#i guess i don't really have anyone giving me positive reinforcement on how my body looks right now bc i don't have friends here either

[winterwriterstudios]

Cringe alert! Cringe alert! This is my OC made for fun. If you think she's cringe, okay, but you've been warned.

"Say hello to Ramshackle's only member!! Grim!! Oh, wait. Right. The...um...strange ghost lady that follows him with a camera, too, I guess. Always with an expression that tells us nothing going on in her mind, except when studying or playing a few pranks on people (she's truly earned the nickname Mademoiselle Trickster from Rook). The first ghost to attend Night Raven College as a student and probably the first to have pranked 90% of the student body, too. She truly means no serious harm, though. Avoiding fights and arguments are her go to reaction and she's often the peacemaker amongst students. If you need a quick laugh, cry, rant or anything in-between, she's always there to lend a shoulder or ear. The therapist friend everyone asked for but we never expected to actually exist."

Interviews With A Few Students She Interacts With

Riddle: "Oh, Prefect? It's shocking how she can go from being a studious student to pranking anyone she can in a matter of seconds. But, at least she knows how to pick her battles and study. She's yet to miss a single study session, unbirthday party or even get collared, so it shows she just needs some...positive reinforcement."

Trey: "If she had actual magic, I can only ever think of her going to Heartslaybul. She fits right in and even the upperclassmen respect her. And she also helps me around, trying to dissolve fights or trying to help me in the kitchen. She's nice, but sometimes, it's like she has a different personality for every situation."

Cater: "Ghost Girl Prefect is super cool! Laughing, smiling, being a good friend, ya know, just typical popular girl stuff. Sometimes, we have...talks. She's real good with those, ya know."

Ace: "She's a laugh, alright! She can be a nerd when she's with Deuce, though, but I guess I've got to have other competition, despite Deuce. Ugh, but it's so embarrassing to see her cheering for me at Basketball games. And NO, I'm not the one always looking for her, SHE's the one always looking for ME."

Deuce: "Prefect is a very supportive friend, which is sort of refreshing to have when you're around Ace and Grim, all the time. She also says that she was an honor student back in her old world. Judging by her grades, she's probably telling the truth. We both study a lot together and we both meet all the teachers we can to explain things to us. Ace calls us nerds, but Prefect just laughs him off."

Leona: "She's a bother. Can't even make for a good pillow. But she keeps Rook away, so she's not all that annoying."

Ruggie: "Shishishi! Free labor AND laughs. What's not to like?"

Jack: "She can be very passionate when she wants to. At all the track meets we've had, she's always cheered for Deuce. After Leona-senpai's Overblot, she's been cheering for me, too. Well, she cheers for Ace, Epel and Sebek, too. Even though she WILL scream anytime a horse touches her."

Azul: "Heh. Don't let her smile fool you, Prefect is quite the formidable foe, but an even greater ally."

Jade: "Prefect joins the Mountain Lovers Club, sometimes. When I'm hiking, that is. She's also quite the photographer, always taking absolutely beautiful photos of mushrooms. Oftentimes, she writes down my description of them behind the photo and for some that are especially beautiful, she gives them to me. She's also a great source of information. Huh? Did I say something? No, I don't believe I did."

Floyd: "I wish Shrimpy couldn't just fly off or go through walls, she'd be a lot easier to squeeze. It's kinda unfair how she's always talking to Jade and not me. But her pranks are funny!"

Kalim: "Prefect is so much fun! She's not exactly always up for a party, but she tries to help plan it out! I don't really get why she's shy around Jamil, though, he's not that scary! People say she's a ghost, but that's a bit harsh, don't you think?"

Jamil: "We don't talk much, so why are you asking me? She even avoids me, sometimes, and other times, she's just really quiet around me. All I know is that she's on good terms with everyone."

Vil: "She is relatively the most normal and respectful member of my fanclub on Campus. But her hoodie is atrocious, she looked much better wearing Pomefiore Housewear. If only that Potato was in Pomefiore, then she'd really shine."

Rook: "I am ashamed to admit that I was unable to notice Mademoiselle Trickster's beauty until VDC. It is my greatest embarrassment as a hunter to be unable to notice when I, myself, is also being hunted. But, no more! I shall not let this opportunity slip through my fingers, again! I plan on observing her beauty as much as possible to accumulate for lost time!"

