#how many times have I told them now that Im enby? i have a choker with the trans and enby flags on it and they keep commenting on that
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I know I'm spending too much time on Tumblr cause y'all just call me Harlenn
I just got caught off guard when someone who I know keeps calling my by my dead name did exactly that.
I'm so used to hearing the name I want to that I got blindsided and also it's making me re-evaluate my friend choices...
#like I get that its a little harder to get used to calling someone you've known for 7+ years by a new name#(as opposed to people who've known me for all of a month lolol)#but good friends at least make an effort....#or I feel like they should#how many times have I told them now that Im enby? i have a choker with the trans and enby flags on it and they keep commenting on that#they keep asking about the bigender pin on my backpack#so I feel like AT THE BARE MINIMUM using they/them for me shouldn't be that difficult#hell call me an “it” like my brother probably would if he weren't so insistant that I am a “she”#just something other than the constant deadnaming and entirely incorrect pronouns#idle speaks#queenie rambles#(if you're curious as to why I have trans enby and bigender things its bc I have no clue what the gender is half the time)#i usually tell people Im nonbinary because its a general term and easier to explain/more accepted than being bigender#i could probably get away with saying Im genderfluid but it just doesn't really feel right to me#it works if Im talking about the whole system#but not to much for me on my own#and then there's that constant question of “am I just trans and haven't figured it out yet?”#but that's pretty quickly followed by “no but sometimes I like being a girl so that can't be it”#idk#gender is weird#confusion
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