#holy hell this is a lot of blabbing but i'm getting there lmfao

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Annnnd it's the second part to me and my honey's composite chart comparison, this one I'm going to post our natal charts and then shortly I'll be posting our synastry and comparing that too. Usually when I look at charts I just break everything down into energies, so while I talk about our charts I'll be talking about where we have a surplus of different kinds of energy, and where we lack balance, what kind of energy we are attracted to. I'm of the belief that we attract both complementary energies and opposite energies. Looking at someone's compatibility is so subjective and I really think is more complex than it's given credit for.

Here is his chart

Here is mine

I'll start by listing our dominant energies. For my boyfriend, saturn, mercury and mars. Cardinal, and earth. Capricorn, aries, and taurus.

For me, mercury, pluto and saturn. Fixed, earth. Scorpio, capricorn and aquarius.

For someone who has a capricorn venus, I'm deeply attracted to the hardworking nature and values of capricorns and he is saturn dominant. For him being gemini venus, he's deeply attracted to the communciation, flirtiness and lighter side of gemini, and I am mercury dominant.

Both of us also have our chart rulers in the 6th house, we share the same ideals and put ourselves out there be in the service for others because it brings us fufillment.

I'm including our number one dominant energy because I believe aspects to the dominant planets or anything in synastry that touches one of these natal aspects, could just make you feel deeply understood and appreciated. For example, my boyfriend has his dominant planet in the 9th and in pisces, our composite has a 9th house stellium and a pisces moon.

His saturn in pisces, in the 9th.

Sun sextile Saturn

Mercury sextile Saturn

Venus square Saturn

Jupiter trine Saturn

Saturn opposite chiron

Saturn square vertex

Saturn sextile juno

My mercury in scorpio, in the 6th.

Moon opposite mercury

Mercury sextile venus

Mercury trine mars

Mercury conjunct pluto

Mercury square chiron

Mercury square mc

Our composite chart has vertex in scorpio, north node in 6th. The fact that our dominant energies are reflected in significant spots, says that this is a relationship that is taking us both in the direction that we want to and need to go.

What someone finds attractive is going to be much different from person to person, mars brings an active role in what you'd like. my man has his mars in aries, in 10th house, in the pisces degree. So he has aries, capricorn and pisces energy. Then you move on to natal aspects for more details.

Mars trine vertex

Mars conjunct pallas

Mars conjunct mc

Moon square mars

I have my mars in cancer, in the 3rd and in the gemini degree. So, cancer and gemini energy.

Moon sextile mars

Mercury trine mars

Venus opposite mars

Mars opposite Neptune

Mars trine pluto

For my boyfriend, I would look deeper into his mars aspects and placements as this is a dominant energy for him. Do my planets activate any of those aspects, which would increase attraction and understanding even more. Ie, his mars trine vertex, he has vertex in his 5th house conjunct pluto. Any aspects to his pluto or his vertex are going to be activating this natal energy more. I have my sun conjunct his vertex.

Regardless of if someone is mars dominant you would still for look to mars for what you're attracted to and the natal aspects widen which planets have a intimate hue to them. Whatever planet is touching mars becomes important for attraction. For example we both have moon aspecting our mars, our moons then become a planet that we can see sexual attraction from. His moon falls into my 8th house, pluto is one of my dominants and my moon falls into his 11th, which is where his venus is, and so it's a romantic house in his eyes.

As far as our venus signs, which is the passive energy of attracting, mine is capricorn, in the 9th, in leo degree. Capricorn, sagittarius and leo energy.

Moon trine venus

Mercury sextile venus

Venus opposite mars

Venus sextile pluto

He has gemini venus, in 11th house, in leo degree. Gemini, aquarius and leo energy.

Venus square Saturn

Venus trine Uranus

Venus opposite pluto

Venus square chiron

Venus sextile pof

Venus conjunct ceres

Venus sextile mc

Side note just to say he's a romantic inside, he says he always wanted to be in love. He's had a lack of love from others but has a lot of love to give.

The same thing will go for venus, anything in synastry that touches one of your natal venus aspects, will have a flavor of romance.

I put in bold my mercury sextile venus, and his venus square saturn. Since mercury rules gemini, and capricorn rules saturn, even though he has gemini venus- there is a lot of capricorn energy there. Even though I have a capricorn venus, there is a lot of gemini energy there.

So on surface level you may not be able to see how our venus and mars are compatible until you do a bit of digging and comparing of just our natal charts.

Something else that I noticed and found interesting is that it's not only our dominant energies that are being activated but our least dominant energies are as well, especially in our composites (progressed as well) which I posted before and will find a way to link it to this for comparison sake.

My least dominant energies are, mars and neptune. Fire, mutable, leo, aries and cancer.

His are uranus and neptune. Air, mutable, leo, libra, and sagittarius.

My theory comes into play that someone who can balance out these energies in you, can really make you feel like you are growing and improving and changing. Is it a coincidence that my juno is in cancer and his in libra, which are two of our least dominant energies? That we may possibly be trying to attract a balanced and harmonious connection?

I will either add more to this or create another but ummmm I talk a lot so I'm going to put a pause on this one now lololol.