#i use tumblr on vpn and sometimes things just don't get posted coz i don't have connection

[muslimintp-1999-girl]

I noticed that w Conrad, he very much seems to express his love with gifts and small acts of service. But with Jere, he gives Belly his time and his word. He expresses his feelings for her explicitly, whereas Conrad is more discrete (which inadvertently causes her to draw the wrong conclusions). I actually think that’s why Belly and Jere fit better.

Idk about the gift giving part coz boy literally didn't give her the infinity necklace (coz he was insecure of his mom's pearl necklace?? Idk? I still have no idea why he didn't & we don't have time to Decode (Sabrina Carpenter iykyk) this bs move of his tbh) and he wanted to give Susannah a gift but he literally was clueless about it and had to get Belly's help. I think acts of service as his love language seems true.

I think both Jere and Belly are overthinkers (esp when it comes to love and loving each other in particular) and that's why they need overexplainers in their life and someone who gives them reassurance and *gestures to the whole s2* that's what they do: explain things, have a conversation and most importantly REASSURE each other repeatedly without getting tired of it or annoyed by it.

Jere literally loves Belly in all the love languages and I would say they have a few of their own personal love languages too such as car rides. I know it's mostly quality time and words of affirmation basically. But like those little knocks on the wall and those good morning Bells and those spin hugs are like such a cute, little tradition of theirs 🥺💝💖.

I think more than the his love language being discreet part, we hate him coz he gives and he takes it back and trust me no one wants that. I feel if a boy/man loves you, IT SHOWS, YOU'LL KNOW, except in a very few cases, but most of the times you'll know. If you're left wondering, then they either don't love you or don't love you ENOUGH. Taking mixed signals as a no is self care and the right thing to do.