Epel: "When I first met her, I thought she was a freakishly tall giant who couldn't fight to save her life. Now...well, she's the same, but I guess I understand her a lot more. Plus, I kinda get an ego boost, when she cheers for me at a Spelldrive Game. Sometimes she drags the others to cheer, too. And can you imagine? The giant hides behind ME when she sees a horse! ME!"

Idia: "We play video games and trash talk anime we don't like. That's about it, tbh."

Ortho: "I don't think anyone else quite notices or acknowledges how much of an older sister she acts to the first years. The first time I called her 'sis', she was so happy that she started calling me 'bro'! Sometimes she calls Idia that, when they're gaming, but I think she means it in the more friend-like way, still, I'm glad they get along!"

Malleus: "The Prefect is quite an enigma, honestly, quite a complicated puzzle mixed with riddles and jokes, but she's always entertaining me and, as she likes to call it, 'keeping me on my toes'. I hope it stays that way for as long as possible."

Lilia: "My dear partner in crime! Why are you asking of her? Has she committed another prank without me? Oh, she wounds me, sometimes. People say we are quite alike, although I believe they could never be more wrong."

Silver: "Prefect? She's always waking me up, whenever she can. Sometimes, while I'm sleeping, she carries me back to the dorm. Once, Sebek berated me for not keeping up in a sword fight I don't recall having with him and she defended me. Sebek then suddenly switched to her about using her 'powers' and started calling her a 'Ghost'? Their relationship confuses me, sometimes, but that never stops Prefect from greeting me with a sugary snack or two."

Sebek: "That stupid ghost is absolutely HORRIBLE at sword fighting. Still that never stops her from picking up a sword and swinging it around, like a child! She's lucky that I'm usually around when she does it, or she might poke her eye out! She's also quite the impersonator, fooling all but me, of course! Why do you even care? If you want to befriend her so badly, go ahead! Just don't force her to touch the horses in the Equestrian Club, she gets frightened by them. ... I MEAN THEY GET FRIGHTENED BY HER!!!"

[iloveyanderes]

Shikama doji/sika madu yandere analysis, this is mainly for me and my friend that will probably never read this despite the fact that they'll probably never read it, warning bad words and sexual themes.

This same friend made me read the manga and I have to say no character has such a big of an impact on me as shikama doji gives me, this man is number two on my list of favorite characters, sitting right next to my beloved shiraori(btw I headcanon the both of them as siblings) and I've noticed a very short amount of fics on him, I've really only found one so if someone could send me some more I haven't found it be very appreciated.

Anyway moving on the analysis we go into the first part, his character.

To this day he remains very mysterious, he's an angel like character who's intentions still remain partly hidden, my greatest guess is that he wants to revive his son Mika but Mika is kind of alive? Maybe there's like two Mika's and he attempted to create a perfect replica of his son but failed so many times until we got our current Mika? Maybe our Mika is a reincarnation of his son and shikama knows this but that wouldn't make sense since he kinda was really unnice towards Mika when he was turning into a demon and destroyed his dreams, one thing is clear is that he has an attachment towards his son because he quite litterly kept him in a clear coffin for an unknown amount of time, I'd guess about a thousand years.

He also is very manipulative while making himself seem almost saintlike, he uses people and then abandons him, he seems to care about people by calling them endearments before threatening to kill them and attempting to follow through with it.

I imagine him as a controlling yandere, while also being a training yandere(one that trains you to act a certain way), he's not one to lose his temper but on the rare occasion he does I pray for you. He's also not big on physical punishments, most of the time he'd opt for mental ones, even so he does really not like punishments going more for positive reinforcement. Kidnapping you is a pretty much guaranteed but locking you up really depends on the situation, a bit protective but really possessive.

I have so many ideas for this guy and I'm so excited to share them with you.

If we were talking Platonic yandere I have a couple ideas.

1.you being the angel Mika's twin brother, after his son died he'd probably lock you up, on a tower like Rapunzel, funny enough I could imagine him singing mother knows best,.in this idea I don't think he'd ever let you talk to anyone other then him, he would leave you alone for days sometimes even months, only to appear at the most random times, brushing your hair so delicately as if he didn't just leave you totally isolated for the longest time. He's overprotective anyone that even dares go near you will meet death, you wouldn't believe how many of his fledgling vampire accidentally walked into your quarters and perished.

2. Your one of the orphans he took in and turned into vampires, in this idea he would give you a lot more freedom, not consistently worried that your going to die if someone bad even looks at you, though he would keep you with him all hours of the day, those other Orphans and salves he brought? They wouldn't even have the chance to express there jealousy towards you simply because you have never once left his side, he'd also occasionally wrap you in his wings and hold your tiny body next to him, I don't think he'd let you age, preferring to keep you as a tiny child that he could forever manipulate.

