#i know the arseholes who dgaf never will mind themselves but i'm talking about US like where is the respect and accountability | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

dumbdomb · 2 years ago

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if you've been blocked recently, it's bc i actually check my notes and have had so many blogs on my dni on my personal posts that i have been blocking anyone associated with those accounts. either you have your likes hidden for this reason or you don't pay attention to who you're interacting with and what content they're posting. check the source, ppl 🙄

#it really sucks when trans people reblog the posts i actually wrote and there gets to be a chain of reblogs and then it branches out from #everyone else that reblogs from them and then it extends out of the trans circle and suddenly i have all these straight guys with #their patriarchal misogyny kinks and women with traditional gender role kinks etc and it all feels very sexist and #transphobic and homophobic and after it goes beyond that outer circle then i start getting dms that specifically are unwanted #i understand we're in public online but it's like the difference between me walking into a gay dungeon or a room full of people who #genuinely want me dead and want it to be as harmful as possible like i use tags for a reason #no one likes seeing all the dni labels directly on EVERY SINGLE post we make so is it really so unreasonable to have it on my blog #and to have that be respected by people who claim to care and want their own boundaries to be respected #i know the arseholes who dgaf never will mind themselves but i'm talking about US like where is the respect and accountability #why is the propaganda working on everyone and dividing us like we need to stick together #it sucks. i wouldn't even have half the dni criteria if people would just be cool and not force their kinks on me but every time i say #hey thanks for the ask or dm but i'm not a sub or i'm not into that actually or did you read my pinned (before it became a dni mess lol)#they'd always feel shite and it'd be a waste of both our time and a majority of those interactions would begin like normal #like they were trying to act nice first and ease their way into kinks i didn't share with them until i realized and then they'd be upset #(btw i meant to clarify the first part of these tags are trans people with detrans or forcefem kinks etc)#domb brain

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