#i took a sumatriptan i'm feeding the dogs i'm gonna make pasta and try to relax for a few hours.

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okay so to no one's surprise the hospital is going to send mom back to a nursing facility. my understanding is they're going to set her up on the basis of PT/OT and also continuance of care and getting her some place that's more capable of getting her evaluated re possible dementia and cognizance.

which, as of yesterday and today she's agreed to do but like. we know how this goes. we've seen this rerun three times now.

the problem that i'm now immediately worried about is that supposedly, the facility she's already been at is the only one in network with her insurance. i don't want her back in that one any more than she wants to be in it after how they fucked everything up last time with refusing to do like. anything.

i never mentioned it bc so much happened at once but i asked one day when i was there "hey what happened to getting her into see her doctors? like, we got her sent back over here because i can't transport her and she needs to be seeing her doctors" and they told me that's not what they DO because they CAN'T do it which. makes no sense. i don't know.

anyway. i have a mental script prepped for whoever i talk to tomorrow that boils down to i don't care what the insurance says someone better figure something else out. go hassle medicaid about it. find her a new policy. but something has to be done because i am NOT allowing her to be released into my care because it's not safe, it's not sanitary, and i will NOT be pressured for the third time into bringing her into an unsafe environment and taking on that responsibility and they cannot force me to do so.

"call fire rescue" is NOT a solution when fire rescue have specifically said they are NOT a solution.

which is almost funny in a fucked up way that the one medical side of this debacle is like uwu you're doing such a good job no would fault you for anything

and then emergency medical every time is like "bro you know aps would have a shit fit about this right?"

yes. yes i do fucking know.