#here's the thing about ballroom dancing. it basically always begins with self-gendering
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fuck my stupid baka life went am I awake already
#just thinking thoughts...#go back to sleep. you still have to conk out for 4 more hours man...#urgh I'm just anxious about shit man#i shouldn't have asked Brazilian guy to come with me I'm mixing my crowds#I'm pretty sure one of the people who are tabling thinks I'm a woman#and the Vietnamese girl who wanted to come with me also thinks I'm a girl#i have no idea when the correct time to bring my gender up is...#here's the thing about ballroom dancing. it basically always begins with self-gendering#'will the boys stand in line here and the girls stand in line here' etc#if you just do that with enough confidence and swagger people will believe it#they have no reason to think you are not the gender you line up as and they can rationalize away all the remaining differences#but when i just Meet People how tf do i tell them HEY i know you think I'm a girl. but i am not#people tell me i need to be less excitable and stop hopping and flapping my hands but i dunno how to not do that...#guess i just haven't been punished enough to quit it
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