3. This is my final idea for platonic yandere and definitely the funniest in my opinion, imagine if you were his younger sibling and he absolutely adored you from birth, taking over the job of whatever parents the two of you came from, being there when you said your first word, when you took your first steps, EVERYTHING. The funny part of this comes from you, you've always known that your brother Is a psychopath, you know about the people he's tortured despite how hard he's tried to hide it, you want nothing more to get the absolute fuck away from him, he's absolutely fucking delusional, everytime you try to hide from him he somehow convinces himself that your playing hide and seek, every time you run he's right behind you asking where your going in such a hurry, he follows you everywhere and your trying to get the Frick away from him. Imagine you somehow manage to seal him away for a couple hundred years and you meet our Mika and yuu and get super confused about it, wtf is his son here and the weird creation that he made. Imagine just dreaming peacefully, feeling happy you don't have to deal with your brother anymore and waking up terrified when your brother whose now possessing shinoa is hugging you, screaming on the top of your lungs and bolting down the hallway of whatever house you decided to sleep in. Basically this entire idea is you running while screaming and him following you.

Moving on the the romantic yandere:

1. Imagine being a cute little bird he found one day, one of that he ended up liking a little too much, so much that he turned you human and kept you in a cage, a cute golden one only for the most beautiful of birds, almost no one knows about you and it's going to stay that way, he's very territorial over you, being an angel himself he thinks of birds as lesser beings, so technically he owns you.

2. Instead of shinoa getting him as cursed gear, he gets you instead, though unlike shinoa he ends up liking you a little too much, haunting your dreams every night, clinging so close, and forcibly possessing your body just so he could be a little bit closer to you, he's with you all hours of the day.

3. Your one of his servant, you were a slave he bought and you listen to every single one of his orders, when he wants you to kill someone you do it, when he wants you to watch as he tortures an innocent person you had the audacity to help you do it, when he demands that you place your head in his lap you do it. With him you don't have anymore free will, just him only him.

This is all I've got for now, pls let me know what you thought of this and feel free to give me your ideas! Have a great day.

[stillbeatingheart]

tag game

I wasn't actually tagged to play by @ms-moonlight-inn but since she tagged one of my fics as something she plans to read this year (thanks for still having that one on your radar, hopefully you get some kind of enjoyment or inspiration or anything other than eek why am I reading this?! from it!), I saw the post and thought the questions were kind of unique (and I'm kinda bored) so here we go 💕

Location: US: Northern Midwest and finally getting some snow 🥳

Astrological Sign: Aries and it often shows

What’s a TV show or movie you plan to re-watch this year?

Rewatch? Hmm... I kind of want to rewatch Station 19 again from the start after the series finale that's supposed to be out this spring/summer.

What’s a book or fic you will probably re-read this year?

Not sure I have any fic that I want to reread, there's still too many on my to read list 🤷‍♀️

Kind of the same answer to the above for books, but I guess I'm about due for a reread of The Glass Castle since my sister got me Jeannette Wall's new one for Christmas. Also it's been awhile since I read Fragile Beasts by Tawni O'Dell and I've been randomly thinking about it again lately.

What is a song you will likely continue to play on repeat?

Deep Satin and Oklahoma Smokeshow by Zach Bryan

What’s a tasty treat you look forward to eating more of this year?

Not to sound like a food weirdo but I'm kinda at a point where I feel comfortable with my regular food intake and there's a lot of things I used to love that don't work for me anymore... but I'll always be someone who chases every meal with something containing dark chocolate

What’s a time sink that you will continue to sink time into this year?

I don't know what's truly considered a time "sink", it sounds kind of like it could have negative connotations if I say my kids but my kids and spouse are the biggest part of my time and I'd like to keep it that way. I haven't written much lately but I'd like to get back in the swing of it. I will sink as much time into the beach as humanly possible once again this summer, like always 😎

Did you pick up any habits in 2023 that you plan to continue?

Not necessarily a habit, but I've been trying to get back into lap swimming lately and I'd like to do that over the winter

What’s your toxic trait?

Being too hard on myself, negative self talk I guess but I don't respond well to positive reinforcement 😂

What is a coping mechanism you will continue to indulge in this year?

Running. Always running until the old body decides it's time to quit.

