#i just do NOT want to step on any toes

[acrobattack]

“Yeah I figure I could whack all three of these out in a day if I just focus really hard.” -me like a week ago

[fabdante]

branching off a reblog chain that i was tagged in by @coggedcorset that you can find here! (thank you!!)

1) do this uquiz

2) do this picrew

3) tag people!

tagging: @thevampireauthoress @ghouligan-ghost @derkem also any of my other mutuals and followers and pals (no pressure, of course!!)

thank you again!!

[northstarscowboyhat]

i have so many thoughts about a deltarune staroba. Mostly a war between “would clover be bio or adopted” mostly because clover being a human is alot less funny then the 7 souls being mosnters so that kris is lone as a human because the universe spites them

(Also the idea of fox/star clover is too strong)

I'm just answering this now because I SO agree. I know Clover being a human is an important part of their character (obviously, given they're an Undertale protagonist LOL) but the idea of the universe really just having it out for Kris specifically is also very on brand for Deltarune. Only Monster besties for them.

And to be honest, Clover could very well be a Monster and still be adopted by Starlo/Ceroba! This isn't the only ask I've received about Deltarune Staroba + Clover, and the fact that there's a lot of options has been stumping me on getting around to designing it. Like, how do Chujin/Kanako factor in? Lots to consider. Just know that I do really want to draw this, I just take forever in the brainstorming process LOL. But yes, I love the idea of Fox/Star Monster Clover it's so cute.

[fitpacs]

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[alisaint]

why does the byler fandom want will to man up so much. if it's not buff byers, then it's bear byers. like, can't he just grow up into a twink and age into a silver fox or eventually experience twink death. he's literally a "fairy" who's not like other kids and was bullied for that and his clothes. the showrunners have asked noah for years to make his voice higher pitched and slouch so that he'd look smaller than he is and they went out of their way to purposely try to hide noah's musculature/growth with layers and baggier clothing. will is not and never has been homomasculine, which is the entire point—both that he isn't and can't be like other boys, and noticeably so (which is his strength & defining character trait!), and the point of the bear identity historically (which celebrates and fetishizes masculinity). he's sensitive, gets grouped in with or mistaken for girls, and gets treated differently than the other boys because he simply is not like them and they know it. i feel like they also wanted will to appear smaller, hence the cues they gave noah, the blocking they've used previously, and casting a younger actor to begin with. why are you guys so obsessed with this lonnie LARPing and why don't you like will

[snickerdoodlles]

there's a point at which someone's fear of being a dick wraps back around to them just being a dick anyways

[aria-ashryver]

whats the etiquette around hosting prompt events?

like if someone is already hosting something for the Choices Monthly Challenge in may, is it an asshole move to be like "i'd' like to host something this month also!"??

i.e is this a "yay, two cakes!" type situation or an "aria you bastard, second event-maker, ruiner of everything, sitting upon your throne of jackassery" type situation?

(I'm curious about hosting an AU prompt event -- to which, I could do this via @choicesmonthlychallenge but the next available slot to host isn't til August and idk if I'll have the requisite dopamine then yk?)

[agdab]

i think my least favorite part about developing a relationship with someone is finding out what parts of myself i have to hide in order to be palatable for them

[mewkwota]

I am so sorry for the unwanted nfcv attention you receive, here, have a quick sketch i made for you :<

I really like your art and you inspire me, it would be a shame if you stopped drawing a beloved character of yours :< (understandable, but sad :<)

Honestly, I don't even know where to begin. (I hoped that) I was clear and reasonable with my wish to be distant on this adaptation.

If people want to enjoy something I do not care for, I think they have every right to, but all I ask is that it is not discussed directly at me.

If for whatever reason people wanna tie whatever about what I post towards that show then do it indirectly to their own blog or whatever, but I can see the messages or replies or whatever on my own posts.

Thinking about this show is bad for my brain, and I want to move on. I don't even want to be asked "hey Mew why u no likey?".

The sad thing is DXC is my most favorite design that Richter has, and I had this growing fear of having it associated with that adaptation regardless of how much they may have altered it.

I love this big guy with all my heart too. I like drawing him but gosh I won't lie if I say it comes with a lot of unnecessary irrational stress.

I believed people would understand even if I didn't say anything under each specific post (because why do I need to do that?), but somehow it's mentioned without fail. But my online experience is my own responsibility, so maybe at some point I will just have to step things up in the curation of my own space if this keeps up.

