#i've witnessed this particular bond firsthand

[nikoisme]

Okay so I feel like that if my men Odysseus and Hector ever interacted (in a not-enemy way) they would have the energy of "two dads in the tool section of a shop". One would see the other checking out a drill and he would be like "hey that's actually pretty bad, not a good investment man". Then they would spend a solid 30 minutes talking about the different tools they use. They would bond. Immediate bros. And then they leave and like never interact again

[tjcrumpton]

Tarik Crumpton Shares The Role of Communication in Basketball Coaching

In the dynamic realm of basketball coaching, success is not merely determined by strategic plays and flawless execution on the court. A crucial element often overlooked is effective communication, which plays a pivotal role in fostering a cohesive and winning team. Over many years of experience in the world of sports content creation, I've witnessed firsthand the transformative power of communication, and today, we delve into its significance in the context of basketball coaching, with a particular focus on the coaching prowess of Tarik Crumpton.

Building a Foundation

Communication serves as the bedrock upon which successful coaching strategies are built. It is not just about verbal instruction but extends to non-verbal cues, body language, and creating an environment that encourages open dialogue. Tarik Crumpton, a name synonymous with effective coaching, emphasizes the importance of building strong communication channels within the team. This foundation facilitates a seamless flow of information, ensuring that every player understands their role and responsibilities on the court.

Motivation and Inspiration

Great basketball coaches, like Tarik Crumpton, recognize the need to inspire and motivate their players beyond the Xs and Os. Communication becomes a tool for instilling confidence and fostering a positive team culture. By delivering constructive feedback and words of encouragement, coaches can ignite the spark that propels players to perform at their best. The ability to convey a shared vision and create a sense of unity among team members is a hallmark of effective coaching communication.

Adaptability and Flexibility

In the fast-paced world of basketball, adaptability is key to success. Coaches must be adept at adjusting strategies on the fly, and communication is the linchpin that holds this process together. His coaching style reflects a keen understanding of this principle. By maintaining clear and concise communication during games, timeouts, and practice sessions, Crumpton ensures that his players are well-informed and prepared to adapt to the ever-changing dynamics of the game.

Individualized Coaching

Every player is unique, with distinct strengths, weaknesses, and learning styles. Successful coaches recognize the importance of tailoring their communication to suit individual players. TJ Crumpton's coaching philosophy is rooted in understanding his players on a personal level. By acknowledging their strengths and addressing areas for improvement through effective communication, he cultivates an environment where players feel valued and understood.

Team Cohesion and Chemistry

Basketball is the epitome of a team sport, and effective communication is the glue that binds players together. His coaching success is, in part, attributed to his emphasis on building team cohesion and chemistry through communication. Whether through team meetings, group discussions, or one-on-one conversations, he fosters an environment where players feel comfortable expressing ideas, concerns, and suggestions. This open communication contributes to a stronger team bond and, consequently, improved on-court performance.

[ninjagiry]

Do you think someone can be an energy/life vampire without knowing it? I've known a couple of people in particular that drew friends to them like magnets, despite not really being likable or interesting. Everyone was always very drawn after being around them, in both cases I witnessed. But neither person gave off the vibe that they really knew what they were doing.

I definitely think that’s something that happens. I’ve both seen and been snagged by people I would definitely define as Vampires, but only one of them ever gave me the impression that they were fully aware of the impact they were having. 

Passive Aggression and microaggressions are some definite trademarks of a real-life vampire. Sometimes it’s intentionally malicious, but other times it’s simply learned behavior. More than once I’ve experienced a person whose home life and relationship with their parents was strained or unpleasant. I’m not saying that anyone with an unhappy home life IS a vampire, mind. But more than once, I’ve seen a person adopt the same behaviors their parents or family used on them to weigh down and “control” other people. And in these cases, where there is an obvious dislike for the person they seemingly learned the behavior from, I definitely think it’s an unintentional and subconscious act of mimicry. 

It’s a tricky subject to talk about, in all honesty. From an outside perspective, and even as I try to write about it objectively right now, it all sounds like complete fantasy nonsense. Vampires don’t exist. Dracula is a work of fiction. But there’s a grain of truth in every lie, I suppose. Real-life vampires are the most subtle and least recognized types of abusers. They are so discreet that most people won’t even realize the extent of the damage done to them until years after the bond is severed, if it ever is. I’ve both experienced the effects firsthand (several times) and watched it happen to people around me. and more than once in the latter cases, I couldn’t help but feel like it was SO OBVIOUS. “They’re dangerous! Why do you keep going back to them? They are harming you!” But that’s how they work. You don’t notice it unless you’re completely uninvolved with them. 

We grow up in a culture that praises familial bonds as being among the most important form of love. It’s the first intimate emotional bond most people ever experience and we see plenty of media and poetic waxing on how a parent’s love is instinctive and omnipresent and can overcome any hardship or obstacle. So when someone’s relationship with their family is strained and unhealthy, but they’re still being fed the message that family is the purest form of love, it’s easy to see how some might make to connection that that’s how relationships and emotional exchange is supposed to work. Not just with parents and children, but spouses and friends as well. They may not even be consciously aware of it. And it’s not their fault, but it’s not something that should just be ignored. If it’s ingrained in them this way, then more likely than not they’ll have to make a conscious effort to break the habit, if it can be broken at all. 

Of course, I’m not a psychologist. Not even close. I am an English major ffs. I could be completely and totally off here. But that’s what I personally have observed. and it’s a difficult thing to talk about. there’s no one answer and no one solution because every case is different. 

Ignore me I have baggage.