Tell me something you like about how you look!:

I haven't given up on how I look, but I've given up on caring if I fit someone else's idea of beauty or attractiveness - which has been a lifelong struggle really - and I gave up the gender expectations. It's been freeing to find a place of physical strength that I've never had before and allow it to be about that and only that, not about how it makes me look.

Give me at least three adjectives describing things you like about yourself: thoughtful, empathetic, accepting, and stubborn

Tagging @gnpwdrnwhiskey and anyone who wants to play. 💕

[undead-moth]

You know, I was just thinking it's been a while since someone clowned on this post.

Such a "hot take" but you're wrong. I know what the fuck the "point" of the before-and-after photos is. It's to reassure thin people they are not fat, right? Now tell me how that's not fatphobic? How is, "Don't worry, you're not fat!" not suggest that fat is a terrible thing to be? Nevermind that body-positivity is not supposed to argue that one body is better than another body, so how is it possible to say "Don't worry you don't have this body!" and still be "body-positive"? The "organs" thing is fucking stupid because a) not a single organ, not even a uterus, has any effect on your body's outside appearance. That is a myth that I'm guessing was made up to, once again, reassure the poor insecure skinny people they aren't one of the gross fatties.

Don't talk to me about eating disorders. I had 2 eating disorders at two different points in my life. The MAJORITY of people who have eating disorders are FAT. Thin people with eating disorders are the exception. So, tell me, how exactly are those images "meant" for people with eating disorders when they aren't applicable to the majority of people with eds? Tell me, how do you think it would feel if you were a fat person with an ed and ALL eating disorder treatment and support came in the form of, "Don't worry, you're not fat!" and showed only images of thin people? If you can't imagine, I'll tell you: It will make your ed WORSE. Because when you are ACTUALLY fat with an ed you KNOW you're fat and so NOTHING anyone tells you to try to help you with it (assuming they even do - most will congratulate you or tell you to keep it up because nobody cares about fat people with eds) doesn't APPLY to you. It only applies to the skinny people with eds who somehow look at a crease on the side of their waist when they bend and believe they're fat. This isn't even getting into how fatphobic - literally, LITERALLY - it is to be afraid of getting fat to the point of starving yourself.

"Thin people struggle with body image too." Lmao. They struggle with the fear of getting fat or being perceived as fat. They struggle with something that they aren't. Or at least, it sounds like that's what your sister is struggling with. That is not the same as living in this world actually fat. You're literally telling me to sympathize with someone whose worst fear is that she will look like me one day. Do you think I give a fuck? I don't. I don't give a fuck about any skinny person who's scared they're going to look like me. Whose insecurity isn't even about how they actually look but how they think they might look. I leave the house everyday actually fat. I'm subjected to the way people treat actual fat people. I have no one reassuring me when I'm insecure about anything. I have people telling me that I SHOULD be insecure. Sometimes they tell me that if they looked like me they'd kill themselves. Seriously. I will never understand what you people think is going to happen when you beg me to have sympathy for people who are afraid to death of looking like me because they think people like me are so disgusting.

Let me tell you something right now: If fatphobia didn't exist, your sister wouldn't be insecure about her weight. If fatphobia didn't exist, no one would need those before-and-after slouching photos. If fatphobia didn't exist, people like your skinny sister would not need to be reassured they aren't fat. Fatphobia hurts thin people too and "Don't worry, you're not fat!" in any form only reinforces the idea that being fat is the worst thing ever, and only makes people like your sister MORE fatphobic and as a result, even MORE insecure - which in no way shape or form is going to make her "healthier." So if you really care about your sister, you should still be opposed to "Don't worry, you're not as fat as you think!" "body-positivity."

Not that it should fucking matter if fatphobia hurts skinny people too but I have found the only way to make skinny and midsized people give a fuck about fatphobia is if I make it about them, even though fatphobia hurts fat people a thousand times worse.

"Just think about it" I have been thinking about it my whole life. I don't give a fuck about skinny insecurity. And my original post wasn't "attacking" anybody. It was asking for LESS than the bare minimum which was, "When you're being body-positive, please don't throw fat people under the bus at the same time." And you're adamantly telling me, "No. Skinny people SHOULD throw fat people under the bus because it makes them FEEL BETTER. Not everything's about YOU. Everything's about SKINNY PEOPLE," like I haven't heard that cry a thousand times.

