#he's a demiboy which is why he's one of my nb muses

[multifandombullshitbabes]

ok this is just a random post abt me musing abt my sexuality and my attraction to people that are not women?

like. im a lesbian. point blank period, thats me. but to me, that not only includes women, but also the non binary spectrum. i just dont want men; theyre not for me, there 0 attraction there

and ive been thinking abt the nuances of that, and how vast the non binary spectrum is, cuz its literally everything that is not binary (men and women). and thats crazy btw like i love it, i love being genderqueer, i love that i have a community that gets it and is so diverse and beautiful and im gonna stop or imma get emotional. anyways.

in the last few days ive been thinking. abt amab individuals who are on the nb spectrum. and i think, before, in my mind (and this is genuinely something that im glad im working on btw), me being attracted to nb ppl who were amab was wrong? because to a lot of ppl thats just men (which is transphobic btw; idk why its so much easier to see afab ppl as nb and thats that, but then amab ppl its another thing? like thats weird, why is it like that?? we need to work on that, seriously)

and ive come to the conclusion, which is the logical one btw, that: if theyre non binary, then theres a chance i will be attracted to them. ofc theres nuances here n there, n sexuality n gender is vast n complex, n if u dont want to, dont put urself in a box that doesnt fit u, but yh!! like. for example: a bigender individual, amab. i would so crush on them (depending on my type n shit like that yknow, its not every bigender person ever lmao, my mind does have certain things it likes more here n there, but i hope this makes sense still). an amab person who is a demiboy or goes by he/they or whatever else; like thats not A Man, thats a person who fucking went through a gender self discovery journey, probably still is there just discovering shit abt themselves and theyre queer and they get it!!!! they know what its like to not be binary!!! and i rly hope this isnt fucking mind blowing or god forbid problematic to yall, cuz it shouldnt!!!

im a lesbian, and that to me means im not attracted to men. anything else fucking goes OBVIOUSLY. i rly hope this is making sense, i rly hope im not saying anything stupid here. if u think i said anything wrong or hurtful or if i should put any trigger/content warnings pls do tell me!!! this is just a post abt me musing abt my sexuality and finally working on this weird issue i was having which shouldnt even fucking be there!! my brain was just being dumb!!

i feel like ppl will do ANYTHING to tell lesbians that they are not, in fact, lesbians, and i feel like this will break those ppls minds. but yh. im a lesbian bitches. thats what i am rn, thats what i think i'll be for a long long long long long time. and yh. rly hope this makes sense.

edit: n i didnt even touch on intersex ppl yknow like. its so complex but its also rly simple, i feel like ppl just like to poke at this and make The Big Issue that it is but rly isnt. yknow??

[othrworldy]

@ittybittylittlebit-hot​ liked this for a starter, based on this

“hi,” petter giggles as he stumbles into his dorm. living away from his family had taken some getting used to, but it was made easier by the fact that he had the coolest, hottest, bestest, prettiest roomate in the world. “pretty pretty pretty,” he mumbles, walking toward them. “you’re so pretty and so hot and angie just broke up me and i need you to fuck me, okay? please?” he runs his hands across their skin, then tugs at their shirt. “i am......so drunk. oh god. i love you.”

[little-kitten-aqua]

I don’t regret making nearly all my RP muses trans or nb cause... it’s less chance of getting random dysphoria when playing them but....

idk man I just feel like everyone gravitates towards cis guy muses and like..... my poor newest baby is an oc and a demiboy.... and no matter how much I emphasize that he dresses and presents very androgynously (I’ve ever said that he gets mistaken for cis girls at times) nobody has really touched that with a ten-foot pole......

*sigh*

and then I got a weird interaction and I’m not sure if this guy (he’s cis) is transphobic, intersex-phobic (I don’t know the specific name for that one), enbyphobic, or just an asshole.

basically, I made a post saying ‘straight people are fucking wild’ cause let’s be real, they are. in the tags I talked about how... like... how do straight guys not like guys? guys are cute! At least, 2d ones are. Lots of cute!!

and he replied with “some guys just don’t like penis”

to..... to a transman.... I have it in my mun about... that I’m trans...

so, like a respectful human being, I corrected him. “not all men have penises.” and then, being the positive force I am, I said ‘trans guys are even cuter than cis guys! And intersex guys? The cutest! Male-aligned nb people are adorable!!”

to which he replied ‘idk if the world is that progressive yet. not like gender matters to me’

.... wtf????????????????????? WTF???? If gender doesn’t matter to you then why tf did you reply to my post?!? What do you mean “the world isn’t that progressive yet????” WHAT!?

and just... now I have a headache and I’m confused