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whirling-fangs · 1 year ago

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🚩 Whatever's on your mind bc I can't think of a topic. c':

send me a 🚩 and i'll share my unpopular rpc opinions and hot takes.

[[ It's okay to have favorites. Everyone has favorites. People should understand that sometimes you just have muse for a certain thread/type of threads for a few days and that's completely okay.

But if you ignore certain people for WEEKS all while being active every single day... Just be honest and admit you're not interested. Be honest with them and be honest with yourself. You have to make this into a comfortable place for you first and foremost, but being a decent person is actually super easy. Honesty hurts but it's 100% better than leaving people hanging and waiting and hoping for something that you cannot provide for them. ]]

#mask off / ooc post #[[like man. if you're only here for ships and the other person doesn't have the sort of muse for that just be upfront about it #you can't just feed people crumbs every month or two and still expect them to grovel at your feet #we are all equal here. we are all just nerd losers who care too much about ficitional characters #it's not hard to be respectful and to treat others like humans with feelings]]#[[like idk i have real nasty rsd i feel like people hate my guts and talk about me behind my back all the time but also #i'm adult enough not to listen to those impulses and appreciate when people do reach out to me #i balance between quick replies to threads i hyperfocus on and queue system to make sure i get back to everyone within 2-3 weeks #because if i don't see myself writing with someone i just. don't follow]]

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