Bottom line is I don't care. I am sick of telling skinny people, "Don't worry, you don't look like me" as if I'm the worst thing they could ever be. I am sick of seeing everyone else do the same. I am sick of putting their insecurity (fear, really) above my dignity in this world as a fat person. And I am SICK to DEATH of being told by people like you to "think of the skinny people" and put their fear above my own dignity.

The whole world is constantly asking me to be compassionate toward skinny people who hate fat people. I'm not fucking doing it anymore.

And God for you to respond to this post like it was just so brave of you to defend fatphobia and then tell me it is exactly about "you're not as fat as you think you are." Fuck off.

So much “body-positivity” just boils down to, “You’re not as fat as you think!” and only serves to reinforce fatphobia. Your before-and-after slouching photos are fatphobic. Your reassurance that, “Everyone has a pouch there! That’s where your organs are!” is fatphobic. Your comparison of different jeans that are all different sizes in different stores but all fit the same is fatphobic. Anything that’s meant to reassure thin people they’re not fat is fatphobic. Anything that fails to acknowledge that some people actually are fat is fatphobic. And you can’t be “body-positive” and fatphobic. They are mutually exclusive.

[professorwillynilly]

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[thelovelyghostwriter]

Neon Nostrade ABC NS/FW Headcanons

Okay. I’m gonna do this for our baby girl because well, she has a different set of kinks altogether. 

By the way, I will be referring to KuroNeon and KuroNeon when I’m doing this headcanon. 

Rated R Warning: Lots of vulgar terms. Don't like don't read. Don't go inside a cave and complain it's dark. I will block anyone who complains.

Let’s go for the ABC Headcanons of this brat: 

A = Aftercare (what they’re like after sex)

She’s two moods: either really drowsy after a good fuck or talkative. If she’s worn out good, she will be very sleepy and just want to lie on her partner’s chest. 

If she still has energy left, she likes to have a pillow talk with her partner. 

B = Body part (their favorite body part of theirs and also their partner’s)

Girlie is proud of her curves and face. She knows she’s cute and she has the curves. She’s not afraid to dress up for her man and drive them absolutely crazy. 

She likes her partner’s biceps and back. She likes to scratch and caress them when they are in a missionary position. 

If she's with Kurapika and knows his Kurta identity, she worships his eyes (kinda fucked up but yes!). She likes how it turns scarlet because of his deep intense lust (and maybe hatred) while they’re having sex. She finds it alluring, like a moth to a flame. For Chrollo, it's his spider tattoo.

C = Cum (anything to do with cum, basically)

This girl swallows. Nuff’ said. She likes to be milked too. She's submissive and breedable.

She also likes having her partner's fingers stuffed into her mouth after they finger her. A little taste on how wet she is. 

D = Dirty secret (pretty self explanatory, a dirty secret of theirs)

She has a bunch of lingerie shoots that doesn’t show her face. She then post it on OnlyFans to gain extra income. Just lingerie pics because she enjoys modelling for it. However, she won't show her pussy or boobs. Those are VIP access only.

She also fucks her new head bodyguard aka Kurapika and had a one time fling with Chrollo. Papa must never know this.

Good girls are just bad girls who haven't been caught.

E = Experience (how experienced are they? do they know what they’re doing?)

Not so much. She isn't a virgin per se (really think one of her clients or Chrollo took her virginity), but she also hasn't gotten around much due to her father having people to guard her 24/7. She usually doesn’t take the lead so most of the time she just goes with the flow. 

F = Favorite position (this goes without saying)

Anything to do with her partner dominating her. Girlie likes to get dicked down hard. So think of missionary, doggy and all sorts of variations that goes deep.

G = Goofy (are they more serious in the moment? are they humorous? etc.)

She is very childish and teasing alright. She's not serious about it. To her, sex is for fun. She wants to enjoy it. She giggles a lot whenever she gets a pleasant reaction from her partner.

H = Hair (how well groomed are they? does the carpet match the drapes? etc.)

Yeah. She goes to those high-end bikini waxing services to get her pussy groomed once ever three months. She may show her lingerie to others but she only shows her lady parts to someone special and she has to make herself look presentable.

I = Intimacy (how are they during the moment? the romantic aspect)

Uhhh... she is playful. She usually relies on the non-sexual dating part that her partner does for the romance.

J = Jack off (masturbation headcanon)

This girl likes to read smuts or listen to audios to get herself wet. If she really wants to get down on it, she uses a good ol' vibrator to buzz herself. She has to do it in a room though, where no one is around.

