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trannydykepuppybot · 2 years ago

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Tops in their pinned posts will really be like, "I'm a tough, skilked top, unapologetically queer, accepting, also I'm critical of he/him lesbians and people with 'unusual' sexualities and I think if you like BDSM you need therapy." And then bottoms will be like, "all identities are valid! Fuck me within an inch of my life uwu."

(Wow, I started typing the tags and shit got out of hand. Love each other.)

The tags are out of order! Aaahhha.

#it makes me uncomfortable when people use this term because of what it means to me #lesbian #nonbinary #acceptable #i should probably make a pinned post #i hate seeing people talk about how they're critical of identities theu don't understand #why can't we stop trying to police each other?#people are protective of certain terms #i get it #but the same words can mean different things to everyone #we're all just trying to use the resources available to us to be as true to ourselves as we can #and we're acting like idiots in superhero movies who throw each other through the walls of the ship they're in #(that always bugs me so much)#what happened to radical acceptance?#we're gentrifying a movement that was supposed to be ungentrifyible #think of how you sound!#there are people who feel uncomfortable to hear me call myself a woman #they insist I'm devaluing their experience as one #but i AM a woman and it's not my job to conform to their language for their comfort #if you don't like what the word of or whatever means to other people #ask yourselves who the word really belongs to #who did you get it from?#I'm embarrassed by how ignorant i am about our history #I'm working on that #but i remember reading the ways queer people in the 90s described their genders #it was crass disorganized and beautiful #i remember reading a post by @vaspider about how we need to remember that there's no such thing as an faggot #it's all of us or none of us #these words don't beling to anyone #they mean everything to so many people

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