#i love u :')

[notthewriteryourelookingfor]

Hi, I am a fat woman, I grew up in the late 90s/early 2000s when there was so much pressure to be thin & eating disorders were encouraged & even "cool" and "fun" & because of that i often struggle with my self esteem/self image/weight & may easily develop an eating disorder if I let my brain go that way (unless I already have one in which case 🙃): I am here to give you all permission to be fat and/or curvy.

It doesn't matter about your gender, it doesn't matter about how you feel your gender should be portrayed, it's about your physical and mental well-being and how you feel sitting in your own body.

Everyone's body is different and everyone's body will react differently to different things. And on top of that, it's all genetics. My mums family is very wide, my dads family is very tall, you know what that means for me? I'm a tall, wide woman, I probably couldn't go under a size 12 even if I starved myself to a skeleton because my skeleton itself is wide.

Look at your parents, talk to them if you can, and see what their bodies are like cuz you have like half their genes. That doesn't mean you will be 100% or even 50% the same as them, DNA is a lottery.

Trans women: it doesn't matter if you carry all your weight in your lower half or top or you're as flat as a board - you're valid and I love you. Fashion brands just hate women and don't want us to be happy in our bodies so they don't make clothes that fit larger sizes well. I know it's annoying but if you can take up just tailoring your clothes so you get something that fits your largest section & make the rest a lil smaller I promise you're gonna look incredible no matter what size.

Trans men: the same goes for you. It doesn't matter if you have massive tits and an ass to match or you're flat as a board. People who say men have to be buff are wrong. So many actors that I've been obsessed with have a variety of body types. If you don't know this actor, look up Con Oniel, he is the current dilf of my fandom circle & he's often fat. And hairy. And I want to bite him. Your gender is what you make of it.

Non-binary people: I can only say this as an agender person (bigender - agender & woman) so this counts for agender people as well: your gender presentation is what you want it to be. You could look like Santa or Barbie or Superman or a Disney Princess or a wrestler, you're still nonbinary & 100% valid. Just because people can't understand that there isn't 1 way to be anything, doesn't mean they're right.

Food and weight issues are so hard to get rid of. I'm 29 & I still have this voice in the back of my mind bullying me for my weight & trying to get me to starve myself & work out until I break myself & no matter what I do I literally cannot get it out.

I know it's a struggle and I want you to know that I love you, that it doesn't matter what you look like, your gender identity is 100% real and valid because it's Your Gender Identity.

Things are going to be hard.

Don't let people who are trying to sell you laxative teas or fake diets or things that will harm you take your hard earned money.

Don't follow fad diet people on social media, don't let yourself go down the rabbit hole of harmful diets or like 1,000 calorie days.

The internet (& real life) is full of people who want to make money off you're insecurities and I give you permission to tell them to get fucked.

Eat healthy, yes, but also don't feel bad for treating yourself. Yes it's good to move your body but it doesn't matter if it's just going for a walk, or doing something like swimming or roller derby or rock climbing. Or even just doing some stretches or yoga in your home.

Look after yourselves and your bodies and remember that theres no 1 way to do things: Health, gender, everything else.

You are unique and your body is unique and will need different things to other people. Listen to your body not the bathroom scale.

I have a research background in weight stigma and I currently work in mental health, often with LGBTQ+ clients.

I've met nonbinary people who struggle with disordered eating because they only ever see androgyny depicted as featureless thinness.

I've met trans women who struggle with disordered eating because they've internalized the idea that girls are meant to be thin, dainty, and delicate.

I've men trans men who struggle with disordered eating, because they feel women are allowed to be soft/curvy but men need to be muscular or thin and flat.

So many trans people are convinced that weight loss is the key to appearing as their desired gender, even when they want radically different gender presentations.

The societal idealization of thinness and fatphobia falsely invades and derails people's idea of what their "ideal body" should look like.

[thysilus]

got a new foster and im turning him into an ipad baby

[clambatch]

like a murmuring brook

curving about you

[yooboobies]

the yoongi i first met and fell for | (for me)

{cr. namuspromised}

[mistmarigold]

there’s something about tiny hee-joo covering up and protecting her husband who’s almost twice her size and doing it without any fanfare. she’s been taking swift actions and quick decisions just to protect him - whether that be going to the police or hurtling herself off the cliff, taking away any chance of someone using her to back him into a corner.

ever since she realised he’s not as invincible as he makes himself out to be, she’s ready to go to war for him, shedding layers of protection that she had built over many, many long years. it’s stunning and absolutely breathtaking.

It's not your fault. Don't blame yourself.

When the Phone Rings (지금 거신 전화는) 2024

[larriescompass]

appreciation post for liam’s hair during the lockdown because it was always my favorite 🤍

[poorly-drawn-scumvillain]

Needed to draw some positive vibes. Hang in there everyone <3

[shepscapades]

Okay now give EX a little kith

A smooch if you will

Surely just one wont hurt (he will kill you)

[mmmsstvo]

i already said that

goodnight mon cher

Seems I have just missed you. Sleep well then I suppose.

[overwhelming-thoughtss]

I want to give up. It's really really hard to keep going when all you want is to give up. I want to be done.

[agustd3]

loved loved loved

[teddybeartoji]

i talk abt biting toji all the time but i think that after some time he'd pick up the silly little habit of yours without even realizing it... like you're laying in bed with him, laughing at a stupid cat video or smth and he just kinda chomps down on your shoulder. it obviously doesn't hurt but it just catches you so off guard bc he doesn't... do that? he's never done that before????? so you kinda freeze up for a second before slowly turning to him and the second your eyes meet his, he's pulling away and plopping back down onto the bed as if nothing happened. there are teethmarks in your skin and you feel.. proud? happy, that he's getting so comfortable with you that he can fuck around just like you do. oh, and he's definitely a little red in the face when you finally actually look at him lmao he's trying to convince you to pay attention to your phone again because his heart is beating a little too fast right now and he needs you to not look at him for like an hour.

[yanderex0]

[beetledecay]

NATIONAL HOLIDAY (geeway birthday)

[marmastry]

A red squid plush

[crushing-on-nico-di-angelo]

I've never loved like this...

@sweetlikeacherry and @weaselle // whimsy s // cameron awkward-rich // kiersten white // auguste rodin // @waitingforthesunrise // seventeen // eisha tandon // georgy chulkov