K = Kink (one or more of their kinks)

*clears throat* This girl makes the best porn to write LMAO. I can think of a few kinks when it comes to her (and her r/s with Chrollo or Kurapika).

With Kurapika:

Discipline and Bondage: Her bratty attitude pisses off his stern no-bullshit personality. Sometimes she does it on purpose to egg him to punish and fuck her. She secretly enjoys it when he spanks her, be it using his hand or his belt. She realises that he might be into bondage based on the chains on his hand so she suggested tying her up. They used ropes, clothes, handcuffs and of course (actual, not his Nen) chains. He sometimes chains her up Shibari style and likes to see her pussy drool over the chains. This starts whenever she acts up, throws a tantrum and Kurapika has to deal with her bs. It's not easy disciplining this naughty brat but he likes the challenge until she's an obedient brat begging to be his cumslut. When she's being a good girl, he'll reward her with a good fucking and another present (e.g. jewellery or handbag or whatever she wants).

Degrading and Humiliation: This comes with the disciplining part. Whenever he disciplines her, it comes with degrading her. Neon loves to be called all sorts of degrading terms: slut, whore, brat. He's usually very uptight so it turns her on when he gets vulgar during sex. It gets even more intense when it's hate-fucking. He's supposed to dislike flesh collectors but here he is enjoying the flesh of a pretty collector, and so they engage in hate-sex filled with degrading her and Neon loves every filthy second of it.

Breeding: Yes, I know I said Kurapika ain't gonna want kids, based on my analysis of him and it makes sense. Only after he accidentally knocks her up, then he'll realise "hey, this ain't bad". So when Kurapika realises that perhaps repopulating the clan isn't that bad, Neon is more than happy to produce kids with him and be the freakin Kurta baby factory. The whole baby-making process is fun, they will make sure they won't waste a single cum drop. Neon also loves to address Kurapika as "Daddy" because she knows it makes him feel powerful and it represents fathering her children. Sorry Light Nostrade, Neon has another daddy now.

With Chrollo:

DD/LG: Their age gap and height difference screams sugar dating. He loves to indulge in her materialism and spoils her like a brat she is (he just steals those items and gives it to her). Chrollo is one freaky mf who calls her princess, kitten, baby girl and all sorts of really cute nicknames. Chrollo isn't like Kurapika who would degrade her. He likes to praise his little sex bunny because positive reinforcement works. He wants her to dress up in all those frizzy lingerie costumes and roleplay in DD/LG.

Toys: [See the T for Toys for this one]

M = Motivation (what turns them on, gets them going)

One word: power. 

That is in the form of money and dominance in her partner. She loves it when they give her what she wants materially, be it that nice taxidermy butterfly necklace or that designer brand clothes and accessories. She doesn't care how you get it, but if you give it to her, she's sure to reward you.

Another thing that for sure turns them on is being dominated. Be it with Kurapika, Chrollo or anyone else, Neon loves to be dominated and fucked. Hold her by the neck. Let her know who is in charge. Make her beg to be fucked. A little possessive dirty talk will get her wet. Anything to do with establishing ownership of her.

L = Location (favorite places to do the do)

Neon likes having sex in the bedroom or in the guy's office. She likes to disturb her partner while he's working so they end up doing it in the office. Or some luxurious hotel. A bathtub will be good too.

There's a very specific location I want to write her having sex with Kurapika. A location so messed up yet so angsty but I will keep quiet about it for now. You would need to be one creative sicko like me to guess this one. Heh. 😶😶

N = No (something they wouldn’t do, turn offs)

A big no is her being 100% dom. Neon is kinda lazy in that aspect. She doesn't like to do all the work and wants the pleasure/pain handed to her. At most, she'll ride the guy while she's on top but she's going to be a real tease about it, hoping that they would get impatient and flip her over. When they do, she'll be more excited because that's what baby girl wants.

Stuff like pee or anything to do with that is something that she'll never do.

O = Oral (preference in giving or receiving, skill, etc.)

She likes to have her pussy eaten out of course. And how they make her come through oral sex. However, she prefers to give SLIGHTLY more. Just slightly. She likes to get her hair grabbed and face-fucked. Sometimes she engages in cock worship.

P = Pace (are they fast and rough? slow and sensual? etc.)

Usually, she says things like "fuck me harder", "don't stop" etc. to encourage getting fucked at a faster and rougher pace. Especially when they hit her G-spot. That sends her crazy. She does appreciate the slow and sensual but only at the beginning or near the end. Depending on the context of the sex session.

