is.#id rather you just not talk about issues that effect men than to butt in your head where you weren't going to offer empathy anyways
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