#i'm just happy she's comfy w the identity tbh i don't care about being right | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

cementpizza · 11 months ago

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Arguing with a straight person about the significance of demi identities is either oddly funny bc they just haven't realized they're demi themself or oddly sad because they genuinely do not understand the difference between sexual and romantic attraction

#one of my best friends was the first a few years ago and i knew it then too lol #she has since had the realization and came out to me and apologized for the argument lol #i'm just happy she's comfy w the identity tbh i don't care about being right #but my roommate's bf was a recent one for the second type and oooooof #it lowkey hurt bc he does not know i'm demi. very few people do in fact. so the way he kept saying 'those people' was just... ugh #like sir i'm sorry you can't fathom not falling a little in love with every one night stand you had #but i can't fathom having sex w someone i met an hour ago so let's just call it even #but nooooooo not understanding means it's bad and unnecessary. okay. whatever lmao i am going to continue to be demi anyway

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