Q = Quickie (their opinions on quickies, how often, etc.)

Yeah. She likes quickies. This has something to do with disturbing and teasing her partner while he's at work. Yes, I'm talking about Kurapika. So a little quickie just for him to relax and catch a break is Neon's favour for him for working so hard.

R = Risk (are they game to experiment? do they take risks? etc.)

Yes. She's game on taking risks. She's actually the one who will initiate and explore with kinks she finds on the net. Heck, she once proposed getting fucked against the window and in the balcony, risking the fact that someone might see them (Papa absolutely must never know what his daughter has been doing). The fear and thrill of getting caught arouses her.

S = Stamina (how many rounds can they go for? how long do they last?)

I think at most two rounds. The sex can be really intense and this girl lacks stamina. She didn't go through formal Nen training (remember that she got hers without training), and her partners are Nen users and physically fit so they wear her out.

T = Toys (do they own toys? do they use them? on a partner or themselves?)

She owns them alright. She uses a vibe to pleasure herself. It comes in handy when she gets horny during ovulation and there's no one to dick her down.

As for using them with a partner, she uses a lot of toys with Chrollo. Whether it's the anal beads when Chrollo wants to get her ass fucked while he rams the front or making her wear vibrating panties in public, she's sure down for it. She also will wear a tail butt plug to complement her kitty outfit that Chrollo instructed her to wear. She'd gladly follow whatever freaky fantasy he wants.

With Kurapika, they don't use toys except for bondage items. If Neon were to sleep with a woman, she'll prefer to get fucked with a strap on.

U = Unfair (how much they like to tease)

Neon is the queen of teases. Especially if her lover seems uptight. (Yes, Pika boy, that's you).

She'll randomly sends him nudes while he's working. She'll touch his lap/balls lightly when they're eating side by side. She'll say stuff that sounds suggestive in inappropriate timings. She'll wink. She'll roll her tongue while eating and making eye contact. Just to initiate sex.

V = Volume (how loud they are, what sounds they make, etc.)

Neon has a high-pitched voice. She's very vocal during sex. She can't help it. Honestly, she sounds like those girls in hentai porn but more genuine lmaoo. She'll moan, squeal, whine, squeak and pant with the occasional "yes", "fuck me", "harder" and all the short needy dirty talk to push them to do her rougher.

W = Wild card (a random headcanon for the character)

She likes to shop for her outfits. It excites her thinking what type of kinky outfit she should buy to make her partner horny. Be it another lacy lingerie, bunny outfit, kitty outfit, she'll be sure to look delectable in her man's eyes.

She looks REAL good in pink or white. Most of her outfits are in that colour. 💖💖

X = X-ray (let’s see what’s going on under those clothes)

Neon has a B cup. She doesn't have those giant breasticles like Pakunoda or Shizuku. But that's understandable. I once estimated her height based on Chrollo's height and the manga panel where her head is at his shoulder. She's about 150cm, maybe even shorter. She's a petite girl. She has curves in proportion (she's not a loli, she's just small in height). But that's her charm. She's cute. Easily carried to be fucked.

Side note: The height difference between her and Kurapika (171cm)/Chrollo (177cm) is so good in this aspect (if you guys know what I mean) hehehe kekekek.

Y = Yearning (how high is their sex drive?)

Hmm... I think Neon is mid. She does likes sex but she isn't a sex addict. She gets in the mood easily, especially when she's horny during ovulation. She won't be in the mood when she's angry or upset at not getting what she wants.

Z = Zzz (how quickly they fall asleep afterwards)

She's exhausted after it happens. Definitely be sleeping like a baby. She'll lay on her partner's chest and doze off comfortably. If she still has the energy, she'll demand for round two or just pillow talk. Chatter her way until she falls asleep.

To end it off, I would like to give you guys some links to fanart where Neon is being hot, art by @anotherworldash :

Cat Outfit

Cat Outfit with Buttplug

Bunny Outfit Regina George reference

Neon in Shibari ropes

Chrollo and Neon

Kurapika and Neon

Neon sucking Kurapika off [Yes, you read this right]

Neon in pink lingerie

[bigbadwolf-ish]

Looking at some blogs I saw the rewarding of good behaviour being reinforced over the punishment of misbehaviour and I tried to also apply that to the terms that I use with her. Instead of calling her a wh**e, maybe I could try and use positive terms? And if that would be recommended, what terms do you think would work? I saw princess being used, but I don't think that would suit us. I doubt she would identify with it. I want to discuss this with her because I believe communication is key (5/6)

This was a six-part ask. I guess I accidentally deleted the sixth part, but it's been sitting in my inbox for quite a while so I'm going to try to give it it's day in court... Here are the five parts I do have:

Hey so a long ask incoming.. I'm new to the whole D/s dynamic tag. I saw your old timers post (which helped a lot) and then I followed and looked at a few of the blogs you recommended to try and educate myself. Part of that education process I'm doing I have one question (for now). Context: my gf and I have been together for a little over a month and I've always inclined towards controlling the scene and being dominant, while my gf enjoys being submissive.