[alwaysbethewest]

I’m just thinking out loud here but I saw that there’s been some back and forth about the preponderance of age gap fics recently (particularly for Joel Miller x reader). It’s interesting to me after this fandom has spent so much time over the years talking about inclusivity in reader fics and how to write blank slate reader characters, that this trait seems to be treated as falling under a different category. I rarely see an age tagged directly in the pairing the way that “plus sized!Reader” or “Black!Reader” typically would be, as a way of signaling that this reader is meant to represent a certain demographic rather than aiming to be universal (though of course that unlabeled “universal” character is still often actually coded as slim and white 🙃). Listing “21-year-old!Reader” or “younger!Reader” would make it easier for readers to see upfront and skip past these fics (or to seek them out—since every tag on a fic serves as warning to some and enticement to others). Instead, a lot of the time “age gap” is buried within a paragraph of other content notes, and I wonder if that is part of why some people are feeling frustrated about it, that they feel resentful about having to hunt through the warnings to see if the fic is inclusive for them. I guess I’m curious if writers who write young reader/age gap fics look at it like, anybody who is older now was once young so they should still be able to relate, and age is not a fixed trait the way some other things are. Or if they don’t see inclusivity as a goal for reader fics, so that kind of labeling doesn’t matter. Or…?

[noirapocalypto]

I don't think I've never going to feel comfortable talking about my OC's in depth or sharing my lore.

[sissorcraft]

what are your thoughts on milly/wolfwood….. do you think stampede will push it like tri98 did?

good lird. Good Lird. the thoughts and feelings are Complicated bestie 💀 like. taking a step back and looking at it purely objectively, i think 98s milly//wood is cute genuinely. im not personally crazy abt it but i like them both as characters and i do like the moments they gave them

that being said. the absolute whiplash it gave me EVEN W THE ADDED BONDING MOMENTS when it just cut to THEM IN BED. i genuinely cannot overstate it i have had comphet shoved in my face in media for all my 23 years of being alive and it still made my fucking jaw DROP!!!! it genuinely just came completely out of nowhere. and that feeling of it having little foundation only got stronger when i read trimax and they had even less interaction

like. i truly do like both of them i think its a cute ship genuinely. but the way 98 handled it made me so fucking mad fr esp bc like. they handled vashmeryl REALLY WELL imo so like...... girlies what happened... 🫢

as for stampede. i personally dont see them pushing any relationships to be completely on god. like obv we can all hold hands together and talk abt how vash and wolfwood are gonna fuck s2ep1 like intro scene but realistically i cant see it either. at least not overtly. the way theyre constructing the show is very much so focusing more on the severity of the twins polarizing black/white moralities with humans stepping in to provide the more gray perspectives in between, mainly w meryl and wolfwood. so i think season 2s set up for some very interesting character interactions, esp w the introduction of milly confirmed which i am. so excited for

the characters all still have a lot of growing to do as well. i cannot see stampede wolfwood, as closed off and hissy cat he is whenever someone sees past his front, entering an actual serious relationship w anyone. now obv theres a timeskip so maybe season 2s wolfwood will have settled into himself a bit more and act a bit more like the wolfwood were all used to but even then. id be really surprised to see them pushing any romantically charged relationship, esp between wolfwood and a character being introduced this season

[irawhiti]

:|... not to overshare but it's... sad. knowing your grandmother wasn't white, she came from canada directly, she was running from persecution and hid everything just like her māori partner did. like... damn. i wish i could say where you came from. i wish i could find your heritage, the way i'm looking for my whakapapa. my entire "role" in the family is to find out where people are from. i just wish i knew anyone that i could ask about native history or tribal records. it's sad lol

[footofananimal]

Wonder if people would bite if I sold chibis in the splat tableturf card style 🤔

[vanillabat99]

A big reason why I love online communication is because it's all text-based, and I don't have to worry about speaking. I prefer text-based communication over speaking since it's so much easier to get my thoughts in order and make sure I'm saying what I want to say. Most in-person social situations are very stressful and I find it very difficult to speak, and even in online situations where I am comfortable I still prefer to use text.

I would like to use text-based communication in my daily life, but for general in-person interactions I think it would be more stressful than just speaking, so I haven't tried it. I do worry about what my family would think, and if it would be "taking a step back" in my life involvment.

I don't know if I would even be "allowed" to use alternative communication, since I am capable of speaking and have often been told I am well-spoken, and I don't want to step on any toes. I generally avoid social situations anyways so I'm not sure if it would even be worth it to try using alternative communication...

[hellolulu]

DCU fandom is so funny because everyone is always mad. Feels like living with my parents again 🥰 home sweet home 🥰