#i'm also worried bc my hair is curly it'll never look the way i want it too but also. yolo. i should try anyway

[hertwood]

my mom has been like hey~ i need a haircut! do u need a haircut? we should get haircuts 2gether! and i do need a haircut but i've been avoidant abt it (and we honestly dont rly have the concurrent time off to do it together) but the real reason is bc i'm very very conflicted between just getting a trim (status quo) or getting a more androgynous cut (gender experimentation). my big fears are that it's gonna be purposefully gendered in ways i dont want no matter how much i insist on androgyny to the hairstyle. i'm afraid i wont like it in general, which is like. i should do it cuz then i'll know!! and i won't be wallowing in what if feelings and my hair will grow back!! it grows fast!!!!

anyway do u think if i show up at supercuts w/ reference pictures of emma d'arcy and colton herta that'll work