Part of that is the fact that she has self esteem issues and body dysmorphia to some degree. She's a little curvy, and even though I think she's beautiful and I love her body features, society's conditioning of what body type is considered beautiful led her to develop those issues. Most days she is okay, although she doesn't know how to respond to me complimenting her physical aspects. She knows that I love her body and that I think she's beautiful, it's just that she doesn't think that.

And some days are bad. Some days she looks into the mirror and doesn't like what she sees, which leads to self-loath and anxiety, or gets on a scale and it's the same. And on days like that she needs me to take away her control and needs me to use her and her body for my pleasure, in any way that I want. Even on good days she enjoys the control being taken away from her and to submit to me, but especially on bad days. And I want to offer her everything she needs and take care of her.

That's how we started getting into the D/s dynamic. Like that we discovered that she enjoys degradation terms. I was fearful at first to do that and use degrading terms, but being told that she needs that I stepped out of my comfort zone knowing that we are acting out a scene. Outside of them she knows that I care for her and I tell and show her that every chance I have. Now my question is,

Looking at some blogs I saw the rewarding of good behaviour being reinforced over the punishment of misbehaviour and I tried to also apply that to the terms that I use with her. Instead of calling her a wh**e, maybe I could try and use positive terms? And if that would be recommended, what terms do you think would work? I saw princess being used, but I don't think that would suit us. I doubt she would identify with it. I want to discuss this with her because I believe communication is key...

First of all, guy... There's something to be said for brevity in exposition, but I do thank you for the context.

It sounds to me like your question is basically one of positive vs negative reinforcement and the overall value of degradation as kink. There's also an aside regarding pet names there... And you didn't ask it but you're also trying to figure out how to best navigate her body issues.

I'd be willing to bet these questions have come up at some time or another for almost every dominant here. Good on ya for asking for help. Apologies for the wait.

So let's knock out the easy ones... Pet names. Y'all have probably already figured this one out. If not, my suggestion is forget the common list and go with what works for your dynamic... @wolfpack-princesskitty and @kurious17 both chose their own, with some suggestions.

Now degradation... At its extremes, this can be pretty controversial within the community. I'm not sure what form this takes in your dynamic, but here is my personal rule:

If I can't use the term comfortably with a possessive (pro)noun, I won't use it at all.

Example - "My/Daddy's little slut," vs "My/Daddy's fat pig."

One of those makes me rather uncomfortable... Moreso than it would if I didn't take possession of the person to whom I'm referring. That's the key. It can be so easy objectify and dehumanize. Take possession of your partner and then decide what feels right and wrong from that perspective.

For some, that objectification is a kink. I never judge, but it's personally something I would never really be comfortable doing. Maybe it's the Southern gentleman in me... I dunno. Those kind of words just feel wrong in my mouth.

But you should take note of the difference between "you're a slut," and "you're my slut."

I can say with some professional authority that from a psychological point of view any degradation in the form of body shaming should be a hard limit for anyone with body issues. If this is the case, and she's stated it as a need, or if you've decided it's a need for her... No. In all likelihood it's a form of self harm for her.

Some women may insist that they need to feel that shame in a safe environment. I just say stay away from that shit. Which brings us to your primary query... Positive vs negative reinforcement...

It's all about balance, bro. You reward good behaviour, you punish poor behavior. It's that simple. She needs both.

But if you're using affection as positive reinforcement and degradation as negative reinforcement, you're doing it wrong.

You need to make her see herself the way you see her. Everything should be an extension of your love... Reward, punishment... It should all come from the same place... Every impact of the paddle, every time you growl in her ear and call her your dirty little whore... Every kiss on the forehead... Every new rule... It all has to originate in your heart, and she has to know it does, or it ain't worth shit, bro.

I'm sure some will disagree, but I'll point out you didn't ask them, you asked me.

Be well,

Big Bad