#i'm just reallllly curious on what is the preference

[softserve-sebongie]

since alot of people have issues with this and it isnt on your pinned, i wanted to ask.

are blogs that arent specifically sfw allowed to follow and interact with your posts, or will not sfw blogs be blocked and unable to do so.

its alot of work to make a second account and switch between them on here and sadly the weird side blog feature sucks and isnt seperate at all aside from a name and the follows and dash are all the same so it makes no difference, so im really hoping it doesnt matter to you because the only other person who i can safely read agre content from and actually interact with it is minminyoongi since they also post nsfw content (completely seperate!!! but same account) and dont have anything against it on their blog, but all other accounts say sfw blogs only and such that makes me feel bad and gross to even like and reblog it, all for having nsfw on my page that is able to be blocked by tags and in settings as well as be up to your own person to interact with.

ill still read silently and not interact if thats what i have to, but i figured if i ask then theres a chance that wouldnt be there otherwise, where you might be fine with it since each person is accountable for themselves anyways. have a nice day, whenever you read this!

hi nonnie!

that's a good question, and sorry if it's a bit of a long answer :')

likes and follows are completely okay! I understand that they come from the main account, and that not everyone's main is sfw, so it's not really something that anyone can control lol.

while I would preferrr reblogs to be from sfw accounts, I am okay with not purely sfw accounts reblogging, as long as it's not being interpreted/tagged as an nsfw work. (I know that's not what you're implying! just saying it in case anyone is wondering ♡). I appreciate reblogs! and just because you're a part of the agere community doesn't mean you can't have interests outside of that, and I respect that. doesn't make you dirty or gross, nonnie, I promise :3

that being said, I would reallllly appreciate strictly nsfw kink accounts (as in that is the only content on your blog) use a different account to reblog. I'm not going to block or make call-out posts or anything like that, just stating my preference for my works. just for my comfinessー not because those accounts are inherently bad. and if you fall under that umbrella but would still really like to reblog, all I ask is that you tag it as sfw and/or nonsexual.

I have an open policy because I want this to be a safe space for everyone. I appreciate you asking the question, nonnie, and I'm actually gonna link this in my pinned post so if anybody is curious they can look here as well.

hope you have a good day as well! and thank you both for the ask and for enjoying my works! ♡

-🍦

p.s. the only way people are getting blocked is if they start tagging nsfw things under my posts or make nsfw requests lol

TL;DR

personally, I am okay with not specifically sfw accounts liking and reblogging my works, as long as they aren't being tagged/ interpreted in that manner.

[blackcoffeeandblankpagess]

hey! i just got accepted into unc and i'm pretty sure i'm going there this fall. how is the atmosphere/vibe of the whole area? i'm more liberal-minded and i'd like to be around people like that. also, what is there to do while at unc? what is there to explore (on campus/off campus)? how's the food? and how did you find the transition from a high school schedule (back to back classes) to classes with hour breaks or so in btwn? sorry for all the questions!!! i'm just excited and curious :)

omg congrats! please come here we can be friends lol. okay I’m apologizing in advance because this will def end up being super long….

(so first assuming this is a different person I’d suggest going back and reading my answer to another similar question I got about UNC yesterday)

1. UNC is VERY liberal so don’t worry at all about that. I usually describe chapel hill as a liberal bubble in an otherwise conservative state. That being said there are definitely students who fit into any given category of political views so if someone weren’t necessary liberal they could still find like-minded people

2. The vibe of the area is what I would describe as cute southern town charm (I’m from the northeast so that’s what it appears like to me at least since I didn’t grow up around here). People are really friendly and the town is very cute…that’s not to say that campus isn’t more tense around exams and such but that kind of comes with any school

3. I talked more about the food in my answer to the ask the other day. Compared to your average college food I would definitely say that it’s good! Still nothing worth writing home about though. There’s a wide variety of restaurants in the town though and I reallllly like them. There’s the typical cheap college pizza places but there’s also thai, greek, italian, ice cream shops, mediterranean, mexican, etc. Really a little bit of everything.

4. There’s a lot to do on campus/off campus. There’s TONS of clubs so you can definitely find something that interests you. It’s a huge sports school so going to games (cough basketball cough) is a lot of fun. I took a drama class last semester and had to go see 3 plays by the school theater company and that was something interesting and out of the ordinary (for me at least). Also there’s obviously greek life so parties are big on the weekends…but if you aren’t into that (@ myself usually) you don’t necessarily feel left out either since there is a lot to do. The town has a lot of restaurants like I said. There’s bike paths and greenways and parks so lots of outdoorsy stuff. Also if you have a car there are a lot of awesome mountains only a few hours away for day hikes. And if you don’t have a car campus rec runs hiking trips every few weekends which I have yet to go on but want to. The town next to Chapel Hill (Carrboro) is basically my fave place ever. Tons of coffee shops, a co-op market with a bunch of picnic tables outside that are always occupied by families and DOGS on the weekends, farmer’s markets, etc. Also, yoga studios, movie theaters, etc. And then Raleigh and Durham are also relatively close if you want to do more city-ish things.

5. As far as the transition from high school I honestly really can’t compare the two. The freedom  that comes with the way your schedule in college is is amazing. Personally I don’t really have many gaps between classes because I prefer to just knock ‘em all out in a row but when I do have time there are tons of places on campus to chill and get work done or grab food in between classes. Also, depending on which dorm you’re in (My dorm is going to be a freshman dorm next year so maybe you’ll end up here!!) you might be close enough to your classes to just go back to your room in between them. My classes are a ~5 minute walk away so I’ll come back if I do have a long gap of time.

Damn. Okay I hope that helped, if you have any more questions don’t hesitate to ask and if you end up coming here (you should) shoot me a message this fall and I can be your first friend on campus :)