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why is "chronosion" or whatever on thin ice? i view it as similar to how system members can have different ages from the body + singlets who are permanently age reg/progressed (or ageless or whatever else). is it the association/branching off of "transage" (and the association of "transage" with pedo/4chan crap or the community it harvested and being buddy-buddy with pedos and all that crap) that makes it uncomfortable? or something else im missing? (i assume its not the experience itself because you guys are 8-10 and 16-ageless but i might be wrong because i have bad theory of mind)
yeah, it's the connection between chronosian and "transage" and how people often use them interchangeably. the creator of chronosian is opposed to "transage" and other "transx/transid" identities, but we still suggest checking the op tags and blog when reblogging chronosian identities because mogai tumblr is infamously bad at research and respect.
additionally, at least to me (rev), the concept of "identifying as a different age than the body" in general is very unsettling when used outside of specific plural settings. the creator of chronosian explains in this post that neurodivergent people may identify as chronosian because of how we mature differently, and while they do provide disclaimers in an attempt to fend off ableists, I believe that the association is still potentially dangerous. the creation of microlabels for different expressions of chronosian identity also seems to me like a trivialization of the material reality of age. as a Claudia, I find it helpful to sometimes identify as an 8-10 year old, since my emotions and personality will never fully mature. however, I also identify as a 26 year old who is fully capable of harming others as an adult and is able to consent to sex with other adults. I think it is important even as a syskid or a regressor to keep a solid grasp on your real physical age, both for the safety and comfort of others and for your own self-concept.
HOWEVER, I do think that the basic terminology of "chronosian" is helpful, and would identify as it. also, ETMK is not as serious as I am about this and does not have any criticism of chronosian other than finding the word itself "sort of dorky". so that's what we mean by "on thin ice".
tl;dr, we are overall ok with chronosian as long as it is divorced from "transage", but one of us has some friendly criticism about it.
#rev.txt#i think it's the seriousness espoused by a lot of mogai tumblr that does not translate well to#this kind of identity.#as in a person who is genderqueer and uses xe/it pronouns needs to be respected since that is a very real and valid way of existing#but chronosians are their physical age despite using chronosian terms for the sake of convenience and transparency#and euphoria#i view it similar to how we will call ourself a boygirl and a female man because of our tenuous relationship with masculinity#but ultimately we are various flavors of man and sometimes need to shed the genderfuck aggression when in serious conversations about#intracommunity trans politics because neither of us are really even nonbinary#like etmk is a she/it mangirl but if you asked her if she's nonbinary she'd say no i'm a crossdressing faggot.#so we cant speak for real nonbinary people.#tag rant somewhat off topic sorry. what I mean is that age expression/regression/identity has a performative aspect that gender#does not always have. so using xenogender type categories for it can veer a little intellectually dishonest#f slur /#in the tags
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